DEFENSE MECHANISMS

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Defense or Coping Mechanisms are descriptions for certain forms of human behaviors
that attempt to adapt to situations, circumstances and mindset. All humans respond to
their environment and stimulus from the environment in some way. Scripture tells
us that
there are Behaviors,
and Consequences, that there are certain behaviors that lead to
suffering, others that lead to spiritual peace. Scripture tells
of Sowing and Reaping, that
is, that our actions, apart from the grace of God, can have dire consequences, while we
walk in darkness, and that the walk in the light of the truth of scriptural principles
becomes our 'spiritual armor'.

This is not a thread on "Christian Psychology" or Psychology at all. Those might be good
topics for other threads. This is not about "man's words", but is about how to relate
scriptural principles, to concepts and themes of behavior and consequence. There is
another thread to discuss SPIRITS and DEMONS (See link below).

This thread is to discuss the PARTICULAR Mechanisms and concepts of --

1) TRANSFERENCE

2) PROJECTION

3) IDENTIFICATION

4) RATIONALIZATION and

5) SCAPEGOATING


and if others want to share other 'Defense Mechanisms' AS THEY APPLY TO SCRIPTURAL
PRINCIPLES
, that is welcome also - I won't offer that up myself. The five Mechanisms
above can be found throughout scripture, they are a large part of the
modus operandii of
the Old Testament Ritual Law;

* Animal Sacrifice for atonement
* Dress up
* Ritual Ceremonies
* Symbols and Icons
* Payments and Punishments
* Scapegoating

What do these terms mean, and how might we detect them in scripture, and in society
and our own personal lives?

1) Transference (Paternal Transference and Maternal Transference)
Is the redirection of attitudes and emotions towards a substitute. For
example, an employee may see his manager as a father figure (paternal
transference), especially if the employee had a difficult relationship with
his father during childhood.

Typically, the pattern projected onto the other person comes from a
childhood relationship. This may be from an actual person, such a
parent or an idealized figure. This transfers both power and also
expectation. "If you treat me as a parent, I can tell you what to do, but
you will also expect me to care for you.
" This can have both positive
and negative outcomes.



[SIZE=-1]2) Projection (also projective identification)
Projection, also called projective identification, involves the tendency
to see your own unacceptable desires in other people. In other words,
the desires are still there, but they're not your desires anymore. The
objective is to make yourself feel superior.
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An important motive for projection lies in the 'projector's' wish to
control the person who is reminding them of their low self-esteem, or
feelings of inferiority, inadequcy and worthlessness, to prevent him or
her from making the 'projector' feel bad.


Transference vs projection

Transference and projection are not the same thing. Projection is
caused by the transference. Transference is activated in the person
(probably through unmet emotional needs as a child), and projection is
the release of that transference out of the person.


Link-->> Definitions in psychology: narcissism, splitting, paranoia etc.

3) Idenitification


Identification occurs when a person changes apparent facets of their
personality such that they appear to be more like other people. This
process may be to be copy specific people or it may be to change to an
idealized prototype.

This generally happens as a subconscious process, as opposed to
being a more conscious mimicking, although these processes may
occur together, as the person consciously as well as subconsciously
wants to be like the other person.

Areas of identification may include external elements, such as clothing
and hair styles (which may be chosen without consciously realizing the
influences that are at play) as well as internal factors such as beliefs,
values and attitudes.

Example


A girl dresses like her friends, as much because she likes the garb as
any conscious desire to be like them.

A person in a meeting adopts similar body language to their manager,
and tend to take the same viewpoint.

Two people in a party meet and each finds the other very attractive.
Between them they both adjust their views and postures to be more
similar to one another.

Link-->> Coping Mechanisms

4) Rationalization

When something happens that we find difficult to accept, then we will
make up a logical reason why it has happened.


The target of rationalization is usually something that we have done,
such as being unkind to another person. It may also be used when
something happens independent of us which causes us discomfort,
such as when a friend is unkind to us.

We rationalize to ourselves. We also find it very important to rationalize
to other people, even those we do not know.

