Re: Seriously, WHO are you? YOUR AGE & single still ! What gives? What's the reason W
Settled Once....
Never again. Love, Trust, Loyalty and Commitment take years to build, and so it will be years, as there is no one I have in my life, to begin such a thing.
I think, we can get into that kind of mindset, liam, and, it will come true.
I caution you to look to Christ with that above said in mind
As I've said before, your an extremely desirous fellow for a girl out there, I just don't know what your red lights are, but, all I see is 'go.' Go out there and give Love a real chance, ARMED with the knowledge you have now learned from ALL your other girlfriends and girl friends and guys, too, KNOWLEDGE given you, both from c.c. girls and the girls you actually had short and longer term relationships with.
YOU are seasoned, by what you said, you have had dating relationships for short term of 3 weeks, which is long term if I'm the comparison, and, even up to a YEAR, think it was you said, or, was it two. Anyway, the Lord leads. Verbalize to God your desires and then, maybe, just take it easy some, regarding going serious, just go to singles groups for your church or area where you are, my church has a huge singles group, I've gone at three points in my life , age 22-23 , age 26-27 and age 34-37 . So what, didn't work out, I just keep on keeping on, and, doing whatever ELSE God wants me to do. It's OK, IF you just don't think girls are for you or you won't meet one to your standards, then, just work on following the Lord in your life, reading His word, praying, hearing what He wants you to hear.
A little long ^ , hope, pray, it's all said in Love, not condescending whatsoever meaning, brother, God bless you, liamsON
And, when it comes to girls on c.c., they often, I see, like the way you speak your language to them . So, that right there, is a clue to me, you're desirous, and, 'that,' my friend is a gift from God, some guys can't get out of the gate in a social website network talking to girls, let alone, sustain a relationship with a girl for a week, let alone, three
God, indeed, has gifted you many ways, liambro, and being a light to girls, of understanding of guys--and who we are more-- is definitely not something God's kept you in the dark from knowing
That's cuz you speak from your heart and your heart is painstakingly after Him in the midst of your pain that's been your past. And, God likes that vulnerability that we share like you do, have done. He will, as you follow Him, continue to use you in this ways with the ladies.
The Lord leads. "...you follow Me."