It's so unsettling when a couple shares a facebook account. You know, those "John&Jane Doe" accounts? You never know which of them is talking. If you want to send one of them a message, you don't know which is going to read it. If pictures of kids or statuses are posted, you don't know which sent it.
People are different, and I always look at someone through the lens of what I know about their personality. This person might be more sensitive, therefore I will be more careful with them. That person might be more prone to drama, in which case I would view what they say with a grain of salt. But if two people share an account, I'm going in BLIND. I have no way of knowing their quirks or gifts or anything. They might as well be a faceless stranger.
I realize why they do it. It's shared accountability, or safety, or even just presenting a united front. But I'm going to respond differently to someone's husband than I would to them. I'd be much more careful with a man than I would a woman who was a friend of mine. So in a way this defeats the whole purpose of doing it. The only way to be safe is just not to respond or react to anything that their account says.
*throws down mic and walks away*