Well, I hear you, but there are people who really love the Lord, (they do);
but through a past experience they are made afraid of the gifts.
Many were in churches and felt pressured to be a certain level of righteousness. (In their own minds)
See,........the thing about corporate worship that is based on gifts is that some get scared, others get offended because they "don't measure up" to whatever they think is the normal state of righteousness.
No one can judge the righteousness of another in worship, but sadly it is done. - Many do it to themselves by comparing.
- "I'm not being moved like the others" - (God! What's wrong with me!?!)
- - The Holy Spirit is peaceable, doesn't force anything.
Jesus loses none, people need to not reject what is His will for them.