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hey everybody..i just had a couple questions concerning my rebellious 3year old son.
i live in small country with only half a million and 80% of those ppl spent their time gossipping about others so i dont have any friends here..no christian close ones i can talk to atleast.i mean i could talk to my sisters but i prefer a christian opinion. i hope you guys can help me out.
so here's the problem...im a single mom who still goes to college and lives at home with her parents and son.(also my sisters and brother) i dont have a job so im home with my son all day.he has been so spoiled by my parents that he rebellious now..he talks back to my parents,hits them,screams at them if he doesnt get his way,he kicks and slaps his 2year old niece.when i noticed all these things i started spanking him so now he only listens when im around.since my parents dont spank him i have to do it everytime he disobeys them..they dont like to spank,every now and then they do spank but my son just laughs at them.everybody in the house is getting tired of his behavior..
the real problem is i spent alll daay..yelling at him spanking or piching him..its crazy..i dont wanna do this anymore..i want to find a better way to raise my son...i feel like im physically abusing him...its just that i know how my parents spoiled me and how rebellious i turned out to be and made some selfish decision beacause of that and i dont want that to happen with my son....i dont want him making the same mistakes i did...so i wanna train him to be a godly well mannered young man...my parents are not christian so they dont bring him up that way so i feel i have to work harder at bringing him up like God would want me too.
i really dont know what to do...the personal thing imalso struggeling with is being in controle of my anger...im tryna get a hold of it with Gods help..but i dont know how to get a hold of this anger problem if i have 3year old rebellious son who only listens when i spank...im just exhausted...tired of yelling all day long so i spank...i want to stop this now because i feel like imstarting to regret him being my son..i know its an awful thing to say and im ashamed of saying this but its getting a hold of me and im scared that one day i might hit him soo hard that he has to go to the hospital. i just feel more hate than love towards him and i want to do something about..i've been praying about tis for awhile but im not gettin anything..im just tired of not having anyone to talk too so that frustrates me too..i feel like im alone in this world and no one tangible to talk too..i didnt wanna come here and tell yall my problem but i decided to do it anyway because i dont have anyone else to talk to about it and the situation is just getting worse and i want it to stop.RIGHT NOW...
soo are there any moms out there who are experienced and went through the same thing or know what to tell me... please help me....i really wanna change...i want God to be pleased with me and right now he's just shaking his head at me..
God bless
i live in small country with only half a million and 80% of those ppl spent their time gossipping about others so i dont have any friends here..no christian close ones i can talk to atleast.i mean i could talk to my sisters but i prefer a christian opinion. i hope you guys can help me out.
so here's the problem...im a single mom who still goes to college and lives at home with her parents and son.(also my sisters and brother) i dont have a job so im home with my son all day.he has been so spoiled by my parents that he rebellious now..he talks back to my parents,hits them,screams at them if he doesnt get his way,he kicks and slaps his 2year old niece.when i noticed all these things i started spanking him so now he only listens when im around.since my parents dont spank him i have to do it everytime he disobeys them..they dont like to spank,every now and then they do spank but my son just laughs at them.everybody in the house is getting tired of his behavior..
the real problem is i spent alll daay..yelling at him spanking or piching him..its crazy..i dont wanna do this anymore..i want to find a better way to raise my son...i feel like im physically abusing him...its just that i know how my parents spoiled me and how rebellious i turned out to be and made some selfish decision beacause of that and i dont want that to happen with my son....i dont want him making the same mistakes i did...so i wanna train him to be a godly well mannered young man...my parents are not christian so they dont bring him up that way so i feel i have to work harder at bringing him up like God would want me too.
i really dont know what to do...the personal thing imalso struggeling with is being in controle of my anger...im tryna get a hold of it with Gods help..but i dont know how to get a hold of this anger problem if i have 3year old rebellious son who only listens when i spank...im just exhausted...tired of yelling all day long so i spank...i want to stop this now because i feel like imstarting to regret him being my son..i know its an awful thing to say and im ashamed of saying this but its getting a hold of me and im scared that one day i might hit him soo hard that he has to go to the hospital. i just feel more hate than love towards him and i want to do something about..i've been praying about tis for awhile but im not gettin anything..im just tired of not having anyone to talk too so that frustrates me too..i feel like im alone in this world and no one tangible to talk too..i didnt wanna come here and tell yall my problem but i decided to do it anyway because i dont have anyone else to talk to about it and the situation is just getting worse and i want it to stop.RIGHT NOW...
soo are there any moms out there who are experienced and went through the same thing or know what to tell me... please help me....i really wanna change...i want God to be pleased with me and right now he's just shaking his head at me..
God bless