Questions like the following could be fun to ask your boyfriend:
1. What was your first impression of me?
2. What is your idea of a perfect house?
3. How many times have you been in love?
4. How pretty do you think XXX is?
5. What are the qualities you like in me most?
6. What are the qualities you dislike in me most?
7. What do you think about marriage?
8. What do you think about a live in relationship?
9. Do you hate your boss? Why?
10. Where would you go for your dream holiday?
11. What’s the craziest thing you have done in your life?
12. Who is the one person in your family you cannot stand?
13. What is the most embarrassing thing you have done in your life?
14. What was your first date like? Where did you go?
15. If you won the lottery, what would you do with your money?
16. If your house caught fire and you could only take one thing and run out, what would it be?
17. Who are you closer to, your mom or dad? Why?
18. If you came across a magic lamp and had three wishes to make, what would they be?
19. Are you addicted to anything?
20. What is the one thing about yourself that you hate the most?
21. Do you believe in superstitious things?
22. Are you afraid of ghosts?
23. Who is your role model?
24. Do you like children?
25. Describe the worst date you’ve been on.
26. What are your views on religion?
27. What would you change about yourself if given a chance?
28. What is your dream job?
29. What is the most adventurous thing you have done?
30. What is the most expensive thing you have bought for yourself?
31. What is the most expensive thing you have bought for someone else?
32. What has been your craziest Dream?
33. What would you do if your best friend told you I was bad for you?
34. What is the worst thing you ever did to a friend?
35. What is the nicest thing you ever did for a friend?
36. How much money do you dream of having?
37. Which car would you like to own?
38. How often do you lie?
39. Who is your favorite celebrity?
40. Who is your most hated celebrity?
41. Tell me something about yourself that no one knows.
42. What was your most memorable event growing up?
43. Do you like hunting?
44. Would you like to keep a dog, if yes, what would you name it?
45. If a great looking girl came up to you while I was there, what would your reaction be?
46. Who is your childhood hero?
47. When did you have your first crush?
48. Have you ever liked a teacher?
49. Do you consider yourself a happy person?
50. What would you do if you were stranded on an island and there was nothing to eat?
51. Would you like to go to the moon?
52. Do you believe in the after life?
53. How special a memory is your first love to you?
54. Do you like being drunk?
55. When did you start drinking?
56. Have you ever stolen something?
57. What was the craziest dare you were ever given?
58. How old were you when you started dating?
59. Do you ever dream of winning a Nobel Prize? If yes, for what?
60. What word first comes to your mind when asked to describe me?
61. What word first comes to your mind when asked to describe yourself?
62. Which animal would you like to be?
63. Who is your favorite cartoon character?
64. Do you believe in God?
65. DO you believe in Vampires?
66. Were you popular in High School?
67. Do you like old people or do you think they are a nuisance?
68. Have you ever committed a crime?
69. Have you ever said, “I love you” and not meant it?
70. Have your ever driven drunk?
71. What was the craziest party you’ve ever been to like?
72. Do you like my friends?
73. Do you believe in plans to save the World in some way?
74. Have you ever been jealous of either of your siblings?
75. Have you ever been jealous of your best friend?
76. Do you believe that a girl should always earn less than her man?
77. Which super power would you most like to have?
78. Do you believe in soul mates?
79. Do you believe in love at first sight?
80. What do your friends think of me?
81. Have you ever liked your one of your best friend’s girlfriends?
I don't expect anyone to try and fill this out but, It is good to ask good questions that are not easy to answer. I think we cannot afford to skim, be shallow, or merely touch upon the deeper issues of what is going to make or break a relationship.
Even the way people dodge touchy questions can be a sign that there is something else going on.
For some questions there are no simple answers but getting the conversation started can be hard without a good spark.
1. What was your first impression of me?
2. What is your idea of a perfect house?
3. How many times have you been in love?
4. How pretty do you think XXX is?
5. What are the qualities you like in me most?
6. What are the qualities you dislike in me most?
7. What do you think about marriage?
8. What do you think about a live in relationship?
9. Do you hate your boss? Why?
10. Where would you go for your dream holiday?
11. What’s the craziest thing you have done in your life?
12. Who is the one person in your family you cannot stand?
13. What is the most embarrassing thing you have done in your life?
14. What was your first date like? Where did you go?
15. If you won the lottery, what would you do with your money?
16. If your house caught fire and you could only take one thing and run out, what would it be?
17. Who are you closer to, your mom or dad? Why?
18. If you came across a magic lamp and had three wishes to make, what would they be?
19. Are you addicted to anything?
20. What is the one thing about yourself that you hate the most?
21. Do you believe in superstitious things?
22. Are you afraid of ghosts?
23. Who is your role model?
24. Do you like children?
25. Describe the worst date you’ve been on.
26. What are your views on religion?
27. What would you change about yourself if given a chance?
28. What is your dream job?
29. What is the most adventurous thing you have done?
30. What is the most expensive thing you have bought for yourself?
31. What is the most expensive thing you have bought for someone else?
32. What has been your craziest Dream?
33. What would you do if your best friend told you I was bad for you?
34. What is the worst thing you ever did to a friend?
35. What is the nicest thing you ever did for a friend?
36. How much money do you dream of having?
37. Which car would you like to own?
38. How often do you lie?
39. Who is your favorite celebrity?
40. Who is your most hated celebrity?
41. Tell me something about yourself that no one knows.
42. What was your most memorable event growing up?
43. Do you like hunting?
44. Would you like to keep a dog, if yes, what would you name it?
45. If a great looking girl came up to you while I was there, what would your reaction be?
46. Who is your childhood hero?
47. When did you have your first crush?
48. Have you ever liked a teacher?
49. Do you consider yourself a happy person?
50. What would you do if you were stranded on an island and there was nothing to eat?
51. Would you like to go to the moon?
52. Do you believe in the after life?
53. How special a memory is your first love to you?
54. Do you like being drunk?
55. When did you start drinking?
56. Have you ever stolen something?
57. What was the craziest dare you were ever given?
58. How old were you when you started dating?
59. Do you ever dream of winning a Nobel Prize? If yes, for what?
60. What word first comes to your mind when asked to describe me?
61. What word first comes to your mind when asked to describe yourself?
62. Which animal would you like to be?
63. Who is your favorite cartoon character?
64. Do you believe in God?
65. DO you believe in Vampires?
66. Were you popular in High School?
67. Do you like old people or do you think they are a nuisance?
68. Have you ever committed a crime?
69. Have you ever said, “I love you” and not meant it?
70. Have your ever driven drunk?
71. What was the craziest party you’ve ever been to like?
72. Do you like my friends?
73. Do you believe in plans to save the World in some way?
74. Have you ever been jealous of either of your siblings?
75. Have you ever been jealous of your best friend?
76. Do you believe that a girl should always earn less than her man?
77. Which super power would you most like to have?
78. Do you believe in soul mates?
79. Do you believe in love at first sight?
80. What do your friends think of me?
81. Have you ever liked your one of your best friend’s girlfriends?
I don't expect anyone to try and fill this out but, It is good to ask good questions that are not easy to answer. I think we cannot afford to skim, be shallow, or merely touch upon the deeper issues of what is going to make or break a relationship.
Even the way people dodge touchy questions can be a sign that there is something else going on.
For some questions there are no simple answers but getting the conversation started can be hard without a good spark.
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