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Ok ladies..
what types of clothing and hairstyles do you like on your men.
you can post pics if you know how :) I don't :(

I have guy friends who will come to me for that kind of advise..
and I have dressed not a few of my boyfriends ..

for those guys who aren't sure and want to know what is attractive to us...
here you go:)
 
It doesn't much matter to me. I am what i am. And a woman likes who i am and how i dress, or she doesn't. I've had women try to change how i dress. It doesn't work. And if i caved, i wouldn't be happy.
 
to be honest, I really don't care that much. My preferences in hair/clothing depend on the person, not the other way around. So, that being the case, I am now extremely biased towards styles that remind me of my boyfriend haha. That's a good thing though, right? :P

Clothing:
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Hair:
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:D
 
Ugly said:
It doesn't much matter to me. I am what i am. And a woman likes who i am and how i dress, or she doesn't. I've had women try to change how i dress. It doesn't work. And if i caved, i wouldn't be happy.
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You should want to look your best..
for her..just like we give our best to God..
if you feel that "your way" is your best?
then so be it..it shouldn't be about you anyway
it should be about her..
and if she loves you, it should be about you for HER..
and then everyone is happy..

but often men don't know how to dress that is their best..
and some women are gifted at it..
my ex let me go into his closet, actually asked me to..
organize his shirts by what I liked and thought might look nice on him
colors/type etc.. from the clothes he already had..
he also took me to Kohl's and had me pick out some shirts for him..
he shrunk one of them but the other one looked really good on him
color and all...
because he sensed I had knowlege of what looked nice.
it was his idea..to be his stylist..
this man wears camoflauge (sp) crocs with dress pants,
and has a huge hamburger shirt ..
to me the way he dressed often reflected in an "I don't care" attitude
which isn't loving, isn't respectful at all..it's selfish and self centered
when one only cares what one likes..

I think dressing your best, styling your hair your best (or shaving it off..which is nice too)
is important.. shaving your face, keeping your facial hair trimmed.. is important..
growing those long Duck dynasty beards might be ok for someone's wife.
for me? it's gross.. I am not going to marry an animal so I don't want my man to
have the face of one..(tho I love facial hair..just like it shorter:)

Take a woman who has been married for a time and now she wears sweats and large tshirts all day long..
so when her husband comes home that's all he sees her in,
she no longer dresses up for him, or takes care of her appearance.. she no longer cares..
this marriage is in trouble..
well it goes the same for the guys!
if I am going to keep up my appearance because I care what I look like to my man..
then so should he..
any attitude other than that is not loving.

BTW this isn't my opinion it's face, from couples.. for years that I have spoken to..
 
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Chey60 said:
You should want to look your best..

BTW this isn't my opinion it's face, from couples.. for years that I have spoken to..
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lol fact..
oops
over the 5 minute time limit (bogus time limit!!!)
 
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Long, dark, curly hair

but it doesn't HAVE to be curly

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Jewelry

Do bikes count?

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I like to do fun things, so I like casual styles like these:

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BUT...I can't really say that I'd complain if a guy dressed like THIS :cool: from time to time :rolleyes::

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Chey60 said:
You should want to look your best..
for her..just like we give our best to God..
if you feel that "your way" is your best?
then so be it..it shouldn't be about you anyway
it should be about her..
and if she loves you, it should be about you for HER..
and then everyone is happy..

but often men don't know how to dress that is their best..
and some women are gifted at it..
my ex let me go into his closet, actually asked me to..
organize his shirts by what I liked and thought might look nice on him
colors/type etc.. from the clothes he already had..
he also took me to Kohl's and had me pick out some shirts for him..
he shrunk one of them but the other one looked really good on him
color and all...
because he sensed I had knowlege of what looked nice.
it was his idea..to be his stylist..
this man wears camoflauge (sp) crocs with dress pants,
and has a huge hamburger shirt ..
to me the way he dressed often reflected in an "I don't care" attitude
which isn't loving, isn't respectful at all..it's selfish and self centered
when one only cares what one likes..