Example


A person evades paying taxes and then rationalizes it by talking about
how the government wastes money (and how it is better for people to
keep what they can).

A man buys a expensive car and then tells people his old car was very
unreliable, very unsafe, etc.

Link-->> Coping Mechanisms

5) Scapegoating

Scapegoating: Process in which the mechanisms of projection or
displacement are utilized in focusing feelings of aggression, hostility,
frustration, etc., upon another individual or group; the amount of blame
being unwarranted.

Link-->> Scapegoating definition - Scapegoating description - Health Terms


See Also:

Seven Demons, Seven Deadly Sins - for a discussion on Spirits, Demons, Sin

http://christianchat.com/bible-discussion-forum/27587-seven-demons-seven-deadly-sins.html
 
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AnandaHya

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ok you have now analyzed HUMAN coping mechanisms, next you should move in to the defenses God gives us..... like His shield of Faith, helmet of salvation, breastplate of righteousness, belt of truth, etc.

showing how God's way is superior to Man's methods......
 

pickles

Senior Member
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A simple way to sum it all up'
In my life I have had many things happen that were tramitizing or heartbreaking.
One of the things one does, as i did myself is to take this trama and place some kind of replacement or fill that injury..
one choice, some people develop a bad habit of a sin that separates one frm the presance of Jesus.
Or instead, one calls on Jesus to fill that injury, trama, bringing His presance into that void.
thus, in flesh filled, still trying to heal or overcome.
In Jesus filled, healed and freed from the injury or trama.

in Jesus, God bless.
pickles
 
May 2, 2011
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ok you have now analyzed HUMAN coping mechanisms, next you should move in to the defenses God gives us..... like His shield of Faith, helmet of salvation, breastplate of righteousness, belt of truth, etc.

showing how God's way is superior to Man's methods......

Did that in the Opening Post:

Defense or Coping Mechanisms are descriptions for certain
forms of human behaviors that attempt to adapt to situations, circumstances and
mindset. All humans respond to their environment and stimulus from the environment in
some way. Scripture tells
us that there are Behaviors, and Consequences, that there are
certain behaviors that lead to suffering, others that lead to spiritual peace. Scripture tells
of Sowing and Reaping, that is, that our actions, apart from the grace of God, can have
dire consequences, while we walk in darkness,
and that the walk in the light of
the truth of scriptural principles becomes our 'spiritual armor'.
and certainly this is NOT an attempt at the Logical Fallacy of RED
HERRING, that is, I am NOT trying to draw attention away from
Spiritual Armor, etc. But it is Shining Light in the Dark Places of
Defense Mechanisms.


But please comment on the Defense Mechanisms posted, where we see them in scripture,
Old and New, and how we can apply this understanding to our theology, doctrine, and walk
...


See also, The Thread in this Forum:

Logical Fallacies
Link
-->>
http://christianchat.com/bible-discussion-forum/29676-logical-fallacies.html



 
May 2, 2011
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A simple way to sum it all up'
In my life I have had many things happen that were tramitizing or heartbreaking.
One of the things one does, as i did myself is to take this trama and place some kind of replacement or fill that injury..
one choice, some people develop a bad habit of a sin that separates one frm the presance of Jesus.
Or instead, one calls on Jesus to fill that injury, trama, bringing His presance into that void.
thus, in flesh filled, still trying to heal or overcome.
In Jesus filled, healed and freed from the injury or trama.

in Jesus, God bless.
pickles

Thank you for the testimony and example. "Replacement Therapy" is indeed powerful
and valuable. It brings to mind the scriptures regarding seven demons who leave, but
they are not replaced by anything, later they return and are worse than at the first ...


Do you see the particular items listed in the Opening Post as a form of Defense
Mechanism in the Old or New Testaments? Do you see them in Society at large, in Schools
or in Corporate Dens, do you see them at work in Church, Religion, Doctrinal areas?




