"Judge not lest you be judged"
Is "blunt" coming from Jesus? The Fruit of the Spirit produces love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, etc."
Living to oneself produces the opposite, which in this case would be "blunt".
Perhaps his bride was not able to assist and needed the support at home, perhaps Jesus would direct you to be out looking and in this case directed the father to be with her in prayer. Jesus didn't go to Lazarus right away, He tarried 2 days, would you have judged Jesus with the same measure? We know He was without sin, should we impute sin to Him? We know He did the will of the Father, and He is our model of how to live.
Lets do the same here as we are called to do and give thanks lest we bring trouble to our own houses through disobedience.
Blessings