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Seriously, WHO are you? YOUR AGE & single still ! What gives? What's the reason WHY?
Will you pray to Him, ask you how to react guys to this thread. Just give it a real read and let His spirit work through yours
And, girls, miladies please, you are NOT to answer in this thread. The Lord leads. That's my preference. I NEVER think a girl should do anymore than lightly to heavily CLUE in the guy that she likes him. The guy should TAKE IT from there !!
Thank you
OK, this is going to be some thread, because IF it doesn't cause guys to open up in a way, maybe, not done before by THEM on c.c. then, I'll be a monkey's uncle.
Seriously, don't get too PERSONAL here, guys, but, you can PM another guy(s) IF you feel Lord-led to do so and just spill your heart of why you just don't have it in you to think YOU can EVER be right for a girl for marriage.
'Course, speaking of monkeys and uncles, I do have two little monkeys that are my 4 and 6 year old nieces and one nephew, 13, and, they are quite monkey-like, but, no, they are NOT monkeys and I am NOT any monkey's uncle
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Note: Scripture is clear about adultery, and, sexual immorality, but, forgiveness is a few words away from His leading you greatly passed that past, too The Lord leads. Pray, pray, pray, fellow fellows, and, follow Him
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So, what up on this subject, boys, this summer, it's summertime NOW, officially !
ARE YOU going to quit JUST thinking about asking that girl out that you KNOW is a Christian, is right for you, is being put there in front of your face by God, AT YOUR CHURCH, ahem, ON C.C. or ARE YOU just going to sit there and be the same ole 'chimpanzee.'
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What's the reason for your never getting twitterpated, fellas ? That is, Bambi, ala 'Thumper' humor there, ole Thumper says, 'I'm never gonna do that,' after watching 'Flower' see a girl, and, Bambi agrees. But, then, first, Thumper sees a girl that 'twitterpates' his little bunny heart. And, then, Bambi, too, sees 'Faline' who Bambi met as a fawn
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Maybe, if it's fear of her not liking you, you should just HAVE IT OUT ! tell her, "OK, I like you, I want to get to know you, but I'm not going to go out with you unless you are a Christian and you don't care that I am poorer than poor and will NEVER have any money."
PRay for God's grace, mercy, and, accept her response. It might be NO ! But, the Lord leads, it just MIgHT be 'yes.'
Maybe, it's fear of "I did this to a girl, that, and, I just can't come to forgive myself and I just can't go out with a girl because I am ashamed?"
To both things, hey, God has power to get you through whatever 'financial' is out there, and, there is more financial craziness in this world than probably anytime in history. Massive college debt out there, maybe, that's you. Been hurt by a girl? Maybe that's you.
God's going to provide, IF financial. And, God is going to forgive you IF--wait! Hold the phone , have you asked Him for forgiveness ! Well, if so, He has already forgiven you Done ! You is who STILL thinks about it, just go and do things different, keep yourself firmly in His plans for your life. Genuinely Love Him FIRST in your life, and, then, remember, that we are to 'love others as yourself,' second. So, God already wants us to be Loving ourself.
Here is my best advice for WE, guys, this summer, put yourself in a desperate situation IF you have to, regarding girls, regarding finances (work 3 jobs, minimum wage , 90 hours per week, if your led to do it, and, don't worry, God will ALLOW you to work three jobs for as LONG as He wants you too, just have faith in Him, in His work for you, who are His workmanship !
Pray, pray, pray, too. We ALL need to pray for God's hand over us, that we can have strength to get through whatever it is that He has us doing. Just throw yourself prostrate in prayer and kneeling and eyes up to heaven, so , God can SEE you in action. Don't you think then God will provide a REaction ! He will, in His timing, but He will. So, just get out there and see what happens. Go eharmony or go to your church singles or go to some girl you ALREADY know you should give a chance from that place you saw her.
And, I am speaking to you and not ME ! You saying that ! Ha !!!!!!! Ha!!!!!!!!!!!
I am the worst of ones that should go out with girls, I pray the Lord leads, and, that I am following Him and have followed Him, despite making mistakes, maybe, even, GASP! yes, disobeying Him by NOT going out with a girl He put in my way .
I am content in His plan for me, this I have told my self all my life and I believe it, I believe that is from Him, despite my possible past mistakes.
I, indeed, feel, for one thing, my unorganization of my stuff in life I buy and sell, HAS kept me from going out with girls that is tough to understand but I gave it to Him and go on, content I mean, who knows, maybe, it was never to be. But, I've thought MANY TIMES that a girl would make my life better , make me progreSS but, then, something I DID stopped things from EVER WORKING OUT
A girl COULD be His way for us to TRULY reach our dreams that are, in fact, His too, but the ONLY way is through faith of getting a 'her.'
We won't ever know, guys, will we, if we don't go on faith, in following His ways for us.
Hmmm, maybe, I should have put this in the man cave. Oh well
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"The only person standing in your way is you. Lose yourself" The Black Swan . The director speaking to the lead actress, who is having a hard time understanding how great she can be in the ballet if she just realizes some things.
So, what are you going to do, are you going to continue to be lost in your self wallowing of no girl in my life, or, are you going to get up, dust yourself off, and, lose yourself.........................
...................................in Him, and, I think, you just may be blessed by finding a 'her.'
