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I have an apartment with two other girls who are also Christians. One of the girls is engaged to a guy who lives in the downstairs apartment of the house. He is up here all the time. My other roommate and I talked to her in September and asked for him to have a time where he goes downstairs at night (1:00am, although he ignores that) and does not come up until 8:30am. They go to sleep together every night, and spend every waking moment together. Friends have girls nights or guys nights, but neither of them go because they would not be together. My other roommate and I wanted to have a time where the three of us talked, had fun, and hung out together without her fiancé. She said, “Good luck with that.” We are both discouraged about this and think that they need to spend time with others...keep their friendships they had before they were engaged. Obviously, it is good they like to be together, but is there some sort of balance?
Do you think it is healthy for a couple to spend all their time together and not hang out with other people around them? Also, what are your thoughts about suggesting that he leaves when she goes to sleep instead of him going to sleep with her?
Do you think it is healthy for a couple to spend all their time together and not hang out with other people around them? Also, what are your thoughts about suggesting that he leaves when she goes to sleep instead of him going to sleep with her?