Being Single is a curse?

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Shawn2516

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Sup guys.

I been noticing a lot of young men and women feeling like being single is a curse. You know, they just want their cuddle bug for 30 minutes and then life will be all rainbows and unicorns. But in reality, we have a live chat room. If you can't be happy with loved ones around you beating you with scripture, I don't know what will!

No but seriously. I wonder if there is not enough love in the community in general that people rush out to find someone to snuggle with. I dunno, I have a different perspective of being single. I enjoy it, but I know one day a girl is going to tackle me to the ground and i'm going to have to give it up :(

Anyways, God bless.
 
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It's a blessing for me. I couldn't imagine life any other way.

I'm able to remain as such until I leave this place.
 
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mykim

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loved ones beating you with scripture... I think i would be more annoyed with that. Singleness is a curse for me. Fighting my god given sex drive and feeling lonely is definitely not a blessing.
 
Shawn2516

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mykim said:
loved ones beating you with scripture... I think i would be more annoyed with that. Singleness is a curse for me. Fighting my god given sex drive and feeling lonely is definitely not a blessing.
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But if your always sad, you'll never be happy, and then girls won't want to be with a sad man anyway! So you have to be happy ^_^
 
wisebeardman

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Shawn2516 said:
But if your always sad, you'll never be happy, and then girls won't want to be with a sad man anyway! So you have to be happy ^_^
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oh you can be happy all you want. it does you no good if you dont have stacks of cash and rate a 8,9, or 10 on the looks factor.
 
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wisebeardman said:
oh you can be happy all you want. it does you no good if you dont have stacks of cash and rate a 8,9, or 10 on the looks factor.
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Thats not true... you can get away with a 7 on looks!
 
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wisebeardman said:
yeah, don't do you no good if you are a 0,1,2,or 3.
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Well wisebeardedone, if and when you do get that woman at least you'll know she won't be shallow. The problem with being good looking is one can't tell if people are just with you just for looks. I suppose it would become apparent in the long run but you know the wasted time and effort?
 
wisebeardman

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FireWire said:
Well wisebeardedone, if and when you do get that woman at least you'll know she won't be shallow. The problem with being good looking is one can't tell if people are just with you just for looks. I suppose it would become apparent in the long run but you know the wasted time and effort?
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when i get that women? I think odds are better ill hit the lotto for 1 billion dollars then that happening.
 
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wisebeardman said:
when i get that women? I think odds are better ill hit the lotto for 1 billion dollars then that happening.
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I remember one time coming into the office and the girl next to me literally said on my depressed looking face... "DUDE! You look like you need a girlfriend!". She was right at the time, I was so miserable and depressed always seeking for someone to complete me.

But over the years I learned to love being single and content! I never been happier! Life is to short to cry over women.. (watches the ladies get upset, mwahahha).
 
secularhermit

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It sounds "spiritually" pesimistic.

What is that eternity meant for?
For that kind of loneliness?

Sure I am not ready!
Perhaps I missed too many things in life (while being dead) and, if it is a curse, I blamed me and solely me.
 
wisebeardman

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Shawn2516 said:
I remember one time coming into the office and the girl next to me literally said on my depressed looking face... "DUDE! You look like you need a girlfriend!". She was right at the time, I was so miserable and depressed always seeking for someone to complete me.

But over the years I learned to love being single and content! I never been happier! Life is to short to cry over women.. (watches the ladies get upset, mwahahha).
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try 31 years alone, never hearing any female in person say anything nice to ya.
 
Shawn2516

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But what you said can't be completely true. Your basically saying even all the females here on CC chat treated you badly, and you know thats not true Picard.
 
wisebeardman

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Shawn2516 said:
But what you said can't be completely true. Your basically saying even all the females here on CC chat treated you badly, and you know thats not true Picard.
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this is online, I dont count online as "real life" honestly. I take everything online with a grain of salt. and believe very little of what I see online. and when I press the little x on the upper right corner of this browser its over like a show on tv.
 
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Shouryu

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This is the song that never ends...yes, it goes on and on, my friend...
 
Shawn2516

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wisebeardman said:
this is online, I dont count online as "real life" honestly. I take everything online with a grain of salt. and believe very little of what I see online. and when I press the little x on the upper right corner of this browser its over like a show on tv.
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I don't plan to crack your 31 years of iron wall of pessemism, but just to say even if I can't have a girl in my arms, its fine, because I WILL SELL THEM ON EBAY! :D lol jk.

Nope, just I learn to be happy with, or without them and don't see single as being a curse. I learned being depressed about it only hurts me, and I don't want to do 20 long years of loninlesness and boo-hoo me. Life would be absolute hell then.

But your right, at the end of the day this is the internet, but i'm still making online friends via mic chat, its awesome ^_^

I know where your at though, been there myself. Much love going out to you brother. :(
 
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