Ideal First Date

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Dec 30, 2011
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My ideal second date is__________________. I'm thinking, not use; like to do something out of the ordinary. Will be thinking.
 
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Robbinette

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My ideal first date is something out of the ordinary. Not the movies or going to dinner blah blah blah. I would like for it to be something that kinda represents the guys personality. I've always just wanted to do a picnic/take out and go to the park so we could just hang out and talk as long as we wanted to. But alas I have only been taken to the movies or dinner blah :) I did have a skype date one time because we lived far away from each other and that was fun and different.
 

Stuey

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Movies are lame for an early date imo... seriously you sit there and watch a screen without talking to someone. How are you to get to know them?

Dinner is ok, people like chatting... dunno though. There are plenty of things to do... not all of them cheap though. Think last time I went to a nature reserve.
 
Dec 30, 2011
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actually I wrote this as second date because everyone almost always says a dinner date for first date, to get to know each other. Well, I decided my ideal second date has to be either.... arcades, bowling, christian concert or art exhibit. Third date, I don't know, haven't had one yet. Any ideas on what people do when they finally get to a third date?
 
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arwen83

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My first ideal date would be dinner- sushi or Italian food is always a great idea
Aside from that maybe mini-golf, or going for gelati... we have this one street in my city where all the couples tend to go walking in the summer, and there are small pubs, restaurants, coffee shops and gelati places
 
Jun 21, 2011
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gun range and a trip to go get the best hot dogs in town. someone did that I'd melt
 
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Tintin

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A picnic sounds great but I'd leave that for a bit later down the track, when/if you're a bit more serious. Otherwise, you've already played your good cards.
 
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arwen83

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Oh we also have a horse racing track so that would be fun date too
 
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zaoman32

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Hiding out in the bushes of some random house, or shadowing other couples only to lull them into a false sense of security...Oh my love, where are you and your creepy stalker ways?
 
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arwen83

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Hiding out in the bushes of some random house, or shadowing other couples only to lull them into a false sense of security...Oh my love, where are you and your creepy stalker ways?
You sure speak of stalking often *wonders if Zao does half the things he 'jokes' about* j/k :p
 
Apr 26, 2013
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A black strong coffe on the edge of a high building at sunrise from where it can be seen a part or all the city and also the sunrise.
I would wake up at 4 am for a brilliant sunrise
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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My first ideal date would be dinner- sushi or Italian food is always a great idea
Aside from that maybe mini-golf, or going for gelati... we have this one street in my city where all the couples tend to go walking in the summer, and there are small pubs, restaurants, coffee shops and gelati places
You have great taste in 1st dates. Just sayin'.:)
 
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Powemm

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Hiding out in the bushes of some random house, or shadowing other couples only to lull them into a false sense of security...Oh my love, where are you and your creepy stalker ways?

Oh I about choked when I read this .. Thank you for a great awesome laugh zoa.. I soooo do this lol state fair is the best!!!
 
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Nuns_n_roses

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Hiding out in the bushes of some random house, or shadowing other couples only to lull them into a false sense of security...Oh my love, where are you and your creepy stalker ways?

I'm right here my love!!! :p

We may have to take a break while I get this restraining order against me taken care of though... I knew they didn't really mean it. That whole "court trip" was just a muse... I just know it!!!
 
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buckeyegirl700

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A great first date would be going to dinner. Maybe go to the zoo!
 
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zaoman32

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I'm right here my love!!! :p

We may have to take a break while I get this restraining order against me taken care of though... I knew they didn't really mean it. That whole "court trip" was just a muse... I just know it!!!
WOOHOO!!! Found her!
 

maxwel

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My ideal first date is someplace public...
where a girl would be embarrassed to run away shrieking in terror.

: )
 
Oct 7, 2011
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Something that would enable conversation. So here's where I WOULDN'T want the first date to be: A Cinema, A Noisy Restaurant, A Sporting Event... etc.
 

error

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going somewhere nice (for example-seaside) on a motorcycle.