@Thank you Nancy. I hoped there could be a private group where
one could share various emotions we, as wife feel as we start down
a new unknown path. We do have a physician. She is treating him
for borderline diabetes. How does a wife tell her husband she sees
changes without coming out as sounding mean. I think he knows
something is amiss. But, I needed your prayers because I do indeed
have been asking God... what do I do ? I don't want to burden my
two online friends I have by sharing all the details. They are great
support as far as listening, and praying for us, but I know with a group
it is understood we aren't burdening one another, but supporting,
Just like you did. I thank you so much for catching this and understanding.
When a wife has been accustomed to having a strong, hard working,
intelligent husband for nearly 50 yrs. and these changes begin to show
up, I am like, what do I do? He has always kept our home updated and
it still is. But there are some things needing to be done and he sort of
gets like a blank look and honestly does not feel like doing it. WE have
hired some things done. He isn't quite there..... by that I mean he is
not totally mentally off balance, and it could be his carotid arteries are
blocked, however, they do keep him checked. Oxygen to the brain due
to apnea ? We will see our cardiologist in August. In mean time I will
try to convince him to see our family doctor and maybe give her a heads
up before he sees her. I think she thinks I am the one with the problem
by sharing things I see going downward with him, and he tells her he is
fine.
I am sorry, I didn't mean to ramble on. Again thank you for the prayer
and I am going to take that to heart and believe God has heard it and
His will be done, and He will guide me every step of the way. In mean
time we need to pray my nerves can withstand what I can't not change.
God bless you.