you don't?
Romans 12:14
Bless those who persecute you. Bless and do not curse.
Romans 12:20
On the contrary, "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink. For in so doing, you will heap burning coals on his head."
do you know what it looks like when the above in bold happens?
hard to when the person is cast aside.