Your Personal Demons. Would You Marry Someone With The Same Struggles?

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Would You Marry Someone with the Same Personal Demons?

  • I struggle with smoking and want to date a NON smoker.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I struggle with smoking and want to date a smoker.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I struggle with alcohol and want to date someone who DOES NOT drink.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I struggle with alcohol and want to date someone who drinks or also struggles with alcohol.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I struggle with porn and want to date someone who DOESN'T struggle with it.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I struggle with porn and want to date someone with the same issue.

    Votes: 2 12.5%
  • I have some issues I struggle with and could accept those same issues in another person.

    Votes: 9 56.3%
  • I want to be with someone who does NOT have the same issues as me.

    Votes: 3 18.8%
  • I want to date someone with COMPLETELY DIFFERENT issues than me.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I could handle some of the same issues as me but not others in another person.

    Votes: 4 25.0%
  • I believe the right person will make my issues go away.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I have experienced thinking someone could "save" me but found out it doesn't work.

    Votes: 5 31.3%
  • I only think I have these issues because I haven't found the right person.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I would feel guilty about putting my issues on another person.

    Votes: 5 31.3%
  • I would NOT feel guilty about putting my issues on another person--that's what they're there for!

    Votes: 3 18.8%
  • If God told me to stay single in order to deal with my issues, I would.

    Votes: 7 43.8%
  • If I found myself relying more on a person than God, I would break off the relationship.

    Votes: 2 12.5%
  • I choose to remain alone because I don't want to burden another person with my issues.

    Votes: 2 12.5%
  • I am afraid that no one can love me because of my issues.

    Votes: 3 18.8%
  • I believe there is someone out there who can love and support me the way I am.

    Votes: 10 62.5%
  • I could be with and support a person with issues different than mine.

    Votes: 9 56.3%
  • I want to be a support person to someone with the same issues.

    Votes: 4 25.0%
  • I want someone with NO issues and actually believe I can find this!!

    Votes: 1 6.3%
  • I have been through some of these situations... I have a story to share in my post.

    Votes: 1 6.3%
  • I have NOT been through any of this but I feel that... (please share in your post.)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Other--I have something else to say...

    Votes: 2 12.5%

  • Total voters
    16

PopClick

Senior Member
Aug 12, 2011
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#41
I agree with you, Pop. You change the locks and I'll help (wo)man the fort.
:D I've actually been trying to hound him in other threads, but he never goes back to them to respond. He did send me a lovely private message once, accusing me of being involved in all kinds of awful stuff. It was very touching. I saved it, and re-read it all the time. :rolleyes:
 

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
May 23, 2009
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#42
:D I've actually been trying to hound him in other threads, but he never goes back to them to respond. He did send me a lovely private message once, accusing me of being involved in all kinds of awful stuff. It was very touching. I saved it, and re-read it all the time. :rolleyes:
What I really hope you did was save it and send it to the mods.

I don't play when it comes to things like that and I sure hope he wasn't harassing you. And yes, I agree, he NEVER answers when people in threads respond to his post. He just likes to zip in, tell everyone they're going to hell, and leaves.

Christianity at its finest. :rolleyes:
 

PopClick

Senior Member
Aug 12, 2011
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#47
What? Guys DON'T ask to be locked in your basement? That's not what they keep telling me... :confused:
 

PopClick

Senior Member
Aug 12, 2011
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#48
What I really hope you did was save it and send it to the mods.

I don't play when it comes to things like that and I sure hope he wasn't harassing you. And yes, I agree, he NEVER answers when people in threads respond to his post. He just likes to zip in, tell everyone they're going to hell, and leaves.

Christianity at its finest. :rolleyes:
I actually just kind of laughed it off. But his threads are in constant danger of me crashing them, lol.

Speaking of crashing... ~Hangs head and exits stage left~
 
Feb 10, 2008
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#49
Enter edgar allen poe...

I then took up three planks from the flooring of the chamber, and deposited all between the scantlings. I then replaced the boards so cleverly, so cunningly, that no human eye --not even his --could have detected any thing wrong. There was nothing to wash out --no stain of any kind --no blood-spot whatever. I had been too wary for that. A tub had caught all --ha! ha!

When I had made an end of these labors, it was four o'clock --still dark as midnight. As the bell sounded the hour, there came a knocking at the street door. I went down to open it with a light heart, --for what had I now to fear? There entered three men, who introduced themselves, with perfect suavity, as officers of the police. A shriek had been heard by a neighbour during the night; suspicion of foul play had been aroused; information had been lodged at the police office, and they (the officers) had been deputed to search the premises.
 
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jevanj

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#50
agree with that,, =)