Friends making fun of Jesus. What to do?

Bekazu · Aug 27, 2024

Hi,

I’m 18 and have just recently realised that Jesus is the way, the truth and the life and since want to strengthen my faith and connection to God. I have not told my friends about this and I’m pretty sure they believe I’m still an atheist.

Unfortunately, all my friends are non-religious and MOCK Jesus regularly. This is horrible and I pray for them, but I don't see a point in staying friends with them. One reason being their mockery of the Lord and another reason being that I’m moving away now, which of course means I won’t be able to see them as often anyway.

It seems to me that to `cut them off´ is the better idea due to their mockery of the Lord, but on the other hand I have so many memories with them. I don’t know what to do and would really appreciate any help.

Thanks for any answers! God bless you.

Subhumanoidal · Aug 27, 2024

Bekazu said:

I'd suggest, being a new believer, moving on from your friends. Sharing your change will likely bring ridicule on you and possibly even challenges to your faith that you are still too new in your faith, to defend.
I'm sure it won't be easy, but coming to Christ involves sacrifice sometimes, if you truly want to follow him.
You could still end things on a positive note with them. In fact, if you're able, it's probably the better idea.
But expect more difficult dilemmas in your walk. You may face some ridicule, or be tempted to make decisions that goes against your faith, for example. And you will fail plenty of times, but don't get discouraged by any of this. Instead learn from the failures and move on. A good trick of the devil is to trap you in guilt for when you fail. This will make you feel bad and down on yourself, make it hard to get out of that rut and even cause you to distance from God out of shame.
God will use conviction to move you into repentance and let you experience His forgiveness. Don't waste that grace on self pity or staying ashamed. God puts your past behind you, don't counter that by dragging it with you.

Magenta · Aug 27, 2024

Welcome!

Nicolas · Aug 27, 2024

Bekazu said:

It depends on how much you appreciate them. You can try telling them the truth, that you recently converted to Christianity and depending on their reaction you will realize whether or not it is worth continuing to maintain that relationship. If you see that when you are gathered with them, they do not speak anything bad about God and they respect your opinion, it may mean that they are good friends and perhaps over time, seeing the change that has occurred in you, they will be able to reach the feet of Christ. If you see that they continue to make fun, regardless of whether you are present or not, then you already know what you have to do. I also have atheist friends, but they don't talk or make fun of God, at least not in my presence. I have one who has even discovered that religion is good and is a guide to life, even though he still does not believe in the existence of a God.

I continue to pray for them so that God shows them his truth, when I have the opportunity, I talk to them about God and Jesus, especially to the one who have discovered that religion is good, it is all I can do.

HealthAndHappiness · Aug 27, 2024

Bekazu said:

My best friend for many years, who I didn't know as well as I thought, came out as a Satanist after I got saved.
We went out separate ways.
We grew apart rapidly because the Holy Spirit was in me and I was going to a good Baptist Church where I heard hard preaching and sound teaching. The same went for my Catholic girlfriend at the time. We had hoped to marry at one point, but glad I didn't. I went in one direction towards God and she decided to draw towards the devil. We went out separate ways and there's no regrets today. At the time it hurt, but the girlfriend went on to be a wicked demon possessed MD and slut later. I wouldn't marry something so filthy. God divided that relationship even before I discovered her possession.

If your friends mock Jesus, I would give them one chance to trust Christ as their Savior and then go my separate way. If you're >Saved< I would pray very urgently for them, while watching the video many times to learn how to share the gospel and lead them to Christ. Then witness individually to each when they are alone with you.
Feel free to ask if you have questions. I've been down that path and here to help.

H&H

JohnDB · Aug 27, 2024

Bekazu said:

Ok....
I get your hesitation.
Now without anger or accusing, tell them the what and why you believe.

You don't have to be perfect with your theology. Tell them you like Jesus and Christian theology. You understand why they joke around but it's not really something to joke about.

It's about having courage of your own convictions. You are who you are. You aren't preaching at them. And you are moving. It's a step out into the light from the dark. And it's scary at first being in the light all exposed that way. But it's more sure than remaining hidden in the dark stumbling about.

You do not and should not preach at them. Just a simple statement about believing. That's all you need to do. If you don't (which is your current plan) you will regret it. It's a betrayal to Jesus, yourself, and your friends. That's why you are here talking about it.

You don't like that feeling and moving away feels like running away. It isn't, but that's how it is feeling.

MsMediator · Aug 27, 2024

Bekazu said:

They are just trying to provoke you, and at the same time deny Jesus as God for their own reassurance. Their behavior is more a reflection of their own insecurity. I would not cut ties with them, but I would start looking for new friends.

