I was talking to a woman I have known for a long time, when the topic of divorce came up. In the course of the conversation, she mentioned that she had been divorced 5 times. She is in her late 40's. The idea of being divorced 5 times just bore a hole in my head, because I cannot fathom it. I understand we are in a different day and age, and sadly divorce is becoming more common place. There are times when it is also totally out of nowhere, as in the case of adultery. So I am not saying I am "against" divorced people nor would I necessarily be hesitant of marrying a divorced woman. Is there a point though that a person divorces X many times where you become concerned? Would you need to know the circumstances of each divorce or would that make a difference?