My friend had his heart ripped out by a vindictive woman imo, and she publicly accused him of flirting, although he's a really decent guy and only likes to kid harmlessly,
he even got concerned because a friend told him it might not be a good thing to do, even just talking online, with one woman who was married.
He's a guy who doesn't want anything but the best for others, and the couple and him, they had a friendship and an understanding, so it was all good, and besides he doesn't even really flirt to 'get results', he just jokes around.
But he found out the hard way that when some women want vengeance or to do harm, they will use the 'lewdness' accusation and drag even a good person through the public mud, and that's the end of that, because most people just believe whatever we say, and the guy is called guilty, and out the door he's kicked.
What's more is his numerous attempts to contact this site, and they never even had the human decency, let alone, CHRISTIAN, to reply in any way, just totally ignore him, like she's done on more than one occasion and then just goes on the happy merry way on this site, maybe trolling for the next victim somewher down the line, i dont know, while my friend is really hurt, and missing alot of good people he was getting to know here lately. And Including her too.
Which makes no sense to me, I love him but I think he's nuts. I think she's nuts too, they're probably meant for each other, but I actually came here to see if I could help, (i'm not too impressed being here) people should treat each other a lot better than they do, specially christians, and I want everyone to be happy, but i can't barely bring myself to talk to the woman, i'm so angry over what happened, and the phony stuff by some people that are officials on this site do.
I was warned about it, and now i know first hand, and i guess they ban me next. It's funny, because i see flirting and things said that just goes winked at. I guess you have to be in with certain people, otherwise you're treated like you've commited the unpardonable sin.
I just don't like this spiteful brand of christianity., but i know, definitely, there are some good people here too and i don't mean to make it all seem bad. But i know someone that deserves much better, while theres some on here that (i would be losing any hope of being christian if i said what i really think of them).
And yes, depleted, you know who i mean too and you and him were/are friends and he misses you too and hopes you will contact him.
He prays for you, and theres others here too he hopes he hasnt lost as friends. I guess it wont be long and I'll be gone too. Such is the world of christian love one another?
Sorry to disrupt, but for what it's worth imo, flirting can be fun, should be harmless, can even lead to good things, but there are some people that are very prudish and get easily offended, (but only sometimes, so i think it's phony), and some people will twist it into something ugly and use it against others when they're out to cause them harm, so these days its probably best to avoid.
And thats a shame imo when a little flirty fun is no longer ok. Well, it is, i'm sure the same ones who cry foul do it too, they just dont think when they do its so bad.
(To be clear and fair, that situation had other factors i hope they resolve), but this thread is a good way to discuss how its not always the flirting thats so harmful or 'un-christian', but what someone chooses to do with it, that can be the 'un-christian', harmful thing.
Please call or write my friend?
he even got concerned because a friend told him it might not be a good thing to do, even just talking online, with one woman who was married.
He's a guy who doesn't want anything but the best for others, and the couple and him, they had a friendship and an understanding, so it was all good, and besides he doesn't even really flirt to 'get results', he just jokes around.
But he found out the hard way that when some women want vengeance or to do harm, they will use the 'lewdness' accusation and drag even a good person through the public mud, and that's the end of that, because most people just believe whatever we say, and the guy is called guilty, and out the door he's kicked.
What's more is his numerous attempts to contact this site, and they never even had the human decency, let alone, CHRISTIAN, to reply in any way, just totally ignore him, like she's done on more than one occasion and then just goes on the happy merry way on this site, maybe trolling for the next victim somewher down the line, i dont know, while my friend is really hurt, and missing alot of good people he was getting to know here lately. And Including her too.
Which makes no sense to me, I love him but I think he's nuts. I think she's nuts too, they're probably meant for each other, but I actually came here to see if I could help, (i'm not too impressed being here) people should treat each other a lot better than they do, specially christians, and I want everyone to be happy, but i can't barely bring myself to talk to the woman, i'm so angry over what happened, and the phony stuff by some people that are officials on this site do.
I was warned about it, and now i know first hand, and i guess they ban me next. It's funny, because i see flirting and things said that just goes winked at. I guess you have to be in with certain people, otherwise you're treated like you've commited the unpardonable sin.
I just don't like this spiteful brand of christianity., but i know, definitely, there are some good people here too and i don't mean to make it all seem bad. But i know someone that deserves much better, while theres some on here that (i would be losing any hope of being christian if i said what i really think of them).
And yes, depleted, you know who i mean too and you and him were/are friends and he misses you too and hopes you will contact him.
He prays for you, and theres others here too he hopes he hasnt lost as friends. I guess it wont be long and I'll be gone too. Such is the world of christian love one another?
Sorry to disrupt, but for what it's worth imo, flirting can be fun, should be harmless, can even lead to good things, but there are some people that are very prudish and get easily offended, (but only sometimes, so i think it's phony), and some people will twist it into something ugly and use it against others when they're out to cause them harm, so these days its probably best to avoid.
And thats a shame imo when a little flirty fun is no longer ok. Well, it is, i'm sure the same ones who cry foul do it too, they just dont think when they do its so bad.
(To be clear and fair, that situation had other factors i hope they resolve), but this thread is a good way to discuss how its not always the flirting thats so harmful or 'un-christian', but what someone chooses to do with it, that can be the 'un-christian', harmful thing.
Please call or write my friend?
