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I got bad news for ya sis.. there aint a lot you can do. Keep showering her with love and pray..not just for her though. Pray that you can persevere and endure , have the strength , keep the peace of God with you etc.. Maybe get her some flowers at times. But like said there aint a lot because she surely doesnt hate you. She hates Christ in you. Your too awesome no one can hate you!
U
It's probably not you, she just may not be mature enough as a person, and when she sees you it reminds her that your dad had a previous marriage so it makes her feel insecure....Just be strong, pray, and don't rehearse it in your mind of you being wrong or what you could've done differently just let it go and move on with your day. 
Maybe it's a little harsh but you can also pray to God to set your stepmom straight....God knows how to break pride/set people straight and if you ask him to he just may and change your stepmom from a cold heart to a real one...
Don't let people who suck drag you down...know you're better than whatever they say!
Maybe it's a little harsh but you can also pray to God to set your stepmom straight....God knows how to break pride/set people straight and if you ask him to he just may and change your stepmom from a cold heart to a real one... Don't let people who suck drag you down...know you're better than whatever they say!
T
It's probably not you, she just may not be mature enough as a person, and when she sees you it reminds her that your dad had a previous marriage so it makes her feel insecure....Just be strong, pray, and don't rehearse it in your mind of you being wrong or what you could've done differently just let it go and move on with your day. Maybe it's a little harsh but you can also pray to God to set your stepmom straight....God knows how to break pride/set people straight and if you ask him to he just may and change your stepmom from a cold heart to a real one...
Don't let people who suck drag you down...know you're better than whatever they say!
Maybe it's a little harsh but you can also pray to God to set your stepmom straight....God knows how to break pride/set people straight and if you ask him to he just may and change your stepmom from a cold heart to a real one... Don't let people who suck drag you down...know you're better than whatever they say!
She's not with my father anymore.
So that's not it.
She's glad she's not with my father as is everyone else who isn't with him.
So I guess she really isn't my step mom but I still consider her my step mom
Well he was hated first
John 15:18
If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you.
Matthew 10:22
And ye shall be hated of all men for my name's sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved.
Im sorry that you gotta go through that sis. Believe me I dont have it the easiest either. Hang on tight and use it to get closer to God and people (like us) who love you to bits and dont wanna see you suffer. I believe your a strong young lady who can get through this victoriously
Romans 8:37
37 Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.
Dont give up on her The more hate she gives you, the more you love her. Dont work yourself to death but just keep loving her. Dont let her break you. Let Jesus show you how he sees her through his eyes with all her good and bad sides.
John 15:18
If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you.
Matthew 10:22
And ye shall be hated of all men for my name's sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved.
Im sorry that you gotta go through that sis. Believe me I dont have it the easiest either. Hang on tight and use it to get closer to God and people (like us) who love you to bits and dont wanna see you suffer. I believe your a strong young lady who can get through this victoriously
Romans 8:37
37 Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.
Dont give up on her
The more hate she gives you, the more you love her. Dont work yourself to death but just keep loving her. Dont let her break you. Let Jesus show you how he sees her through his eyes with all her good and bad sides.
U
Well, the other thing I forgot to mention but remember telling someone else on CC is ....avoidance....just limit your contact with her to the bare minimum like dinner or stuff and just stay in your own world as much as possible....It will starve her ego a little bit not to be able to throw her weight around and push you around so to speak....like a common hood saying...."sometimes you gotta just ice dat fool".....lol in this sense meaning just be impersonal/limit contact/freeze her out a bit.
T
Well, let's see
My mom doesn't want me living in her house
My step father (1st) is an alcoholic and has anger issues
My father is in jail for abusing his children and then violating the order of protection I got against him
My step mom (2nd) not this one is with my father and doesn't want anything to do with me
I think that about covers it
My mom doesn't want me living in her house
My step father (1st) is an alcoholic and has anger issues
My father is in jail for abusing his children and then violating the order of protection I got against him
My step mom (2nd) not this one is with my father and doesn't want anything to do with me
I think that about covers it
T
Well he was hated first
John 15:18
If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you.
Matthew 10:22
And ye shall be hated of all men for my name's sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved.
Im sorry that you gotta go through that sis. Believe me I dont have it the easiest either. Hang on tight and use it to get closer to God and people (like us) who love you to bits and dont wanna see you suffer. I believe your a strong young lady who can get through this victoriously
Romans 8:37
37 Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.
Dont give up on her The more hate she gives you, the more you love her. Dont work yourself to death but just keep loving her. Dont let her break you. Let Jesus show you how he sees her through his eyes with all her good and bad sides.
John 15:18
If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you.
Matthew 10:22
And ye shall be hated of all men for my name's sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved.
Im sorry that you gotta go through that sis. Believe me I dont have it the easiest either. Hang on tight and use it to get closer to God and people (like us) who love you to bits and dont wanna see you suffer. I believe your a strong young lady who can get through this victoriously
Romans 8:37
37 Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.
Dont give up on her
The more hate she gives you, the more you love her. Dont work yourself to death but just keep loving her. Dont let her break you. Let Jesus show you how he sees her through his eyes with all her good and bad sides. Thank you....
T
Well, the other thing I forgot to mention but remember telling someone else on CC is ....avoidance....just limit your contact with her to the bare minimum like dinner or stuff and just stay in your own world as much as possible....It will starve her ego a little bit not to be able to throw her weight around and push you around so to speak....like a common hood saying...."sometimes you gotta just ice dat fool".....lol in this sense meaning just be impersonal/limit contact/freeze her out a bit.
Heck I get out of the house as much as I can but she always finds a way
U
Wow you have a lot to deal with I had no idea, I am sad for you, well the best advice I can give is don't internalize anything from these negative situations....b/c negative situations can create negative people....if you don't internalize it you won't turn out/get poisoned by these dysfunctional people....Remember you can do it and you can be better than these people can even dream of themselves achieving....don't let them get you down.
T
Wow you have a lot to deal with I had no idea, I am sad for you, well the best advice I can give is don't internalize anything from these negative situations....b/c negative situations can create negative people....if you don't internalize it you won't turn out/get poisoned by these dysfunctional people....Remember you can do it and you can be better than these people can even dream of themselves achieving....don't let them get you down.
I don't think I can do that