20 year old, looking for a wife!

[DieuMerci]

Hi. I'm Tyler. I've been looking for a godly woman, who loves praising God, who reads Her bible, hopefully interested in study and in practicing the Word. I'm in Missouri.

 

[Londonguy]

Hi... you know, I was in the same position as you. I wanted to marry a lady who loved God, one that was spiritually-compatible. And you know, I have found her... and married her nearly 5 years ago. She is an amazing woman, but more than, we have an AMAZING God who ordered my steps to her. The reason why I say all that, is because the Lord placed on my heart (and my wife's) to write a book, to help those who are looking for God's BEST in a marital partner. So we did, praise God! We explain our times loneliness, struggles, wondering 'when?' and 'if'.. and most importently, 'how'. And the Lord showed us Biblical principles in meeting that special person. We share our story, because God told us to. We have already had wonderful feedback. I believe this book will help. Its a really easy read (quite a small book). Its available on Amazon.com and Amazon.co.uk. We have one review on the UK site if you want to have a look. Here's a direct link:


http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/08...ails?ie=UTF8&me=&qid=1233400763&sr=8-1&seller=

If you do read it, we'd love your feedback!

May you find the one you are looking for. Trust me, you'll be so blessed!

Sunil & Janeene
London, England

 

[Londonguy]

sorry, book is called "Match Made in Heaven - how to find your God given partner" by Sunil and Janeene Chothi

 

[-JCaroline-]

You're still young, why do you wanna get married now? Enjoy the life, meet people, have fun (in a good way)

I'm pretty sure God has chosen a beautiful woman for you but He is gonna give her to you in HIS TIME


~Don't worry, take your time, don't hurry~

 

[Chopsui101]

man son, why you wanna get married so young? Your 20, live life before you have to be responsible for other people. Go on trips, be random, wake up one day and decide you want to visit the bahamas for no reason other than you can. I find that if I am activily looking for a girlfriend/wife then it doesn't work out as well as if I just live life and keep the door open in case I run into a girl that I like...but on the real...your no 20

 

[xspinningisfun]

Yeah, I'm almost 20 but not looking for a husband yet. I don't think I'm fully ready, ya know?
But keep praying about it...I can't say you're too young because my cousin got married at 18 and has been married for 7 years. A lot of that has to do that they have God in the center of their marriage!!!

But yeah, just keep seeking and keep praying to God. He will provide you a wife if it is His will for you!

 

[incorporatestreet]

Im 19, and im reading the book called 'God is Your Matchmaker' by stephanie herzog.
it has really opened my eyes. first of all, online dating or finding your mate online isnt of god.
second, you need to have an intimate relationship with god before you can handle a relationship
with the opposite sex. third, you need to completely and whole heartedly trust and believe
the lord will bring that woman into your life when the timing is perfect for god is never late or early.
so be patient, and pray for your wife that god will lead your paths together.

 

[cawking]

I agree just trust God and have patients you have lots of time..im 25 and im not to worried yet maybe i should be

 

[Baptistrw]

Im 19, and im reading the book called 'God is Your Matchmaker' by stephanie herzog.
it has really opened my eyes. first of all, online dating or finding your mate online isnt of god.
second, you need to have an intimate relationship with god before you can handle a relationship
with the opposite sex. third, you need to completely and whole heartedly trust and believe
the lord will bring that woman into your life when the timing is perfect for god is never late or early.
so be patient, and pray for your wife that god will lead your paths together.

I totally disagree with your statement that meeting someone online isn't of God, are you one to limit God and His work? God can bring 2 people together in whatever way He sees fit. There is no way to prove that as being true. I've known alot of people who have met their spouses online and had wonderful blessed and fruitful marriages. It's not for everyone, but it is certainly a way God can use and bless.

 

[incorporatestreet]

I totally disagree with your statement that meeting someone online isn't of God, are you one to limit God and His work? God can bring 2 people together in whatever way He sees fit. There is no way to prove that as being true. I've known alot of people who have met their spouses online and had wonderful blessed and fruitful marriages. It's not for everyone, but it is certainly a way God can use and bless.

millions are relying on internet dating services rather than God to choose their mates. dating services match people with eligible candidates to see which one suits them best. their decisions are based on physical attraction and answers to a one-size-fits-all questionnaire. in reality, there are things that they dont know about themselves or the other person that only god knows, which makes Him the only One eligible to be THE matchmaker. these services are not fool proof, and there are many opportunities for deception and falsehood. using the latest technology to match people puts humans against God, decieving us into believing that we have what it takes to make a perfect match. we cannot say a match is made in this way is from god, is ordained by god, or is a gift from god. theres nothing divine or supernatural about it. the world invented it because they dont acknowledge or rely on God for their relationships; but now christians are adapting to this worldly way of finding a mate too. the only way a relationship can be considered from God is if the whole thing (the who, the when, and the how) is all God.

I'm not limiting God, but that is just my personal view. sorry if you disagree.

 

[Baptistrw]

The Jewish culture in the Bible had the parents choosing ones mate, should we adopt that as well?

 

[incorporatestreet]

dont indians, as in from india not native americans, do that aswell?
should our heavenly father, not our earthly father/mother, be the one to choose our perfect mate?

 

[Baptistrw]

Probably. But if parents did it, wouldn't it prevent the "suits them best" problem?

 

[incorporatestreet]

it shouldnt matter what our earthly parents think or feel,
we should rely on GOD, our hevenly father to bring that person into
our lives when the time is right.

my parents got married at ages 18 and 19.
my mom is a preachers daughter and my dad was an athiest.
parents on both sides were completely against the wedding
but god has transformed both of my parents dramatically and are
now serving god and living their dream.

now if my parents would have listened to their parents,
where do you think my parents would be?
my mom would be dead because she was an alcoholic and was
suicidal.
my dad would probably be dead or in prison because he was heavily
into drugs.

god brought my parents together at the perfect time and with gods
help, my parents saved each other.

 

[Baptistrw]

Yes I agree. If "Bob" goes online to CC and meets "Sarah" and they hit it off and feel God leading them into a relationship, who is to say it's not of God?

 

[incorporatestreet]

meeting on a site like this, not a dating service, is a tad bit different.
dont you think?

 

[Baptistrw]

It depends on how you define dating service. I think the method of meeting is overrated, and how God blesses underrated.

 

[incorporatestreet]

how do YOU define dating service?
wouldnt you think dating service means a service that you pay for
to find a someone?

dont you think god can work in mightier and mysterious ways than through an online dating
service wih only questionnaires and photos?

 

[-JCaroline-]

lol I like this discussion. I want to know hos is gonna end it ojojojoo

 

[incorporatestreet]

haha im waiting for raymond to reply!
i may have stumped him :O lol