sex before marriage?

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sex b4 marriage


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frankforgod87

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having sex before marriage is not good, becouse god created each of us in order to share with our future wife or husband ,wonderful details, that is spoiled when we make sins against our bodies, sex is fantastic if you have it inside marriage
One example is when you have something new that was protected and cared only for you,than something that has cuts and is dirty, which of them will you appreciate more?, i don't mean that if you had sex before marriage, you would be a lost case,because god cleans us every day and forgives us when we repent of our sins
the only difference is the great blessings that we lose,when we do your own will,without obedience to god
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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If you have sex before marriage you'll get the clap
 
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GreenNnice

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If God says, we should not have sex before marriage, that should settle it, but, ultimately each of our lives are unique from God and you need to have a personal relationship wuth Him. I PERSONALLY don't think God would ever say sex b4 marriage but I am not He. Regardkess, be withGod, plug into the bibible and other good things like church that He will have you do. FOLLOW HIM, THEE LORD LEADS. AND NEVER FEEL GUILTY FOR SOMETHING YOU'VE DONE IN PAST, for our God, the one true God, is a God of love, He IS love, and oh how He loves you. And me :)
 
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swata

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well this is a fun one !i say no to sex before marrage as ive been there . but it usually happens before youre a christian and the damage is done . if not YOU SHOULD KNOW BETTER !!! lol
sex is the only way that you as people can say i TRULY LOVE YOU. but if in your heart its all about how good it feels and not the true meaning ,then youve got problems (you told a BIG lie and god knows about it !!!!)
 
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Breelynn

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Coming from someone who isn't married and has had sex i know that having sex before marriage is the not right thing to do. For one the bible is clearly against it & two it hurts you emotionally and mentally. Plus it adds a temptation that Satan can use against you. JUST SAY NO!!!
 
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preschoolteacher24

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dude...where are the single christian guys o.0
There hiding lol...just kidding just join the chatrooms youll see nice ones in there... not many men go on these I guess...

I I have too say i always believed on waiting my whole life ...and then one person came by and really hurt.. me i fell.. but i said never again... from now... doing that before marriage not a good feeling.. lots of emotional hurt fi it ends...so not good to do before marriage.. i regret it everyday...
 
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clarymatthew

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well of course you should wait, anyone who is christian know thats theres no sex before marriage. it's called fornacation, and no fornacator has any inhairitance in the kingdome of God. thats pretty simple, in the world they may debate over the truths of the bible so they can freely sin but Christians should not, God bless
 
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GreenNnice

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Well said about perfume, dressing different around person you like. just be yourself, let the Lord lead you to know The One thru the indwelling knowledge freely given you thru the Holy Spirit. Sex b4 marriage is somwthint God has forgiven you of so forgive yourself, make a pact thru powerful, contrite trembling prayer to God and then, it's simple as the Lord leads. Just follow the Holy Spirit, your helper and friend. And if you think you can only have the bible and God's teachings in your life, think again. God has given the power of the Holy Spirit to ANYONE who asks mercifully and graciously and genuinely :)
 
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star26

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definitely no sex before marriage!!!
 
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clarymatthew

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im a guy and not married , but dont think i will be getting mirried any time soon, just dont think it's something to just jump into, i really would LOVE to be married, to have someone physically there to love in that way. but it must be real and not just emotions, while emotions r great they can really get in the way.
 
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coolman

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there is need for us christians , to understand the fact that sex before marriage is biblical
 
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Downunderdolphin

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no sex before marriage but as someone pointed out this often happens before one is a Christian. We can take comfort in knowing that our God is a forgiving God.
 

Liamson

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Have you ever just wanted to play the bad guy?

This thread makes me want to. We have 29 pages of the same thing over and over and over again. "Sex b4 marriage bad." "Sex before marriage is wrong." "Sex before marriage is a sin." etc.

TWENTY-NINE PAGES!!!!!

Like my man Corbin said,"She knows its a Multi-pass!"

29 pages.... and its not even a discussion, everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, is pretty much on the same page. No one is disagreeing with what is being said but, its become a bit like a broken record. If this discussion were a war, a line of people that stretches on for miles, would be spitting in the ashes of a city thats been utterly sacked to its foundations.

I'm left to wonder how much more beating this dead horse needs.

Perhaps I should just go and create a "Satan is Evil?" thread.
 
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Jullianna

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LIAMSON...THANK YOU!!!!!!!! *stands and applauds*
 
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Write4him

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You know i as a teenager feel pressure, i think most teenagers want to wait but they feel lame. I am stil a virgin and i intend to stay that way till im married of course
 
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sweet_eyes

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look, my thread is still going....29 pages!!!!! new question how do u handle temptation???
 
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