For those who disagree with some posts, I have often wondered about the tone of the voice they would be using if they were speaking. What disappoints me the most is the way some people disagree without considering that the person speaking is their brother/sister in the Lord, and to consider how He would correct them. Always in love - never with sarcastic words.
We are all at different levels of understanding and wherever a person is should be considered with gentleness. Find something you can agree with, and go from there into new perspectives they can meditate and pray about.
What bothers me also are the people who attack almost everything said and then sort of calm down into a statement that has a measure of truth in it that others agree with and forces them to apologize for not understanding where they were coming from. That is sort of diabolical. I have seen this happening on some threads. Subtle, but very disconcerting.
There are so many people here who are sincerely sharing, have a love for God and His people, and have a genuine respect for each person speaking. That is why I stay.