 
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Defense Mechanisms, Strongholds, and Flesh Patterns
STRONGHOLDS: (I think Pickles said all this in a summary of Ten Lines or Less -- Yeah Pickles! -- Anandahya reminded us about our "Spiritual Armor")

Defense mechanisms are similar in concept to what the Bible calls strongholds, which Paul talks about tearing down in 2 Corinthians 10:3-5,
“The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” (2 Corinthians 10:3-5)
Strongholds are mental habit patterns of thought. They are memory traces burned into our minds over time or by the trauma of certain experiences. Some Christian groups call them flesh patterns. They represent the old nature, i.e. how I learned to live my life independently of God. A mental stronghold is like tire grooves in a dirt road that has been traveled over and over again. If one drives that way long enough, it wouldn’t even become necessary to steer the car. It would naturally follow those grooves and any attempt to steer out of them would be met with great resistance.

For instance, an inferiority complex is a stronghold. We weren’t born inferior to one another, but many began to believe that way because of the world system in which they were raised. Somebody always did better on their exams, ran faster, looked prettier, played better, had more money, a better job, a bigger house, more education, etc., etc., ad nauseam. How could one not develop some sense of inferiority in our fallen world or struggle with their identity and sense of worth?

The world has recognized that most people do not have a healthy sense of who they are, and most struggle with a poor sense of worth. Some people respond by trying to be prettier, stronger, wealthier, and more popular than anyone else. They are going to beat this fallen world system. Other people employ more humane approaches and try to build up the self-esteem of those who are beaten down by the system. Stroking one another’s egos and picking ourselves up by our own bootstraps won’t work, however. Others rebel against the system and become part of the counterculture. In the end, everyone loses in the kingdom of self-sufficiency. [We are made up of body and mind, hardware and software if you will].

This brings up a critical question. What is the primary cause for our mental and emotional problems? Is it the hardware or the software? Is the cause neurological or psycho/spiritual? From a biblical perspective you would have to conclude it is primarily the software. Of course we can have neurological and biochemical problems such as organic brain syndrome, Alzheimer’s disease, and strokes, but the major emphasis in Scripture is to renew our minds and live by faith. The church should work in harmony with the medical profession, which has the right to prescribe medication. However, to believe that all our mental and emotional problems can be dealt with solely by medication is simply wrong and anything but holistic.

Biblical Faith Leads to Wholeness
The presence of God in our lives will affect even our physical being. According to the words of Paul,
“He who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through His Spirit who dwells in you” (Romans 8:11)
This is evident when we walk by the Spirit. The fruit of the Spirit is love (the character of God), joy (the antithesis of depression), peace (the antithesis of anxiety), and patience (the antithesis of anger), kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law” (Galatians 5:22,23).
The connection between the initiating cause, who is the Spirit of truth working in our lives, and the end result (self-control) is the mind which directs the brain and that in turn regulates all our glands and muscular movements.
Jesus asked the blind men, “‘Do you believe that I am able to do this? They said to Him, ‘Yes Lord.’ Then He touched their eyes, saying, ‘It shall be done to you according to your faith’” (Matthew. 9:28,29).
The external power of Jesus was made effective by their choice to believe. In other words, the Lord chose to bring about a physical healing through their conscious choice to believe. Is this not true in every other aspect of life?
We are saved by faith (Ephesians 2:8), sanctified by faith (Galatians 3:3-5), and we walk or live by faith (2 Corinthians 5:7).
God never bypasses our mind. He works through our minds, and we are transformed by the renewing of our minds. The Lord makes possible the renewing of our minds by His very presence in our lives. We respond in faith by choosing to believe the truth and live by the power of the Holy Spirit and then we will not carry out the desires of the flesh (Galatians 5:16).
Jesus is “the way (how we ought to live), and the truth (what we ought to believe), and the life (our spiritual union with God where the power to live comes from)” (John 14:6).
The proper operation of spiritual gifts also incorporates the use of our minds. Paul wrote,
“I will pray with the Spirit and I will pray with the mind also; I will sing with the Spirit and I will sing with the mind also” (1 Corinthians 14:15).
Take Captive Every Thought
I generally agree with the cognitive approach to therapy since we are called to repent and be transformed by the renewing of our mind. We are saved and sanctified by faith, therefore we must learn to know and choose to believe the truth. In our western world, however, there are two other critical issues that are often overlooked causing us to stop short of a complete answer and total recovery.
1) To understand the spiritual battle for our minds, and

