I really don't mind being single

[Beeb0]

I know alot of people don't like to be alone, but to me it's not that big of a deal. Alot of people will go through alot of heartbreaks in their lifetime trying to find that special someone, however, I try to stray away from that path. Don't let being single discourage you, I have faith that everyone will find their special someone eventually.

 

[whiteknite]

You are lucky there. It took me a long time to decide that being single is not so bad. As long as I know that the Lord is with me, then I know I am not really alone either. You're right about a lot of heartbreaks in trying to find that special someone. The last time I thought I found that one who was "meant for me," I found out that she was cheating on me,yet claimed to be a christian lady. She wound up getting pregnant by an "ex boyfriend" and married him after pawning the engagment ring that I gave her to wear.
Who needs people like that. Again, you are right to stay single.

 

[goth4god]

yeah i dont really mind being single either. I mean i have my moments where i think it sucks, but in the end i have God and all my awesome friends! and i know God will show me the one some day so im just gonna have fun being single!

 

[Christianrkchk89]

bahhh. teach me you ways. i hate being single. although i'd prolly think differently if i had had my heart broken b4. *nods*

 

[goth4god]

I've never had my heart broken at all.
but i guess its just the way you look at it.
I mean i used to worry about being single but then i realized there is no point in worrying cuz it wont change the future or get me a bf any faster. in fact it might even take longer cuz God wants me to learn patience. and even if it doesnt take longer, it will seem longer cuz its always in the front of my mind.
so just chillax, trust God and enjoy life! =]

 

[Beeb0]

You are lucky there. It took me a long time to decide that being single is not so bad. As long as I know that the Lord is with me, then I know I am not really alone either. You're right about a lot of heartbreaks in trying to find that special someone. The last time I thought I found that one who was "meant for me," I found out that she was cheating on me,yet claimed to be a christian lady. She wound up getting pregnant by an "ex boyfriend" and married him after pawning the engagment ring that I gave her to wear.
Who needs people like that. Again, you are right to stay single.

It's sad, there's alot of people out there like that.

 

[Beeb0]

yeah i dont really mind being single either. I mean i have my moments where i think it sucks, but in the end i have God and all my awesome friends! and i know God will show me the one some day so im just gonna have fun being single!

That's the spirit

 

[Beeb0]

bahhh. teach me you ways. i hate being single. although i'd prolly think differently if i had had my heart broken b4. *nods*

I haven't really ever had my heart broken, I mean i've been dissapointed ...I guess I just haven't been in a relationship long enough for an actual heartbreak.

 

[italiansunset]

All in Gods time! Its ok to be single especially if your not with the one God has chosen for you...The right one will come along just wait on God, but your right for now its ok to be single...

 

[Abing]

singles for Christ!

 

[voiceoftruth]

[FONT=&quot]Hmmm I like this thread!

You know I think a lot of people say they are ready for a relationship but then end up doing something they really didn't want to do before the relationship started. It really hurts to see my friends going through this and looking for relationships. I tried to give up chasing after guys all the time. Which isn't to hard but I mean I do normally end up liking someone and wanting them to like me back but I want to be in a place where it doesn't matter if I don't go out or date them. I want God to fill that spot in my life. I have soooo much growing to do before I even think of getting in a relationship... which I have been thinking about a little bit lately. I need to focus on God and being friends with Guys not on dating guys.[/FONT]

 

[roaringkitten]

We are ready for a relationship once we cultivate a good one with the Lord....It's his timing......Being married is a blessing....So is singleness.....Let God steer the wheel on this one! My 2 cents.....God bless

 

[grace]

We are ready for a relationship once we cultivate a good one with the Lord....It's his timing......Being married is a blessing....So is singleness.....Let God steer the wheel on this one! My 2 cents.....God bless

All relationships we are involved in HAVE to be an extension of our relationship with Christ.

 

[bamberoons]

I know alot of people don't like to be alone, but to me it's not that big of a deal. Alot of people will go through alot of heartbreaks in their lifetime trying to find that special someone, however, I try to stray away from that path. Don't let being single discourage you, I have faith that everyone will find their special someone eventually.

I can totally relate! I love being single, I love my independence, freedom, alone time, spontaneous times with friends. God is good, therefore life is good! Enjoy the moment... its totally a choice.

Spending too much time missing something I didn't have really meant I was missing out on what God had already blessed me with because my focus was diverted.

Props for puttin this out there Beeb0!

 

[sweetnshy]

well you all are lucky......I've been single my entire life, so really I should be used to it by now and not mind it so much. But it seems like the older I get, the harder it is, especially considering that I really want to have kids and there's only so many years that women can have babies before all of the risks and complications go up. I know God is in control and that if it's His will for me to ever get married, it will happen, but I feel like it's hopeless for me to even meet anybody. I kind of feel like if I get married at all, it won't be until I'm a lot older, and it's just discouraging to think about spending the next 20 or 30 (or more) years all alone.

 

[ineedahusbandnow134]

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[mireya]

Re: I really mind being single

Yes: I really want to be married. I pray every day and every night for my perfect man. "It´s not good man be alone".True, isn´it?
God bless you, and find your perfcct partnerxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mireya]

Whiteknite: there are many women really in Christ. Don´t give up , and if you want you true copple, you will find her with God´s helpxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[grace]

Love is like a pair of socks...you have to have two, and they have to match. HAHA

(sorry, could not resist! lol)

 

[minnesotablu]

ut oh... 9 times outta 10 my socks dont match! what happens if the dryer eats the other sock?! .............. haha

nah... i am one of those that was all desperate to find a match 2 years ago and such... just cuz i was tired of being alone and i thought that it was "custom" to have a family young (as in my family that's kinda how it's done) but then i realized... i am MUCH too immature for a relationship! hahaha i'm enjoying being single.... rarely do i feel lonely, and i actually feel really good about practicing patience. cuz i look back on those people that i once liked and think "WHY would i EVER like them!?" haha our hearts get confused in a time of like-age... especially when desperation kicks in. i think i'd rather sit back and find my best friend... who will grow into something more, and if not... then i still have an amazing friend right?!