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Abigail97

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#1
Many times we pursue the appearance more than the heart of someone we're interested in as singles you know...

A guy would want a 'Deborah' with a touch of 'sexiness' here and there... forgetting that being sexy is not one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit...

And a lady would want a 'Daniel' with a touch of 'the hot looks associated with the world' here and there...

'A man/woman after God's heart should be your main focus dear singles...

When a man/woman sincerely loves and fears God, loving/submitting to you would not be a problem...

Looks are good, but they are only 'a plus' don't make them the focus when seeking a spouse...

Beyond looks and appearances, seek God in the life and heart of the one you are interested in...

And above all... Allow God lead you when making a decision as serious as seeking a spouse.

Ist Samuel 16:7 But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.

God Bless You.
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
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#2
All I want is a nice tree branch to take a nap on. I don't know anything about those guys who want all that other stuff. My primary theory is, they are crazy.
 

Lanolin

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#3
The other thing is be happy as you are Paul advises

single? do not seek a wife (or husband)
married? dont look to leave.

Love your family and the ones you are with..the ones you are living with right now. They could die tomorrow.
 

Lanolin

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#4
Think its in 1 Corinthians chapter 7

though it seems a lot of people just skip over parts of the Bible and dont read Pauls advice on such matters.
 

Live4Him3

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All I want is a nice tree branch to take a nap on. I don't know anything about those guys who want all that other stuff. My primary theory is, they are crazy.
"Crazy"?

As in "crazy like a fox"?

I thought that last fox that I ate tasted bad...

:sick:

P.S.

Stop drooling or else find another tree branch.

Bears don't carry umbrellas, you know.
 

Lynx

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#6
Drooling over fox? Ew! Carnivores always taste bad.

Small, plump herbivores like rabbits and shrews, that's where the good eating is.