New Group: Overweight and Unattractive single men only

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soulsties

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Together, we will form a bond that will become the strength we rely on.
We will not let rejection deter us from receiving the absolute best partner for a relationship or marriage.
When people see our spouses and partners, they will say, "How could a girl like that be with a guy like that?"
Because God loves to confound the mighty through the weak and the undeserving.
With God, and brotherly love for one another.
Sorry girls, this is guys only, but I think that the overweight and unattractive females should form their own group for similar purposes.

http://christianchat.com/group.php?groupid=423
 
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Ugly

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Wallow in self pity much? As the saying goes 'misery loves company'. You aren't rejected for your weight but for your attitude. I'm a bit overweight and don't see myself as attractive but i've still dated some wonderful and beautiful women of all shapes and sizes.
And yeah, there are no unattractive women in Singles to start a group of their own.
 
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soulsties

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Ugly said:
Wallow in self pity much? As the saying goes 'misery loves company'. You aren't rejected for your weight but for your attitude. I'm a bit overweight and don't see myself as attractive but i've still dated some wonderful and beautiful women of all shapes and sizes.
And yeah, there are no unattractive women in Singles to start a group of their own.
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Brother, if you could tell me about my attitude, I would like to hear it.
We are family in Christ.
 
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ServantStrike

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Well I'm overweight but modestly attractive. This group seems silly.

I can't dazzle them with brilliance, so I have to baffle people with crap. So far it only works some of the time, but hey, whatever.
 
Nautilus

Nautilus

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must resist...the pull is so strong...cant be mean...
 
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soulsties

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ServantStrike said:
Well I'm overweight but modestly attractive. This group seems silly.

I can't dazzle them with brilliance, so I have to baffle people with crap. So far it only works some of the time, but hey, whatever.
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I think identifying myself as unattractive gives me a sober view of things.
While it is possible for an attractive woman to be in a relationship with me, she will not feel that baser, animalistic raw attraction towards me. But her desire to be with me will not rely on that either.
 
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soulsties

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Animus said:
WE'RE HERE, WE'RE UGLY, GET USED TO IT!
Y'all better join up before this dog and pony show packs up and heads south for the winter
Brothers, do abandon the brotherhood, join soulsties and I

First they came ... - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia...
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We're here, we're unattractive, but that will not stop us from "finding a wife" that we think is incredibly attractive.
We approach them and pursue them in all purity, and we respect them if they tell us no.
 
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soulsties

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If you are overweight or unattractive, and there is a girl that you are incredibly attracted to, don't be afraid to just talk to her. Just go up and talk to her. Find a reason, any reason. If you want to be around that woman (who we assume is of age and unmarried), then go be around her and talk to her. In this group we will share our experiences and encourage one another and give strength to each other in brotherly love.
 
CatHerder

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so what if I'm incredibly good looking, but a little pudgy....

...if I lose 20 pounds or so, do I get thrown out of the group?
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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Say said member of this group had abs of steel... Would that person get kicked out??
 
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soulsties

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It's for a certain type of person. But we will not turn any away. If you have abs of steel you may not need encouragement though.
 
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kenthomas27

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she will not feel that baser, animalistic raw attraction towards me. But her desire to be with me will not rely on that either
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Well, I've pulled off raw before but never animalistic.
 
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kenthomas27

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CatHerder said:
so what if I'm incredibly good looking, but a little pudgy....

...if I lose 20 pounds or so, do I get thrown out of the group?
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CatHerder came out of the closet......uh......warehouse!
 
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ServantStrike

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NodMyHeadLikeYeah said:
Say said member of this group had abs of steel... Would that person get kicked out??
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Yeah, and what about stealth abs?

I'm not referring to abs that look like a B2 bomber, although that would actually be pretty cool...
 
thecreationtutor

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are we really trying to snuff out someone who maybe just needs some guidance ?
 
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