This answer may not be what your looking for but:
In this world, Christians suffer more than any non-beliver.
But if you ctick this life out, then you will be rewarded by God in the next life.
I was 13 back in like July, i turn 14 on the first day of August...and 2 be honest
being 13 was the most misrable part of my life so far.
When i was really down, i would pray to God to lift my spirit and after my prayer i would relise...you know what!?
There are people in the world a heck of a lot worse of than me...
in your instance:
there are peopple in africa that have had their life ruined - they have steped on landmines and got their les blown of - they cant play rugby
there are tribes, which just slaughter anyone in sight - alot of orphans that dont know either of their parents, never even mind just their mum.
their are children in africa living in sewers...
there are children who dont have any brothers or sister - who have no body and have to steal food from bins
i just look around me, and i can see my brothers bedroom across the hall, i look up, and i see the roof that God has put over my head.
I go downstairs and I see my parents, I go into the kitchen and i see food, of all shapes sizes and colours.
And i sit down and think
"well God has blessed me greatly, and their is a reason he has put me with the parents ii have, and I am so glad that I am one, of too few people now adays, that has God"
maybe thats a load of crap to you, but thats wot i think about.