I think dressing your best, styling your hair your best (or shaving it off..which is nice too)
is important.. shaving your face, keeping your facial hair trimmed.. is important..
growing those long Duck dynasty beards might be ok for someone's wife.
for me? it's gross.. I am not going to marry an animal so I don't want my man to
have the face of one..(tho I love facial hair..just like it shorter:)

Take a woman who has been married for a time and now she wears sweats and large tshirts all day long..
so when her husband comes home that's all he sees her in,
she no longer dresses up for him, or takes care of her appearance.. she no longer cares..
this marriage is in trouble..
well it goes the same for the guys!
if I am going to keep up my appearance because I care what I look like to my man..
then so should he..
any attitude other than that is not loving.

BTW this isn't my opinion it's face, from couples.. for years that I have spoken to..
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If this is true, then the opposite must also be true.

A woman must dress for me and it must be about me?

I'm not going to go from Puma, Eddie Bauer and Old Navy to Abercrombie, Aeropostale, and Ralph Lauren, just to make her happy. Which is pretty much what usually happens. Or worse, they buy me flannel or cowboy boots. *barf*
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From this^^^^^^^^^^^How I usually dress^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
to this....
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No thanks. I'm good.

You shop for you and I'll shop for me.
 
Okay, first, and I know you didn't ask, but I have to say, he must be a strong, godly, Christian man that is older than me and then, these other things, well MAJOR BONUS POINTS! :)

If any guy could pull this look off like Johnny can...yup:

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And, for me, it's all about long hair:

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I've found that I'm usually attracted to men who dress casual & look groomed. Kinda like this :

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The key are the pants. Well-fitted pants are attractive. :)

I also love how men look in suits (when the occasion calls for it).
 
Casual with grooming is good. Clothing that fits well is a plus. I guess I like a "classic" look on guys, whether it's sporty, casual or office/churchy.
 
Chey60 said:
lol fact..
oops
over the 5 minute time limit (bogus time limit!!!)
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Optimistic as you might be, you'll nae sway the man's position. Ugly is as steadfast as it gets; his unwavering stubbornness is legendary around here. But bless you for trying. ^_-

And we don't need to tell Ugly not to change who he is for anyone... Because he wouldn't, regardless of what anyone tells him. ^_^
 
I feel a new slogan being birthed here, move over shoes! "It's gotta be the pants".

kayem77 said:
I've found that I'm usually attracted to men who dress casual & look groomed. Kinda like this :

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The key are the pants. Well-fitted pants are attractive. :)

I also love how men look in suits (when the occasion calls for it).
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I want to be all picky and say that I care what my husband wears.

I can't, cuz I don't.

...except when we're going somewhere. Then I insist there be no holes in his jeans.

Oh! But I've always liked when he wears a baseball cap.
 
Am I the only one noticing all of these pics with models in them??? I mean, granted, what else are you really gonna find on the net, but still...not all of us are 30 waist with rippling abs, flowing hair, and pop star styles...I mean, ouch.
 
I noticed that too Reece. Which is why I didn't bother posting pics - couldn't find any "normal" looking guys! And on the more "normal" body type, I love hoodies. Can't go wrong with a hoodie!
 
AsifinPassing said:
Am I the only one noticing all of these pics with models in them??? I mean, granted, what else are you really gonna find on the net, but still...not all of us are 30 waist with rippling abs, flowing hair, and pop star styles...I mean, ouch.
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You don't have to have the 30 waist, or be a model, but you can have a good style ;) that's your choice:) the other stuff may not be :) !
men look great as long as they groom well and have a good sense of what looks good on them :) and how their hair can be styled..nothing wrong with taking care of your appearance :)
 
MissCris said:
I want to be all picky and say that I care what my husband wears.

I can't, cuz I don't.

...except when we're going somewhere. Then I insist there be no holes in his jeans.

Oh! But I've always liked when he wears a baseball cap.
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the key is..that you don't care:) and there you go, that's ok :)
 
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