Husband and wife should have the same relationship that Jesus and his (invisible) church have.
Invisible?
Church at Corinth -- visible
Church at Phillipi-- visible
Church at Antioch--- visible
Church at Ephesus-- visible
Churches in Galatia-- visible
Churches in Revelation-- figurative for visible churches
etc..
NOT buildings
But--
Ecclessia- New Testament local assembly of called out saved, baptised believers covenanted together to carry out the great commission and commandment.
That is one of God's churches.. it IS 'the church'. ... in the sense of 'the church' of such and such a place.
There is a universal entity.. but it is not 'the invisible church'. Try and find a 'universal, invisible church' in scripture.. I challenge you!
The universal entities are the Kingdom and Family of God.
Family of God inside the Kingdom.. God's churches inside the Family.
The body of Christ is the church.. YES! And the 'church' is the local church of such and such a place! Not the building.. but the saved, baptised, covenanted together assembly of christians.
No one seems to understand this!
When you speak of the 'dog' -- it isn't a 'universal dog'
When you speak of the 'bar' -- it isn't a 'universal bar'
When you speak of the 'horse' -- it isn't a 'universal horse'
So .. neither is 'the church' like this. It is figurative for all of God's churches plural!
So Christ died for individual's AND also the local church assembly.
Man is to love his wife and Christ loved the church. Church as in local assembly of such and such a place.. or the institution of the church.. representing all churches.
'There is one body...' YES! One body at Ephesus.. one body at Corinth.. one body at Antioch.. etc..
(Not to mention the fact that 'there is' is an insertion and not in the original Greek)
Church-- local church.. no big C church.. big C church is a man made institution and no where to be seen in scripture.. unless you are talking about..
The Kingdom of God or the Family.. which neither of which are biblically.. the church.