Unusual Favorites About The Opposite Gender

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helloIamRuthie

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tumblr_m852x5bEOf1rai2tco1_500.jpg i would marry this guy
 

rachelsedge

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Seems less like an "Unusual Favorites" and more a "What are you attracted to". :p

I like strong forearms and hands. I also tend to find dark haired men more attractive, but it's odd because three of my crushes back in college were all light-haired.

I also love great smiles. They melt my heart.

I like guys that are mature (I am mature) but on the flip side, sometimes I'm not. I like bubbles and cheese pizza and I giggle easily. By "giggly" I don't mean air-headed giggles, I just express my emotions more. Some people may smile or laugh inwardly while they watch their TV shows. I just laugh out loud. So if he's okay with that and not annoyed, then that would be attractive.

I also like when guys wear converse shoes.

I don't take marriage lightly but if John Krasinski asked me to marry him, I'd probably have to say yes.
 
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heirofChrist

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amen.. physical attraction is a sign of lust which comes forth from an evil heart if the intentions are only on the physical it's no good. I'm not saying people might not want someone who takes care of themselves but biblical beauty is the greatest.. so you're not the only "weird" one lol
 
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Tintin

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Physical attraction isn't a sign of lust, it can easily lead to lust but it isn't lust in and of itself. God made us to be drawn to beauty and truth. Naturally, a person's holistic character (spiritual etc.) is more important but I think it's a bit much to say that it's wrong to be physically attracted to people. It's what you do with such thoughts, that leads to lust or appreciation of God's beauty.
 
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heirofChrist

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never thought of it like that... you are right
 

rachelsedge

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amen.. physical attraction is a sign of lust which comes forth from an evil heart if the intentions are only on the physical it's no good. I'm not saying people might not want someone who takes care of themselves but biblical beauty is the greatest.. so you're not the only "weird" one lol
Many times in the Bible women are described as beautiful, and men as handsome (Esther and David, to name a few). It's not automatically sinful and lustful to be attracted to someone because of how they look. It's how far you let those thoughts go.
 
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BCF06

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first and fore most must be a man of god! not just someone who says they are but lives their life all crazy. he has to be a real man of god :) also i have a weird attraction to arms and wrists so nice arms or wrists. i like boney wrists, he has to have nice eyes, doesn't matter what color they just have to be captivating, and has to be very romantic :) :cool: i also like really nerdy dudes that are shy lol
Wow this exactly fits a descrption of myself and my wrists are boney lol and I woluldn't say I'm nerdy but I do look the part lol. Hmmm