You are right in one way. I think there is also another side to this argument. It is what is within that matters, how you show love and care for others, your words, your care. It is easy to dress smart, but be horrible inside.
This is why many churches moved away from sunday best to being real, and not pretending.
So much of victorian and smart dressed church life was pretend. It was founded on roles and not emotional openness.
So the hardest thing in every aspect of life is to be emotionally open and honest as well as loving and kind.
So today, when I meet with my friends in Christ, I just want them to be there in reality, not pretending.
And to strangers who do not know me, I will dress up, to make a good impression, when it is needed.
But that is not very often. So I understand your position, I hope you can understand mine.
This is why many churches moved away from sunday best to being real, and not pretending.
So much of victorian and smart dressed church life was pretend. It was founded on roles and not emotional openness.
So the hardest thing in every aspect of life is to be emotionally open and honest as well as loving and kind.
So today, when I meet with my friends in Christ, I just want them to be there in reality, not pretending.
And to strangers who do not know me, I will dress up, to make a good impression, when it is needed.
But that is not very often. So I understand your position, I hope you can understand mine.
It's the principle of loving and respecting God, [Which scruffy dressers have no respect for God].