Heart ache dosn't come from the Lord, he said, he came to heal the broken hearted. Where there is pure love, there will always be the thief *around that. Just as a*predator*after a child, so the devil after a heart of love. Many times even in the church, there is opposition for God's blessings. I've seen this happen, where the pastor was overtaken by demon spirit's, and said all kinds of horrible things to a young couple that met there, knew each other's parents, went to bible collage and were engaged to be married, there. He put them down so badly each service, that the guy started crying out loud during the service, and his fiance ran over to her father, in distress. Satan comes HARD against love. He hates it, despises it, and will do everything in his power to destroy it. They almost broke up, but God is*faithful, and restored their relationship, and they did marry. Why would someone cause so much heartache to another,*especially*someone who was supposed to be a leader of the flock. People have their own problems, just because someone stands behind a pulpit, that is the best place to hide, and put the mask on of superiority and authority. In fact this pastor, had 7 children, half of them were strung out on*heroin, and fornicating, drinking, and every other thing, stealing from them, and all the while he preached money instead of love, this is why it does not work. When his kids came to church as young adults they put money in the basket, and left, it is not about money, and many have fallen into this trap of*separating*themselves from the Lord. I pray that where ever your heart aches came from that you will be given a man that loves, and loves you as Jesus loves us. Remember don't let any one make you feel like cheap dirt, we are women, and taken out of man, not out from the dirt, praying you will be blessed with that man you want. In Jesus name. amen.