God bless you for your boldness in following Him, men , brothers in Christ, I love you, man, I mean, 'I love you, men,' God bless you, greatly, I pray for stepping forth to the great, wide, unseen, growing in faith, KNOWING that God can do miracles in your life of all kinds, and, finding just the right girl for YOU is included in that miracle working by your/our Saviour
Will you pray to Him, ask you how to react guys to this thread. Just give it a real read and let His spirit work through yours
And, girls, miladies please, you are NOT to answer in this thread. The Lord leads. That's my preference. I NEVER think a girl should do anymore than lightly to heavily CLUE in the guy that she likes him. The guy should TAKE IT from there !!
Thank you
OK, this is going to be some thread, because IF it doesn't cause guys to open up in a way, maybe, not done before by THEM on c.c. then, I'll be a monkey's uncle.
Seriously, don't get too PERSONAL here, guys, but, you can PM another guy(s) IF you feel Lord-led to do so and just spill your heart of why you just don't have it in you to think YOU can EVER be right for a girl for marriage.
'Course, speaking of monkeys and uncles, I do have two little monkeys that are my 4 and 6 year old nieces and one nephew, 13, and, they are quite monkey-like, but, no, they are NOT monkeys and I am NOT any monkey's uncle
----------------
Note: Scripture is clear about adultery, and, sexual immorality, but, forgiveness is a few words away from His leading you greatly passed that past, too The Lord leads. Pray, pray, pray, fellow fellows, and, follow Him
--------------------------------------------------------------------
So, what up on this subject, boys, this summer, it's summertime NOW, officially !
ARE YOU going to quit JUST thinking about asking that girl out that you KNOW is a Christian, is right for you, is being put there in front of your face by God, AT YOUR CHURCH, ahem, ON C.C. or ARE YOU just going to sit there and be the same ole 'chimpanzee.'
----------------------
What's the reason for your never getting twitterpated, fellas ? That is, Bambi, ala 'Thumper' humor there, ole Thumper says, 'I'm never gonna do that,' after watching 'Flower' see a girl, and, Bambi agrees. But, then, first, Thumper sees a girl that 'twitterpates' his little bunny heart. And, then, Bambi, too, sees 'Faline' who Bambi met as a fawn
---------
Maybe, if it's fear of her not liking you, you should just HAVE IT OUT ! tell her, "OK, I like you, I want to get to know you, but I'm not going to go out with you unless you are a Christian and you don't care that I am poorer than poor and will NEVER have any money."
PRay for God's grace, mercy, and, accept her response. It might be NO ! But, the Lord leads, it just MIgHT be 'yes.'
Maybe, it's fear of "I did this to a girl, that, and, I just can't come to forgive myself and I just can't go out with a girl because I am ashamed?"
To both things, hey, God has power to get you through whatever 'financial' is out there, and, there is more financial craziness in this world than probably anytime in history. Massive college debt out there, maybe, that's you. Been hurt by a girl? Maybe that's you.
God's going to provide, IF financial. And, God is going to forgive you IF--wait! Hold the phone , have you asked Him for forgiveness ! Well, if so, He has already forgiven you Done ! You is who STILL thinks about it, just go and do things different, keep yourself firmly in His plans for your life. Genuinely Love Him FIRST in your life, and, then, remember, that we are to 'love others as yourself,' second. So, God already wants us to be Loving ourself.
Here is my best advice for WE, guys, this summer, put yourself in a desperate situation IF you have to, regarding girls, regarding finances (work 3 jobs, minimum wage , 90 hours per week, if your led to do it, and, don't worry, God will ALLOW you to work three jobs for as LONG as He wants you too, just have faith in Him, in His work for you, who are His workmanship !
Pray, pray, pray, too. We ALL need to pray for God's hand over us, that we can have strength to get through whatever it is that He has us doing. Just throw yourself prostrate in prayer and kneeling and eyes up to heaven, so , God can SEE you in action. Don't you think then God will provide a REaction ! He will, in His timing, but He will. So, just get out there and see what happens. Go eharmony or go to your church singles or go to some girl you ALREADY know you should give a chance from that place you saw her.
And, I am speaking to you and not ME ! You saying that ! Ha !!!!!!! Ha!!!!!!!!!!!
I am the worst of ones that should go out with girls, I pray the Lord leads, and, that I am following Him and have followed Him, despite making mistakes, maybe, even, GASP! yes, disobeying Him by NOT going out with a girl He put in my way .
I am content in His plan for me, this I have told my self all my life and I believe it, I believe that is from Him, despite my possible past mistakes.
I, indeed, feel, for one thing, my unorganization of my stuff in life I buy and sell, HAS kept me from going out with girls that is tough to understand but I gave it to Him and go on, content I mean, who knows, maybe, it was never to be. But, I've thought MANY TIMES that a girl would make my life better , make me progreSS but, then, something I DID stopped things from EVER WORKING OUT
A girl COULD be His way for us to TRULY reach our dreams that are, in fact, His too, but the ONLY way is through faith of getting a 'her.'
We won't ever know, guys, will we, if we don't go on faith, in following His ways for us.
Hmmm, maybe, I should have put this in the man cave. Oh well
-------------------------------
"The only person standing in your way is you. Lose yourself" The Black Swan . The director speaking to the lead actress, who is having a hard time understanding how great she can be in the ballet if she just realizes some things.
So, what are you going to do, are you going to continue to be lost in your self wallowing of no girl in my life, or, are you going to get up, dust yourself off, and, lose yourself.........................
...................................in Him, and, I think, you just may be blessed by finding a 'her.'
God bless you for your boldness in following Him, men , brothers in Christ, I love you, man, I mean, 'I love you, men,' God bless you, greatly, I pray for stepping forth to the great, wide, unseen, growing in faith, KNOWING that God can do miracles in your life of all kinds, and, finding just the right girl for YOU is included in that miracle working by your/our Saviour