What would your childhood teddy bear look like?

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This isn't terribly serious, but it also has a point. It is how we saw ourselves when we were children.

There is this organization that is making dolls and teddy bears for kids with physical differences. A child missing a leg got one with his prosthetic leg. (Same design on the leg too.) One missing an arm gets one with the same prosthetic arm. They even have some with little walkers.

Now, I remember what I thought was different about me when I was little. Actually, that was what was different about me when I was little. I never thought of myself as little, because I always looked like someone three grades above what I was. I was the biggest kid in class. I was the biggest person in the class starting somewhere between 3rd and 5th grade, because I was even taller than my teachers by then. (My 6th, 7th, and 8th grade teachers were taller than I was sometimes.) I was the tallest student until 10th grade, when the boys finally caught up and passed me in size.

I remember sitting quietly at a table once waiting for Mom to get finished her shift. (She was taking over for the lunch lady that day in the Catholic school, and for some reason first graders had half a day, but everyone else didn't.) Three nuns walked by and I heard one of them say, "Aw, isn't she cute?" You know the tone. Only used by adults and usually aimed at a toddler or baby. I was shocked, because I didn't think I was cute. I was too big for cute. I could have been a fourth grader. And everyone knows fourth graders are such big kids they can't be cute. lol

So what teddy bear would have fit my thought of who I was back then? One of those 6-foot tall bears that hog up the whole sofa.

What teddy bear would have fit you when you were little and you were sure you were different from anyone else?
 

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dunno.. i guess mine would have been a bored/ apathetic looking bear... and if it had been my bear i probably would have bitten the eyes out, because i pretty much did that to all my stuffed animals as a kid lol
 

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Mine would have had crooked teeth, wear glasses and been a little shy. And no curly fur - just totally straight.

Just thinking about this makes me feel compassionate towards the little girl I was. :)
 
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Mine would have had crooked teeth, wear glasses and been a little shy. And no curly fur - just totally straight.

Just thinking about this makes me feel compassionate towards the little girl I was. :)
Yeah. That's why I wrote this. I feel bad for that little girl who thought she was huge.
 
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I had a stuffed bunny rabbit when I was a child. It was the equivalent of my teddy bear. It wasn't fancy. It was kind of shabby, sewn up where it was hurt. A person had to get used to the thing to understand the fascination. It was often neglected and only carried around out of some need for companionship.

Me and that bunny were twins. In many ways.
 

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Had a bright yellow bear that was bigger than me. It had a red valentine's heart on it's chest.
It was in seated position with paws outstretched, as if to hug. I'll never forget it's name.
 

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Makes me wonder - why, oh, why, do we ever give these "cuddlys" up? What a much calmer world this would be if we all were still carrying around our old childhood buddies. :rolleyes:
 
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I had a stuffed bunny rabbit when I was a child. It was the equivalent of my teddy bear. It wasn't fancy. It was kind of shabby, sewn up where it was hurt. A person had to get used to the thing to understand the fascination. It was often neglected and only carried around out of some need for companionship.

Me and that bunny were twins. In many ways.
If someone picked out that bunny so you could embrace who you were as a child, would it still have been that bunny? I'm asking what would fit what you thought of yourself as a kid, more than what you thought of your bunny. (It might be one and the same, but I just didn't understand what you were saying.)
 
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Makes me wonder - why, oh, why, do we ever give these "cuddlys" up? What a much calmer world this would be if we all were still carrying around our old childhood buddies. :rolleyes:
Axlerod is to fragile to be held and cuddled like he used to be. Now I have Spaulding the teddy bear.

Who says we all give them up? Axlerod is across the room. Spaulding is with me. lol
 
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If someone picked out that bunny so you could embrace who you were as a child, would it still have been that bunny? I'm asking what would fit what you thought of yourself as a kid, more than what you thought of your bunny. (It might be one and the same, but I just didn't understand what you were saying.)
It was/is one and the same. I was trying to be symbolic. I was trying to say I was neglected, unloved, and kind of a dirtball as a kid, but tried to say it through images of a nasty-looking cheap stuffed animal.
 

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I would have been the shy bear holding a book and wearing glasses that looked like a 90 year old lady picked them out for me, they didn't have many options for kid's then.
 
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My childhood teddy bear would be a small, bespectacled and a little awkward. He'd have a book on him at all times.
 
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I still have mine and will never part with him. He is gray and is missing his nose cause I bit it off lol. But seriously I would be a lot like him. The only thing is I would want him to have is glasses and to talk. Everyday when I would get home from school between the age of 4-7 I would grab him and tell Mr. Bear all of what I learned in school and how mean my classmates were to me and he truly listened. He would help me on my homework, he was a smart bear because he listened to all of the lessons I taught him. Wish I was that lucky :p
 
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It was/is one and the same. I was trying to be symbolic. I was trying to say I was neglected, unloved, and kind of a dirtball as a kid, but tried to say it through images of a nasty-looking cheap stuffed animal.
I'm semi-fixated on stuffed animals. Spaulding was given to me at one of my lowest points, and brought a smile back to me. My novel is about how all the stuffed animals in the US had to be thrown away, and then how they had to figure out how to live, and live together. As always happens, there was division, and division was based on whether the animal was cheap or a collector's item. (The fancy stuffed animals.) Big argument over that in the novel, and the nastiest looking stuffed animals were the ones most likely to help out behind the scenes. (Cooked, gathered food, taught everyone how to fish. Things like that.)

I don't know what you look like, but you are the one taking care of your dad when no one else is looking. The one who matters, (God), knows you aren't cheap or nasty. You're his favorite kind. :)
 
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Something tells me there would be a rather large group of bespectacled stuffed animals if we ever brought them together. lol
 

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I had a stuffed monkey I called Mr. Monkey. If a stuffed animal would have been made to look like me, I guess just make a stuffed bulldog.
 

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I actually had one of those stuffed horse heads on a stick. It was red and I named him Chestnut. He wasn't exactly cuddlie but I loved him. He went with me wherever I could take him. Eventually the head fell off the stick and my Mom threw him out. I was angry and devistated but my parents were both clean freaks so It doesn't surprise me that she tossed him while I was at school.
 

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My teddy bear would have had boxing gloves on with a mouthpiece in and a snarl...

But really, my teddy bears name was Oatmeal. Because it was white with short curls that looked kind of like oatmeal... My mom threw away Oatmeal too because he was dirty. I was really upset over that.
 
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I actually had one of those stuffed horse heads on a stick. It was red and I named him Chestnut. He wasn't exactly cuddlie but I loved him. He went with me wherever I could take him. Eventually the head fell off the stick and my Mom threw him out. I was angry and devistated but my parents were both clean freaks so It doesn't surprise me that she tossed him while I was at school.
My dad did that to my favorite toy, oh man when I found out, I was so angry. He went to work and so did I(in the trash can) and dug it out. When he got home he found me playing with it. He gave up throwing it away :p
 

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That's one thing I'd never toss. Little junkie toys that they don't play with sure but stuffed dolls and animals are different. There was head lice going around school and my daughter got it. We did all the treatments and thankfully only found 1. I washed all the stuffed stuff.