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Here's something I just thought I'd throw out here to see what kind of response I'd get...
I've noticed a plethora of threads/posts about 'finding the right one' which got me to thinking.....
Do you really think there is ONE right person for everyone? Let me clarify my question before you all jump down my throat...
Okay, so in an ideal world .. we meet our Mr/Mrs Right, get married, and live happily ever after...but let's face it this ISN'T an ideal world!! Sometimes relationships and sadly even marriages don't work. People can give all sorts of advice on how to make it work.. but at the end of the day it still doesn't. I understand that alot of times we have to go through pain and trials in our life in order to make us grow (perhaps a broken relationship?) Lot's of relationships don't work (for whatever reason)..even though the people may have genuninely been in love. So, I guess my question is this.....
Do you think, like it's possible to have loved someone (or possibly even been in a relationship/ marriage) but the reason that it (the relationship) didn't work was because they weren't the right person for you in the end? ( or possibly God had another plan.. and you just weren't listening..who knows?) Does that even make sense..
Like sometimes I wonder about the ONE right person for everyone.. I really do...
Having said that however.. I am in no way encouraging divorce or bigamy for that matter haha! I just wonder you know.. ?
What are your thoughts???
I've noticed a plethora of threads/posts about 'finding the right one' which got me to thinking.....
Do you really think there is ONE right person for everyone? Let me clarify my question before you all jump down my throat...
Okay, so in an ideal world .. we meet our Mr/Mrs Right, get married, and live happily ever after...but let's face it this ISN'T an ideal world!! Sometimes relationships and sadly even marriages don't work. People can give all sorts of advice on how to make it work.. but at the end of the day it still doesn't. I understand that alot of times we have to go through pain and trials in our life in order to make us grow (perhaps a broken relationship?) Lot's of relationships don't work (for whatever reason)..even though the people may have genuninely been in love. So, I guess my question is this.....
Do you think, like it's possible to have loved someone (or possibly even been in a relationship/ marriage) but the reason that it (the relationship) didn't work was because they weren't the right person for you in the end? ( or possibly God had another plan.. and you just weren't listening..who knows?) Does that even make sense..
Like sometimes I wonder about the ONE right person for everyone.. I really do...
Having said that however.. I am in no way encouraging divorce or bigamy for that matter haha! I just wonder you know.. ?
What are your thoughts???