What Makes A Persons Dateable/Non Dateable???

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iTOREtheSKY

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hahahaha...that's a great line dude! "Stop stalling and phone your destiny!"

You need to write a book about dating for sure mah brutha...for sure.

And hey,I'm not jealous...more power to ya'. If I had your handsome looks & irresistible charm,I'm not sure I could bear to leave the house unless I was going to be someplace with lots & lots of mirrors.


*wait,er....what's that splintering sound I....ohhhhh no*
 
Descyple

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iTOREtheSKY said:
hahahaha...that's a great line dude! "Stop stalling and phone your destiny!"

You need to write a book about dating for sure mah brutha...for sure.

And hey,I'm not jealous...more power to ya'. If I had your handsome looks & irresistible charm,I'm not sure I could bear to leave the house unless I was going to be someplace with lots & lots of mirrors.


*wait,er....what's that splintering sound I....ohhhhh no*
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Actually I edited my post and removed my "Stop stalling and phone your destiny" line because I thought no woman would be able to resist that line (see, I'm a humanitarian after all).

And if you ever need some extra mirrors iTORE, just let me know. I've got a full stock of mirrors that have my image already super-imposed into the glass, that way when I look in the mirror I always look my best!!!!
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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Descyple said:
Actually I edited my post and removed my "Stop stalling and phone your destiny" line because I thought no woman would be able to resist that line (see, I'm a humanitarian after all).

And if you ever need some extra mirrors iTORE, just let me know. I've got a full stock of mirrors that have my image already super-imposed into the glass, that way when I look in the mirror I always look my best!!!!
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Oh great,you remove the line & now I look like I am coo-coo for cocoa puffs. Charming.

In other news..I am horribly disfigured and if I hadn't been a drummer when I was younger & had better hair than most women I knew,I'd have never gotten a date. (or a fig)
Face it dude...you...are such a stud muffin that even Pipp is creating an entire line of muffins in honor of you...called ummm...er...drats! I already revealed the name....*sigh*
 
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iTOREtheSKY said:
Oh great,you remove the line & now I look like I am coo-coo for cocoa puffs. Charming.

In other news..I am horribly disfigured and if I hadn't been a drummer when I was younger & had better hair than most women I knew,I'd have never gotten a date. (or a fig)
Face it dude...you...are such a stud muffin that even Pipp is creating an entire line of muffins in honor of you...called ummm...er...drats! I already revealed the name....*sigh*
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Pipp is making muffins in my honor??? (okay, it's time to flirt with her now, here it goes...................)

I know a woman is dateable when.............................. she bakes yummy treats that bespeak my yummy personality (okay, that line even made me sick - lol). Sorry Pipp, I'll try to flirt with you better next time!!!
 
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A person is dateable when they are Unconventional.
A person is undateable when they are Simple.

A person is dateable when they are Expressive.
A person is undateable when they are Boring.

A person is dateable when they are thankful and grateful.
A person is undateable when they are a mooch and a complainer.

A person is dateable when their actions point to how much they value Authenticity.
A person is undateable when their actions point to how much they value Popularity.

A person is dateable when they reciprocate attentions and affections.
A person is undateable when they feel entitled to be chased, regardless of anything they do.

A person is dateable when they are capable of surprising you without being prompted.
A person is undateable when they have to schedule you into their day planner a week and a half in advance.

A person is dateable when they don't always have to be entertained to spend time together.
A person is undateable when they burp loudly in public for attention.

A person is dateable when they are insightful, reasonable, and rational.
A person is undateable when they are warm, nurturing, sensitive, and still trying to be Prom Queen.
 
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ww_21

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I am not much of a talker a very shy person so for a person to be datable for me.. I guess I would have to feel comfortable enough around them to be able to carry on a conversation for hours at a time without getting bored or worrying if I am boring them.

Common interests would be good.
If I can make them laugh.
Can they make me laugh?
Do we share common values?
A passionate person is always a plus.
Honesty.
Trust worthy.
A man who wouldn't mind staying in and playing video games or watching movies rather than going out.
Someone who doesn't mind when I get sad or upset rather they cheer me up with humor.
Someone who makes me their first choice rather than an option.
Someone who would choose ME over another woman if they had to choose.
Mostly.. just someone who will be there through good and bad times.
 
