Tell me if I'm a man girls are dying to have in a relationship

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I will list my personalities, my traits, what I am doing with my life, my past life, and how I think in certain situations.

I'm shy, at times very quiet, conservative, and I'm a research/chess nerd.

The Lord hate my shyness because it doesn't belong to Him, at age 17, I pray for boldness. And I received through trial and fire.

From shy and quiet guy, I was made bold by street preaching, standing up for righteousness against those who stood up against others. I spoke boldly in defense of people I see get hurt by jocks. But yet, through all of this, I have compassion for everyone, and I believe they all can change through grace by faith.

I love the Lord, giving up everything to follow Him, that included my life, and what I want for pleasure.
I am a virgin, I am 27 years old. I look like I am 18-21 years old (depends if I shave my mustache or not.)
I work out, I believe I will have my heavenly looking body one day.
I love eating healthy food, but I wouldn't mind eating unhealthy food either. (Believe the Lord said it's okay.)
I am 5'10''. I weight 150, trying to gain 160 through exercise.
I am SouthEast Asian, but I get called Caribbean, Mexican, Hispanic, Fillipino, half-White. You name it, I was believe to be one of these races at some point of my life. I am light skin.

After 10 years of giving up my life for the Lord, at age 25-27 I started to go back to College after getting my Bachelor Degree in Theology.
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I like the Beach, I want to learn how to surf, I use to take MMA just for the heck of it. Friends call me the revolutionary, because when I preach and speak, I tend to create a revolution and start a revolt.
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Most teenagers and children love me by nature, for odd reasons I don't know why. Maybe it's because I look like a little boy. (Although I look young, my stature allow people to know that I'm somehow older.)
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Uh, a lot of pretty girls would randomly give me signs of wanting to have sex. In these kind of scenario I freeze, cause I don't know what to do. And I just run, and of course the answer is always no.

Do I think I'm an ugly guy? Kind of. At the same time, I tend to believe I'm not because I was created in Gods image. Kind of hard to call myself ugly because then, I'm basically saying, "I think God is ugly." Which isn't true.
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I play around and joke too much.

Am I the type of guy you would want to date?

If so, why I am still single and why haven't you PM me yet?
 
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aforgivensonofGod

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I tried to delete the post above/thread, but I ran out of time. God bless ChristianChat.com
 
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You don't need to impress all girls.
 
shineyourlight

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Am I the type of guy you would want to date?

If so, why I am still single and why haven't you PM me yet?
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You can't force a relationship. I understand you are feeling "lonely" but that shouldn't be the only reason you want to date. Being in a relationship is having someone who can complement you, who is a team member, who will love you when you're having a worst day as well as loving you on the best of days.

"Why hasn't anyone PM'd you yet"? Because the purpose of this isn't to date, but to be with other Christians. People have found their spouses on here. But the main purpose isn't a dating website. It is fine to have that desire to find a Christian woman. But, like I said before, relationships are not meant to be forced.

When we keep seeking for a relationship, we end up not having one. We are too busy looking to actually sit down and enjoy life. Hence, causing people stress.

My advice is to enjoy life. Just...enjoy it. If you're feeling lonely, there's groups of people that would love to be friends with you. You're trying to jump over the friendship part and right into a romantic relationship. Enjoy life, enjoy people, do something you have fun doing. Don't awaken love when it's not yet supposed to be awaken :p
 
Desdichado

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Don't bother asking the question. Just go get'em, tiger.
 
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aforgivensonofGod

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shineyourlight said:
You can't force a relationship. I understand you are feeling "lonely" but that shouldn't be the only reason you want to date. Being in a relationship is having someone who can complement you, who is a team member, who will love you when you're having a worst day as well as loving you on the best of days.

"Why hasn't anyone PM'd you yet"? Because the purpose of this isn't to date, but to be with other Christians. People have found their spouses on here. But the main purpose isn't a dating website. It is fine to have that desire to find a Christian woman. But, like I said before, relationships are not meant to be forced.

When we keep seeking for a relationship, we end up not having one. We are too busy looking to actually sit down and enjoy life. Hence, causing people stress.

