Is there something wrong with me?

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Monnkai

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Ive been talking to girls for quite a few years. A good 90% of them stop talking to me for absolutely no reason what so ever. Is it because im not a jerk? Women apparently like jerks.
 
Gozinia

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No...the opposite is true...you've weeded out the ones not worth your effort.
 
JonahLynx

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Couldn't tell you with no context.
 
Willie-T

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And then...... maybe there is something wrong with the way you approach them. Usually the only women I had trouble with were the ones who fancied themselves Feminists.
 
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Monnkai

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It seems like every girl I talk to is not worth my effort then. Ive had girlfriends before but its never worked out. They always dump me for no reason. I just really would like to know the reason why.
 
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Monnkai

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Im polite as I can possibly be. I say hi, ask what they like to do, we talk. It sometimes even gets to where they agree to meet up with me and hang out. After that they usually stop talking to me with no explanation.
 
mochi

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Monnkai said:
Im polite as I can possibly be. I say hi, ask what they like to do, we talk. It sometimes even gets to where they agree to meet up with me and hang out. After that they usually stop talking to me with no explanation.
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and you didnt try to ask them why they act like that??
i cant answer you because i dont know you in person :D so many possibilities here.. ^_^
 
secularhermit

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Monnkai said:
Ive been talking to girls for quite a few years. A good 90% of them stop talking to me for absolutely no reason what so ever. Is it because im not a jerk? Women apparently like jerks.
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That´s very rare!

If you have family, nearby, ask them first but...

Have you checked, sir:

Your current actitude when talking to them?

How does your mouth smell oddly?
 
Willie-T

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I'm old, so this may not count. But both your pictures are of that Ami stuff. Are you weird into that? If so, I think you just might have to settle for the possibility that you're only going to really click with someone into the same stuff.
 
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Monnkai

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mochi said:
and you didnt try to ask them why they act like that??
i cant answer you because i dont know you in person :D so many possibilities here.. ^_^
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of course I ask them. They don't respond to me.
 
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Monnkai

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Willie-T said:
I'm old, so this may not count. But both your pictures are of that Ami stuff. Are you weird into that? If so, I think you just might have to settle for the possibility that you're only going to really click with someone into the same stuff.
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I talk to alot of girls who are into the same stuff as me. At one point in time they all stop talking to me. I ask them why. No answer.
 
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Monnkai

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secularhermit said:
That´s very rare!

If you have family, nearby, ask them first but...

Have you checked, sir:

Your current actitude when talking to them?

How does your mouth smell oddly?
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It really doesn't matter what my breath smells like I rarely ever meet the girls because they want nothing to do with me a few days into it.
 
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Monnkai said:
It really doesn't matter what my breath smells like I rarely ever meet the girls because they want nothing to do with me a few days into it.
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Oh............................................. All this is by texting? No wonder.
 
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Monnkai

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Willie-T said:
Oh............................................. All this is by texting? No wonder.
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I have a feeling it wouldn't matter if I actually met them it would still end the same
 
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cmarieh

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Monnkai said:
It really doesn't matter what my breath smells like I rarely ever meet the girls because they want nothing to do with me a few days into it.
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Have you ever tried to contact them again and ask why?
 
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Monnkai

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cmarieh said:
Have you ever tried to contact them again and ask why?
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Yep all the time. No answer. I had one girl who said she was really into me a day later she blocked me on facebook. I emailed her no reason or response
 
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Ugly

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There are reasons, you just don't ask why.
 
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cmarieh

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Monnkai said:
Yep all the time. No answer. I had one girl who said she was really into me a day later she blocked me on facebook. I emailed her no reason or response
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I am really sorry. What do you usually tell them when you are talking about yourself and what you say about them?
 
Willie-T

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How about doing something totally strange, and actually go to maybe some church functions, and meet and talk to a real live person.

When our church has their yearly camp (about 250 kids) cell phones and computers are strictly banned. Not even allowed on the property. And this is for a whole week. The kids actually find out what communicating face-to-face is like.
 
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