What are you looking for in a boyfriend/girlfriend?

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Estefania

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1.someone that loves God 100% and puts Him first in their life.
2.A virgin boy.
3.A boy that's waiting till he's married for sex, or anything else that would be fun in a sexual way.
4.A boy that doesn't smoke, drink or do drugs.
5. A boy thats hadnsome inside and outside.
6.someone who can love me even if I were fat or old.
7. someone with a good temperament.
8.Someone who loves worship God.
 
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Maddog

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#84
I'm not looking for a girlfriend, but if I ever decided to get into that courting game, my ideal list would look something like this:

1. Christian, preferably of a High Church orientation or Catholic.
2. Fit
3. Smoker, or someone who otherwise hasn't jumped on the anti-smoking bandwagon (basically if I married her I'd want to able to smoke in my own home).
4. Intelligent and independent, yet submissive.
5. I suppose it'd be nice if I got on with her as well.
 
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missy22

Guest
#85
- A man who lives to be Christ-like and loves God with all of His heart
- A man whose faith and intelligence I can respect and learn from
- A man who believes in courting and not just dating
- A man who is forgiving and loving, and expresses each of these freely
I'll let God choose the rest. He knows what I need better than I do anyways. :)
 
May 4, 2009
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#86
1.someone that loves God 100% and puts Him first in their life.
2.A virgin boy.
3.A boy that's waiting till he's married for sex, or anything else that would be fun in a sexual way.
4.A boy that doesn't smoke, drink or do drugs.
5. A boy thats hadnsome inside and outside.
6.someone who can love me even if I were fat or old.
7. someone with a good temperament.
8.Someone who loves worship God.
So I'm not the only one looking for a virgin and yes I'm a virgin myself. ^_^
 
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missy22

Guest
#87
So I'm not the only one looking for a virgin and yes I'm a virgin myself. ^_^

Just wondering, what if you met a wonderful Christian girl who was a 'secondary virgin', someone who'd had sex and then recommitted to a life of purity and chastity? You have to remember that a lot of good Christians did live as the world does for a time. Are they worth less than someone who's followed Christ for long enough to keep their physical virginity?
 
May 4, 2009
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#88
Just wondering, what if you met a wonderful Christian girl who was a 'secondary virgin', someone who'd had sex and then recommitted to a life of purity and chastity? You have to remember that a lot of good Christians did live as the world does for a time. Are they worth less than someone who's followed Christ for long enough to keep their physical virginity?
I'll probably still take her if she doesn't have any stds, but it still doesn't change the fact that I'd perfer a virgin. :)
 
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missy22

Guest
#89
I guess we all have our preferences. as far as STDs go, remember we will all be shedding our earthly bodies one day anyway. Following the will of God is what's most important
 
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oopsies

Guest
#90
What I've learned from a friend...someone that loves God 100% and puts Him first in their life. If they have that then they will have everything else you want.
That's my view too but none has come along so far lol
 
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jollyduckpepper

Guest
#91
arrrhhh... What about a woman that has been divorced due to the marital unfaithfulness of her ex husband? She is not a virgin, but she only had sex within the marriage relationship? Or what about a widow/widower?
 
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oopsies

Guest
#92
arrrhhh... What about a woman that has been divorced due to the marital unfaithfulness of her ex husband? She is not a virgin, but she only had sex within the marriage relationship? Or what about a widow/widower?
The Bible says if the divorce is because of adultery then it is ok to remarry. Don't ask me about the other scenarios. Widow & widower is good too. There's another giant thread on that in the Bible Discussion forum lol
 
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oopsies

Guest
#93
The Bible says if the divorce is because of adultery then it is ok to remarry. Don't ask me about the other scenarios. Widow & widower is good too. There's another giant thread on that in the Bible Discussion forum lol
Oops, sorry! It's in the singles forum >.<
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

Guest
#94
I'd date pretty much any guy that's interesting and a Christian, but if I had a set list it would include:

1. Doesn't wear jeans skinnier than mine
2. Doesn't wear sunglasses inside/at night
3. Doesn't listen to stupid music
4. Has an income that can support himself
5. Can have intelligent conversations with strong opinions on important subjects
6. Doesn't cry or express his feelings
 
Jan 8, 2009
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#95
Sorry was that you DONT want a guy who crys and expresses his feelings? Or that you do want? What do you class as stupid music?
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

Guest
#96
I really dont want a man who crys and expresses his feelings. Unless it's justified. Stupid music = rap.
 
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Maddog

Guest
#99
I'd date pretty much any guy that's interesting and a Christian, but if I had a set list it would include:

1. Doesn't wear jeans skinnier than mine
2. Doesn't wear sunglasses inside/at night
3. Doesn't listen to stupid music
4. Has an income that can support himself
5. Can have intelligent conversations with strong opinions on important subjects
6. Doesn't cry or express his feelings
Hmmm...I only get 5/6. I can't really claim to support myself while I'm still on the dole...
 
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Leilaii425

Guest
I'm not looking for a girlfriend, but if I ever decided to get into that courting game, my ideal list would look something like this:

1. Christian, preferably of a High Church orientation or Catholic.
2. Fit
3. Smoker, or someone who otherwise hasn't jumped on the anti-smoking bandwagon (basically if I married her I'd want to able to smoke in my own home).
4. Intelligent and independent, yet submissive.
5. I suppose it'd be nice if I got on with her as well.

yes i believe it is a good idea to smoke in your own home, especially if there are children there.. nothing better than an asthmatic baby inhaling cigeratte smoke