Is there something wrong with me?
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Texting and emailing and chatting on yahoo are okay but they are not intimate. What I mean by that is face face to face in life conversation. Its impossible to "get " someone when you cant see their eyes and hear their voice influx and also read their body language. Its huge!
Id encourage you to step up your game and ask them out for a soda asap before too much texting and stuff occurs.
Id encourage you to step up your game and ask them out for a soda asap before too much texting and stuff occurs.
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I think, you "think", you are "pessimistic" but since you are searching for answers shows you are at least hopeful.
I find that my "best pessimistic" moments are, when I over analyze things.. Over, and over again.. and over again.
***warning nerd talk***
Time to free up your Random Access Memory (RAM)... finite amount you can process short-term... for your CPU to process..
Free it up, makes life a bit smoother... if that makes sense
I find that my "best pessimistic" moments are, when I over analyze things.. Over, and over again.. and over again.
***warning nerd talk***
Time to free up your Random Access Memory (RAM)... finite amount you can process short-term... for your CPU to process..
Free it up, makes life a bit smoother... if that makes sense
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Honestly, there is so many positives in being a single person. Ask anyone with kids, or even a big baby... AKA a hubby who acts like a baby...
When you are single, you don't have to answer to no one, except....maybe your boss and God, of course...and maybe mum and dad..(but we'll talk about that later).
When you are single, you don't have to answer to no one, except....maybe your boss and God, of course...and maybe mum and dad..(but we'll talk about that later).
Dont you see that you are defeating yourself?Perhaps you sabotage potential dates because you fall for the lie that you will have social anxiety. . 2 Timothy 1:7
For God has not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.
Christ can help you with that. Start focusing on the positive. Every time you have a negative thought about yourself just take it captive to the obedience of Christ. You can do anything you put your mind to and you can change your attitude about yourself.
Meditate on this verse.
Philippians 4:8
[SUP]8 [/SUP]Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.
People like to talk about themselves.
The next time you meet a gal, focus on what she likes and get her to tell you about herself. That is the key! You will find out plenty so that you can say "hey! Lets meet at that place you like to eat tacos" < for example...you see what I mean?
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result...
Its all about attitude and perspective. And since you are convinced you are pessimistic; Is that Christ in you or satan? Which spirit are you allowing to lead you? Read about the fruit of the spirit. You are buying a lie young man. Now the question is: Are you man enough to let Christ help you out of your funk or will you stay in your pity party?
You know when you are busy pointing the finger at the gals, four fingers point back at you. Work on yourself and get your nose in your BIBLE. You need to renew your mind.
We all make adjustments to become the best we can be. AND people naturally gravitate to happy .positive people!
You know when you are busy pointing the finger at the gals, four fingers point back at you. Work on yourself and get your nose in your BIBLE. You need to renew your mind.
We all make adjustments to become the best we can be. AND people naturally gravitate to happy .positive people!
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Yes there is something wrong with you... You are fixated on rehearsing/rehashing this internal circular reasoning regarding the issues which are bringing discontent in your life. STOP IT!!!! It isn't good for you at ALL.
Instead, decide to become productive by seeking practical solutions for each problem and IMPLEMENT THEM.
Here is a few to start...
You don't have a car which limits the scope of independent travel.... solution, get a bike, bus pass, subway schedule whatever... even if it's new shoes for WALKING.
You are have social limitations...GO to new places, get involved in church programs to build social skills.
Keep adding to the list and DO IT, ....
Instead, decide to become productive by seeking practical solutions for each problem and IMPLEMENT THEM.
Here is a few to start...
You don't have a car which limits the scope of independent travel.... solution, get a bike, bus pass, subway schedule whatever... even if it's new shoes for WALKING.
You are have social limitations...GO to new places, get involved in church programs to build social skills.
Keep adding to the list and DO IT, ....