Randy4u2c · Nov 20, 2024

Bekazu said:

It is unfortunate that your friends have rejected Jesus as Savior. Perhaps they have never read or heard the gospel and are ignorant of it. Obviously they lack the faith or understanding to believe. I suggest you read John 3:14-21 and understand that those that reject Jesus will be rejected by Him before God and the angels. All you can do is set a good Christian example by the life you live and try to plant a seed by telling your friends about why Jesus was crucified and pray for the seed to take root. God bless you in your new life as you move away.

Gideon300 · Nov 24, 2024

Bekazu said:

Do not be deceived: “Bad company corrupts good character.” 1 Corinthians 15:33

I was in the military when I got saved. I had to let go of my friendships. It was not easy as I was the only believer on my ship. God was gracious. I met many Christians in the ports we went to, even in Japan. If we give anything up for Jesus, God will replace it with something better.

ForgiveMeGod · Nov 24, 2024

Bekazu said:

I had to do this same thing when I accepted Jesus as my lord and savior. God moved me away from my old friends the same year I found Jesus. I’ve discovered from this journey that a lot of those old friends were your enemies the whole time. Over the last ten years, I eventually cut them all out cause my walk with God had no influence on them. They already made up in their mind who I was before I followed Jesus, so trying to convince them never worked.

There is one of those “friends” that came back into my life recently who says they are a Christian now but it’s only because he burned every bridge he had. I was the only person he knew to go to for help. I got him help. He went to rehab and turned his life around but still to this day, I don’t believe he follows Jesus, cause recently he has been trying to convince me to leave Christian community and even go to clubs with him. Those people are your enemy. I believe the only reason he came back into my life is cause he is a child of Satan, trying to do the will of Satan.

i visited another one of those old friends a year ago, cause i thought “it’s been ten years. Maybe they changed?” I stay at there house for the weekend. The whole time, he is wanting me to watech horror and rated r movies with nudity in them, while he is smoking marijuana the whole time, nonstop, asking me if I want some. These people are your enemy. Do not be fooled.

j55 · Nov 26, 2024

Hello brother. Glad you converted to Christianity. Don't forget to repent also.
Documentation 1 Timothy chapter 3
1 Peter chapter 4
Avoid them. Christian people are not to cast pearls before swine. Christian people, and the world are moving in different direction. Jesus has body of Christ moving in one direction. Satan has others moving in opposite direction. Don't argue,or debate with them. Just avoid them. Christian people study Bible and try to plant seeds for God. I would focus on studying Bible. Jesus will use you when He feels your ready. The body of Christ is your family. Heathen are not your family. Study Bible and avoid them. Peace.

Saved_by_HIM · Nov 30, 2024

Jesus sacrificed everything so that you could be forgiven. Are you willing to sacrifice people who belittle your savior for Him?

j55 · Nov 30, 2024

Bekazu, brother. Satan sends false brethren to distort God's word. There are few false brethren on this forum. Reprobates/scoffers mock Jesus and Christian people who stand up for Jesus. Fake Christian people will try to lure you into there circle, and work your mind over.
2 Corinthians chapter 4, Reprobates follow Satan.
Acts chapter 3 . New Christian converts repent and serve Jesus. It's those who do will of God.
There is false brethren on this thread. He/she is trying to manipulate you and confuse you. Anyone who is disrespecting to Jesus and Body of Christ is not Christian.
Psalm chapter 1
Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of scoffers, but his delight is in law of the Lord, and on his law he mediates day and night. He is like tree planted by streams of water that yields fruit in its season, and its leaf does not whither.
The wicked are not so, but like chaff that the wind drives away. Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgement, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous.
The counsel of the wicked will lead you astray and corrupt your mind. False brethren stand up for Satan.
Psalm chapter 14
The fool says in his heart, There is no God, they are corrupt, they do abominable deeds, there is none who does good. The Lord looks down from heaven on the children of man, to see if there are any who understand, who seek after God. They have all turned aside, together they have become corrupt.
Stay away from false brethren, fake Christian people. There counsel is poison pills. To lead you astray and corrupt you.
Psalm chapter 109
For people who are wicked and deceitful, have opened there mouths against me. They have spoken against me with lying tongues.
The wicked will lie to your face. A true servant of God will always tell you the truth.
109:6
Set thou a wicked man over him:
And let Satan stand at his right hand.
109:7
When he shall be judged let him be condenmed.
Scoffers/Reprobates are doing will of Satan. This group rejects Jesus and sound doctrine. They hate the Truth. There counsel is lies and deception.
Children of light will always tell you the truth. Body of Christ is your family. Children of darkness are not your family.
Again, Avoid them !
Peace.

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