The church is made up on fallen people, hurt and persecuted in various ways over the year's. They are all there for the same reason to gain acceptance and to be unconditionally loved by each other and mostly our Lord.
There are a lot of hurtful things that can happen in churches, but really if we can all bear in mind that none of us is perfect, and to just try and love ourselves and each other as the Lord Jesus does, it minimises our worries and concerns and allows us to see each other with the Lord's eyes.
He is always the bigger and most definitely the better picture.
So if you want to attend church, please bear this in mind, however church attendance in my opinion is not an absolute requirement in order to be loved and cherished by our Father.