hey.... i don't know what your age is, but to the OP, i feel somehow duty bound to encourage you to never use the words "my love story" and "disney" in the same sentence. not to discourage you, but to remind you those stories exist to elicit powerful emotions, not represent what life actually looks like.
the only time in my life i've gotten completely sideways about such things is when i start comparing my expectations and dreams for myself to anyone else, especially fictional tales. that's not to say it's not cute and fun to revel in those moments. to thoroughly enjoy that romantic moment at the end of the movie, or appreciate something sentimental because it touches you.
don't put so much pressure on yourself to figure it all out. don't allow other's life plans make you feel inadequate.
why do i feel free to speak such things? well, by most people, i've had a rather untraditional life. i'm over forty, single and have no children. oh, and i have no regrets either. God has allowed me to enjoy some incredible adventures and opportunities, but they've all been because i was willing to surrender what all my friends told me i needed to experience to somehow feel whole, adequate and fulfilled.
so. not. true.
i have precious few regrets. and my journey is far from over, God willing. there is no timetable, there is no checklist.
trust that God knows you, and knows what you need, and HIS timing is always perfect. trust that each experience you have is preparing you in some way for the next one. and find contentment in the opportunities you have as a single woman. i never get tired of hearing my married friends tell me how much they envy my life, my experiences and freedom. the truth is, i also envy somewhat theirs, too.
but i also know that i'm right where God wants me, and that is very comforting.
Jesus knew what it was like to live as a single man, He knew what it was like to be lonely, to be misunderstood. He knows what it was like to not feel part of something. and i trust that He knows me, and loves me enough to give me what i need more than what i might desire for myself. and i'm ok with that. at least most of the time. : )
trust me, there's a lot of fun, adventure, and life to enjoy as a single woman. if you are willing to see it that way.
Just know this, he is out there right now wondering why he can't find that perfect girl, why his relationships are failing, and how he could be the best husband ever if the right girl would give him the chance.
