No thanks, not really my thing. But being homosexual is not a sin. If you want to witness to the gay population, you need to at least start with that bit of info.You are free to start another thread.
No thanks, not really my thing. But being homosexual is not a sin. If you want to witness to the gay population, you need to at least start with that bit of info.You are free to start another thread.
No thanks, not really my thing. But being homosexual is not a sin. If you want to witness to the gay population, you need to at least start with that bit of info.
What you just did here is focus on the negative and provided absolutely nothing to the solution but your two cents worth of nothing. .You may have actually answered her questions instead of elevating yourself while you ridicule those whom you disagree with their methods! Dont you have the answers?Actually, it might surprise you how many people right here believe that is EXACTLY the way to act. So, get ready for the onslaught of those kinds of replies.(No, I'm not one of them.)
No thanks, not really my thing. But being homosexual is not a sin. If you want to witness to the gay population, you need to at least start with that bit of info.
My approach has been to be myself and accept them for who they are. I'm not judged for what they choose to do. But if the topic comes up, I let them know what I believe. I used to know a couple of lesbians who lived on a farm. I'd help them out for haircuts. I never verbalized my faith, but I knew they knew I was a Christian because I'm sure the friend I met them through told them. They eventually split up, and the last time I saw the one that left, there was a bible on her nightstand at the house she was staying. I guess I should have inquired more, but I didn't.
The mere fact of being homosexual is not a sin any---For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural,and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.--Romans 1:26-27
I can't argue with the Word of God. (well you could but it's not changing nor is it worth anyone's time trying to do so)
What you just did here is focus on the negative and provided absolutely nothing to the solution but your two cents worth of nothing. .You may have actually answered her questions instead of elevating yourself while you ridicule those whom you disagree with their methods! Dont you have the answers?
"Yes", it's very sad. But many "Christians" honestly feel that they are operating from "love" to make sure that whoever they are preaching at, be they Homosexual, or whatever, get the full impact of just what loathsome and defiled filth they are. If this turns them off, "Too bad", the Christian knows they "Did their duty" and delivered God's message. From that moment on, they are fully justified, and it all rests on the head of "the sinner."
In working professionaly in this area for 24 years, "No", I do not have a set of pat answers to give. Each person, each case, and each time you converse with a particular individual homosexual person, The Holy Spirit may have you saying different things and in different ways.
What I told her to be aware of, and ready for was that certain people on here honestly only understand doing one thing, one way.
Its all in the delivery and following the leading of the Holy Spirit! Some are chosen to do it and some arent. You are not one of them that is bold enough to do it I suppose. Talking to a lost soul in a cafe is no different than street ministry.
It is LOVING to tell a person about Jesus Christ who is the propitiation for our sins. It is UNLOVING to stay quiet .
"Well if I'm gay am I going to hell?"
"I was born this way and I can't change."
"What if I'm a good person? Would God still send me to hell for being gay?"
See, JF? Here is precisely one of the sad, "beat them with a Bible", replies I was preparing you for.
It is the delivery that counts as well as being a willing servant for Christ which is praying that the Holy Spirit lead us in this area as well.Lead by example. Be compassionate but do not yield to their adultery. Identify yourself as Christian. Be ready to answer questions and be resolute.
The thing about witnessing is, it's communication, and "communication is a two-way street". Sometimes, indeed, you can reach someone by walking into a restaurant and talking to the air. Someone will probably hear you, and maybe these times are when real miracles happen, but we should not pretend we can perform miracles on demand. In order to communicate, you must speak and they must be listening, not just hearing, but listening. Speaking to them as if they're a brick wall is not communicating and thus not purposefully witnessing. They need to somehow be ready for the message.
I hope this helps. I run into the same thing often.
1. "Well if I'm gay am I going to hell?"
2. "I was born this way and I can't change. Why would God condemn me?"
3. "What if I'm a good person? Would God still send me to hell for being gay?"
See, JF? Here is precisely one of the sad, "beat them with a Bible", replies I was preparing you for.
Willie, it is not unloving to tell them God's truth. Maybe if we stop babying this generation, we'll see a greater harvest for the Kingdom.
Did you just say homosexuality is not sin?
So I'm sitting here at my college and I heard a conversation between some students. They were talking about someone's sexual preferances. I got to thinking, "what would be an effective way to witness to them?" I don't plan on going up and just talking about Jesus right off the bat but just how would we witness to the LGBT community?
So first, we all know being gay, transgender, ect. is a sin. That's not the debate here. If you disagree with that statement you are free to start a new thread.
Second, the LGBT community has a lot of questions that are very legit. How would we go about answering them in a loving way?
Here are some questions I have heard:
"Well if I'm gay am I going to hell?"
"I was born this way and I can't change. Why would God condemn me?"
"What if I'm a good person? Would God still send me to hell for being gay?"
These are all legit questions and unless we know how to answer them effectivly with equal parts truth and love we will never reach a very hurt community.
So what are your thoughts? Because we can't just throw the cold hard truth in their faces. That would send them running to the hills. But we can't sacrifice truth for love either. We need to love them while being truthful. How do we do that?
