Actually you come across as the pervert. Maybe you are sincere, but the BIBLE does say 'avoid all appearances of evil'. Clearly people view your request to have a minor privately contact you as looking evil. And that rather than expressing an understanding you lash out at people who express concern for this, making your motives and character look even more suspect. If you don't have a level of understanding to see how wrong your offer looks and treat people respectfully who question you over it, not to mention try to give you an awareness that your information could be public, in an effort to help you, then what about you reflects any qualities that would be of benefit to this young girl? You have only served to make yourself look worse, both in the eyes of the users, and possibly in the eyes of the moderators.
I have reported your post asking a minor to contact you privately, and i'm sure i'm not the only one.