My advice is to enjoy life. Just...enjoy it. If you're feeling lonely, there's groups of people that would love to be friends with you. You're trying to jump over the friendship part and right into a romantic relationship. Enjoy life, enjoy people, do something you have fun doing. Don't awaken love when it's not yet supposed to be awaken :p
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Not lonely.
Not forcing any relationship.
This post serve no purpose of a dating material, but rather, just for entertainment. I was hoping to see what kind of responses I would get.

"Am I the type of guy you would date?" - This question, you don't even need to answer it. I didn't really care for it.
"Why haven't you PM me yet?" - Was just a sarcastic joke.
 
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Chances are, if your making a thread like this, then no they aren't. To consider if you're the kind of man women are 'dying' to date screams of pride. No man is that great.
 
Roh_Chris

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aforgivensonofGod said:
Not lonely.
Not forcing any relationship.
This post serve no purpose of a dating material, but rather, just for entertainment. I was hoping to see what kind of responses I would get.

"Am I the type of guy you would date?" - This question, you don't even need to answer it. I didn't really care for it.
"Why haven't you PM me yet?" - Was just a sarcastic joke.
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Pardon Shiney, for she is but a child and does not get jokes very easily. :p

Why haven't I PM'ed you yet? Gee, I was going to, but then my cat sat on my keyboard and refused to move. :rolleyes:

Disclaimer: 1. I am straight, so I don't PM guys unless I know them very well and there is something specific to talk about.
2. I HATE cats. I find them abominable. Except kittens. Kittens are delicious.... and scrunchy...
 
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aforgivensonofGod said:
I will list my personalities, my traits, what I am doing with my life, my past life, and how I think in certain situations.

I'm shy, at times very quiet, conservative, and I'm a research/chess nerd.

The Lord hate my shyness because it doesn't belong to Him, at age 17, I pray for boldness. And I received through trial and fire.

From shy and quiet guy, I was made bold by street preaching, standing up for righteousness against those who stood up against others. I spoke boldly in defense of people I see get hurt by jocks. But yet, through all of this, I have compassion for everyone, and I believe they all can change through grace by faith.

I love the Lord, giving up everything to follow Him, that included my life, and what I want for pleasure.
I am a virgin, I am 27 years old. I look like I am 18-21 years old (depends if I shave my mustache or not.)
I work out, I believe I will have my heavenly looking body one day.
I love eating healthy food, but I wouldn't mind eating unhealthy food either. (Believe the Lord said it's okay.)
I am 5'10''. I weight 150, trying to gain 160 through exercise.
I am SouthEast Asian, but I get called Caribbean, Mexican, Hispanic, Fillipino, half-White. You name it, I was believe to be one of these races at some point of my life. I am light skin.

After 10 years of giving up my life for the Lord, at age 25-27 I started to go back to College after getting my Bachelor Degree in Theology.
----
I like the Beach, I want to learn how to surf, I use to take MMA just for the heck of it. Friends call me the revolutionary, because when I preach and speak, I tend to create a revolution and start a revolt.
----
Most teenagers and children love me by nature, for odd reasons I don't know why. Maybe it's because I look like a little boy. (Although I look young, my stature allow people to know that I'm somehow older.)
----
Uh, a lot of pretty girls would randomly give me signs of wanting to have sex. In these kind of scenario I freeze, cause I don't know what to do. And I just run, and of course the answer is always no.

Do I think I'm an ugly guy? Kind of. At the same time, I tend to believe I'm not because I was created in Gods image. Kind of hard to call myself ugly because then, I'm basically saying, "I think God is ugly." Which isn't true.
----
I play around and joke too much.

Am I the type of guy you would want to date?

If so, why I am still single and why haven't you PM me yet?
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You are funny Little One. Wait on the LORD. His timing is always right. He sees the end from the beginning and knows if He is your first love, which He desires all to seek His Kingdom first. Don't put any trust in your flesh to know what you think is right. God says to all of us, "There is a way that seems right, but the end thereof are the ways of death." Proverbs 14:12.
 
blue_ladybug

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aforgivensonofGod said:
I will list my personalities, my traits, what I am doing with my life, my past life, and how I think in certain situations.

I'm shy, at times very quiet, conservative, and I'm a research/chess nerd.

