8-9 years ago my friend introduced me and one of his friends to each other. Really nice girl who was planning to start studying theology, year later God led me to meet girl who need friend and someone who care. half year from that, I found out that i had emotions to both of these girls. Things passed and my relationship with the one God "introduced" got deeper, it wasn't easy but eventually we married and then to our sadness the marriage got broken (I don't mind to explain reasons in this post)
2 years ago I met girl in internet. Her life was difficult and year ago God asked me: "Love her with my love. Her life depends on it" AND i met recently another girl "accidentally" trough my friend. Charming and cheerful girl. And with these two i find myself in same situation as 8 years ago.
I like them both, i have the first one close friendship and the second is from my side at least a friend.
The first one I mentioned though lives too far for meeting (Without God's active help meeting her is nearly impossible. i would need like 1 year salary to travel to her for max 1 week, the other lives nearby city where I got good connections.)
The girl I didn't "chose" 8 years ago is still my friend and now married. (ironically to me for her the relationship started same time when my relationship with the other girl ended)
Anyone else have this kind of situation(s) in life? How you dealt it?
2 years ago I met girl in internet. Her life was difficult and year ago God asked me: "Love her with my love. Her life depends on it" AND i met recently another girl "accidentally" trough my friend. Charming and cheerful girl. And with these two i find myself in same situation as 8 years ago.
I like them both, i have the first one close friendship and the second is from my side at least a friend.
The first one I mentioned though lives too far for meeting (Without God's active help meeting her is nearly impossible. i would need like 1 year salary to travel to her for max 1 week, the other lives nearby city where I got good connections.)
The girl I didn't "chose" 8 years ago is still my friend and now married. (ironically to me for her the relationship started same time when my relationship with the other girl ended)
Anyone else have this kind of situation(s) in life? How you dealt it?