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prefers the adventure of the open road, path, water - dateable

prefers his adventures to be of the virtual/video game kind - not dateable


holds the door open for me while oblivious/unconcerned about the fact that he dropped the door on the frail old lady behind me - not dateable

is equally nice to others as he is to me: dateable


appears to agree with me all the time: undateable

calls me on my baloney: dateable


willing to try my culinary/juicing adventures: dateable

thinks fast food is actually food: not dateable


likes museums, lessons, reading and documentaries - dateable

prefers the television - not dateable


plays scrabble with me - dateable

beats me at scrabble - it might be love
 
Descyple

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I know a woman is dateable when................ I tell her she looks beautiful, and she tells me I look beautiful as well (I'm a strong believer in equal-opportunity compliments!!!). If you're beautiful, then I'm beautiful. Get used to it!!!

I know a woman is undateable when..................... I tell her she looks beautiful, and she tells me I look pale (apparently I put on all this foundation for nothing!!!).
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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I know a woman is dateable when no matter what ridiculous ideas or thoughts I have running through my brain,she still listens to each one & still finds me interesting.

I know a woman is dateable when she just lets me love her and doesn't push away,or argue,or fight it. No matter what her past relationships were,she trusts me with her heart without giving into her past fears or doubts & being ruled by them.


I know a woman is undateable when she can't be honest with who she is or what she wants.

I know a woman is undateable when she "likes" Descyple's posts more often than mine.

True Story! lolz (not really):p
 
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iTOREtheSKY said:
I know a woman is undateable when she "likes" Descyple's posts more often than mine.
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Don't hate me because I'm so "likeable" (that is how my mother raised me, it's all her fault!!!).
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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I think I "like" yer' posts just as much as the ladies of CC. Er....ummm...that was an awkward admission...

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Not sure if I had already replied to this thread, but I'm bored so....

Dateable: Genuine. He means what he says, and he is not afraid of being himself. No desire to be ''unique'' for the sake of being unique, we already have too many fake hipsters, thanks. And no desire to be just like everybody else. He just is. :)
Undateable: Immaturity and Pride. Incapable of recognizing mistakes and taking responsibility for wrongdoings or mistakes. Doesn't know how to react to problems so he hides from them.

Dateable: He communicates. He can answer questions and not only that....he can make questions too! And then follow up on an actual conversation that doesn't sound like an interview. ;)
Undateable: He talks.....about himself all the time. Or he just isn't able to talk about himself. Both are equally bad.

Dateable: He is a gentleman at heart. You know, he does those silly things girls love like opening doors for you, occasionally picking the check for you after a nice dinner, or just telling you how beautiful you look that day. Makes you feel like a lady.
Undateable: He treats you like a dude, and is rude to the people around you.
 
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kayem77 said:
Dateable: He communicates. He can answer questions and not only that....he can make questions too! And then follow up on an actual conversation that doesn't sound like an interview.
Undateable: He talks.....about himself all the time. Or he just isn't able to talk about himself. Both are equally bad.
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welp its official. I am undateable. I dont like talking about myself, and I dont "make questions"
 
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wisebeardman said:
welp its official. I am undateable. I dont like talking about myself, and I dont "make questions"
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You are talking about yourself by saying that you don't like talking about yourself. And I'm sure you have made questions here before so...........I guess that makes you dateable. Sorry to bring you the horrible news.;)
 
Descyple

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Not sure if I had already replied to this thread, but I'm bored so....
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I know a woman is dateable when................ she doesn't post in one of my threads until "boredom" compels her to do so.

I guess it's true what they say, "Boredom makes the heart grow fonder"!!!
 
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Descyple said:
I know a woman is dateable when..................... she holds my hand while we walk.

I know a woman is undateable when..................... we are holding hands while we walk because she has me handcuffed!!!

Can you say "Prisoner"??? I knew you could!!!
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Aww...don't worry, Descyple :rolleyes: i'll hold your hand if we'll walk together, and i certainly won't cuff you!!!

But i'll need to put toddler wrist links on you, so you wouldn't get run over by passing cars and trucks as you cross the street with me :rolleyes: i get the feeling you're easily distracted by colorful things and shiny objects (very sweet and caring of me, don't you think so? ;))

...and so that i'll get to yank at you, just for fun!!! :D it'd be cool to see you skid backwards and drop your ice cream when you're just about to take a lick! XD

Hmm, maybe a body harness would be much better :rolleyes: and would make you look SO MUCH cuter!!!

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I think i'll get that pretty blue dress for you, too!!! ;) VEWY PWETTY!!!
 
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Descyple said:
I know a woman is dateable when................ she doesn't post in one of my threads until "boredom" compels her to do so.

I guess it's true what they say, "Boredom makes the heart grow fonder"!!!
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That's what I always say! You're now oficially dateable because you agree with me. I forgot to add that one.
 
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