The Lord hate my shyness because it doesn't belong to Him, at age 17, I pray for boldness. And I received through trial and fire.

From shy and quiet guy, I was made bold by street preaching, standing up for righteousness against those who stood up against others. I spoke boldly in defense of people I see get hurt by jocks. But yet, through all of this, I have compassion for everyone, and I believe they all can change through grace by faith.

I love the Lord, giving up everything to follow Him, that included my life, and what I want for pleasure.
I am a virgin, I am 27 years old. I look like I am 18-21 years old (depends if I shave my mustache or not.)
I work out, I believe I will have my heavenly looking body one day.
I love eating healthy food, but I wouldn't mind eating unhealthy food either. (Believe the Lord said it's okay.)
I am 5'10''. I weight 150, trying to gain 160 through exercise.
I am SouthEast Asian, but I get called Caribbean, Mexican, Hispanic, Fillipino, half-White. You name it, I was believe to be one of these races at some point of my life. I am light skin.

After 10 years of giving up my life for the Lord, at age 25-27 I started to go back to College after getting my Bachelor Degree in Theology.
----
I like the Beach, I want to learn how to surf, I use to take MMA just for the heck of it. Friends call me the revolutionary, because when I preach and speak, I tend to create a revolution and start a revolt.
----
Most teenagers and children love me by nature, for odd reasons I don't know why. Maybe it's because I look like a little boy. (Although I look young, my stature allow people to know that I'm somehow older.)
----
Uh, a lot of pretty girls would randomly give me signs of wanting to have sex. In these kind of scenario I freeze, cause I don't know what to do. And I just run, and of course the answer is always no.

Do I think I'm an ugly guy? Kind of. At the same time, I tend to believe I'm not because I was created in Gods image. Kind of hard to call myself ugly because then, I'm basically saying, "I think God is ugly." Which isn't true.
----
I play around and joke too much.

Am I the type of guy you would want to date?

If so, why I am still single and why haven't you PM me yet?
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melita916

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why haven't i PM you?

cuz there was no chocolate or ice cream or pizza.

lol :)
 
shineyourlight

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Roh_Chris said:
Pardon Shiney, for she is but a child and does not get jokes very easily. :p

Why haven't I PM'ed you yet? Gee, I was going to, but then my cat sat on my keyboard and refused to move. :rolleyes:

Disclaimer: 1. I am straight, so I don't PM guys unless I know them very well and there is something specific to talk about.
2. I HATE cats. I find them abominable. Except kittens. Kittens are delicious.... and scrunchy...
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Roh, you are ridiculous :p


Not lonely.
Not forcing any relationship.
This post serve no purpose of a dating material, but rather, just for entertainment. I was hoping to see what kind of responses I would get.

"Am I the type of guy you would date?" - This question, you don't even need to answer it. I didn't really care for it.
"Why haven't you PM me yet?" - Was just a sarcastic joke.
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Great! :D
 
PeterJens

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aforgivensonofGod said:
Am I the type of guy you would want to date?

If so, why I am still single and why haven't you PM me yet?
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You are bored and confusing. If you want anything real you have to respect boundaries, which you demonstrate you are not very good at keeping.

My question to you would be how many social groups do you belong to, and how many people do you really know?

It sounds like this is what is lacking, but also this is what you are for whatever reason running away from.
 
Lynx

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Dating is over rated. It could lead to a life, which is a terrible thing to have. It gets in the way of important things like keeping up with the forum and video games. Rebel Galaxy ain't gonna play itself you know.
 
CatHerder

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Nope. You need to learn to cook. Then they will want to date you.
 
TriviaGirl86

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I have but one question.... are you this guy?

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If yes, I would totally date you. But only because we would get free passes to Busch Gardens...
 
Searching4Truth

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If you had to ask, then you aren't.




Good day, sir!





And good luck!





*salutes*
 
Willie-T

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melita916 said:
why haven't i PM you?

cuz there was no chocolate or ice cream or pizza.

lol :)
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You tell him, Lita. Who does he think he is, not offering food, right off the bat?
 
Utah

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Enjoy your youth. Your future holds an alarming amount of hair growing in your ears, nose and on your back. And that's the good stuff! ;)
 
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