I went to this church that was out of town in the middle of nowhere here in my area. I really liked it a bunch. There was some music played, at the very beginning, they played a few songs while people came in and sat down. Then they ended their set, and the pastor came up to the stage and began talking. I really liked his message, it really spoke to me and encouraged me, and I even really felt like I learned something, and was given a new way to look at things.
The people there were polite, but they didnt make you feel like you were being forced into their "collective" or anything : p It was a very pleasant experience and I really liked that church alot.
Wish I could still go to it. Sadly I cannot drive, and my job has just finally started giving me sundays off regularly. Maybe I can find a way to start going there again.