2) To abide in Christ.
Jesus said, “The good man out of the good treasure in his heart brings forth what is good; and the evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth what is evil; for his mouth speaks from that which fills his heart” (Luke 6:45).
We have to be very careful what we put into our minds, which is why Paul admonished us to,
“take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:5).
It doesn’t make any difference whether the thought originated from the television set, the radio, a book, a speaker, from our own memory bank, an original thought of our own, or from the father of lies. We must take “every” thought captive to the obedience of Christ.

If what we are thinking is not true according to God’s word then don’t pay attention to it. Instead, do what the Apostle Paul admonished us to do.
“Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things” (Philippians 4:8).
You don’t get rid of negative thoughts by trying not to think them. You overcome them by choosing the truth and keep choosing the truth until the negative thoughts are drowned out or completely replaced by the truth. You let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts by letting the words of Christ richly dwell within you. If you want to experience the freedom that Christ purchased for you and have a peace of mind that passes all understanding, then choose to think only those thoughts that agree with the Word of God.

Just as in a computer, it is not always easy to detect a virus in our own belief system, because the major strategy of the enemy is deception. Every Christian is subject to tempting, accusing, and deceiving thoughts. That is why we are to put on the armor of God and more specifically the shield of faith, which deflects Satan’s fiery darts aimed at our minds. The most devious of his schemes is deception, because if you were tempted you would know it, if you were accused you would know it, but if you were deceived you wouldn’t know it. This strategy was used from the very beginning when Eve was deceived and believed a lie. That is why Jesus prays for those who would follow Him,
“I do not ask You to take them out of the world, but to keep them from the evil one . . . Sanctify them in the truth; Your word is truth” (John 17:15-17).
Paul writes,
“But I am afraid that, as the serpent deceived Eve by his craftiness, your minds will be led astray from the simplicity and purity of devotion to Christ” (2 Corinthians 11:3).
Commenting about the later days of the church age, Paul wrote,
“But the Spirit explicitly says that in later times some will fall away from the faith, paying attention to deceitful spirits and doctrines taught by demons” (1 Timothy 4:1).
“They have healed the brokenness of My people superficially, saying, ‘Peace, peace,’ but there is no peace” (Jeremiah 6:14).
His words read like a modern day commentary of Colossians 2:8,
“See to it that no one takes you captive through philosophy and empty deception, according to the tradition of men, according to the elementary principles of the world, rather than according to Christ.” (Colossians 2:8)
Repentance begins by admitting I am wrong and what I believe is not true. I choose not to believe that any more and I choose to believe the truth according to the Word of God. Renewing our mind is essential for sanctification, and the truth will set us free, but if that is all we do then living the Christian life is nothing more than an intellectual exercise. Freedom cannot be fully realized without the presence of God. When asked by the Pharisees what the greatest commandment is, Jesus said,
“‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the great and foremost commandment. The second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself’” (Matthew 22:37-39).
God is the one who grants repentance and the Holy Spirit leads the client into all truth. The words of Christ are not enough. We need the life of Christ, which enables us to live what we have chosen to believe.

Link -->> FICMI: The Mesage of Freedom In Christ, 8

STRONGHOLDS:
Strong's G3794 - ochyrōma

ὀχύρωμα
Transliteration - ochyrōma
Pronunciation - o-khü'-rō-mä
Part of Speech - neuter noun
Root Word (Etymology) -From a remote derivative of ἔχω (G2192) (meaning to fortify, through the idea of holding safely)

Outline of Biblical Usage
1) a castle, stronghold, fortress, fastness
2) anything on which one relies
a) of the arguments and reasonings by which a disputant endeavours to fortify his opinion and defend it against his opponent