Why I now believe in Predistination/Election

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valiant

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Free will is the ability to choose.

If you are chosen without "choice" he would be forcing you into his table.

No,we choose,and YET are chosen.

All are chosen,few choose.
No, free will is the ability to choose FREELY. None of us has that ability to choose. We 'choose' according to our background, our upbringing, our prejudices, our preconceived notions, our desires, etc. Our ability to choose is in slavery/
 
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No, free will is the ability to choose FREELY. None of us has that ability to choose. We 'choose' according to our background, our upbringing, our prejudices, our preconceived notions, our desires, etc. Our ability to choose is in slavery/
All I need is one example and that " law of heaven" you have in your mind disappears.
 
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Us with our human natural minds trying to figure out God is a foolishness endeavor just waiting to happen. To say that some He will not receive even though Christ died for them - this violates the very nature of our loving Father who desires all men to come to repentance and believe in His Son. Sadly scripture is clear - some refuse to believe and receive Christ.

The elect are simply those that do believe and receive the abundance of grace and the gift of righteousness which is in Christ when they hear the message of Christ Himself.
Do you believe in universal salvation? i.e. Is every single person saved automatically?

If yes, ah! Then I see where your problem is.

If no, the obvious question, what happened to those God did not choose? (Or, for your peace of mind, who did not choose God?)

Because, in this case, I think we believe the same thing, except you seem stuck on ignoring part of the obvious. If God doesn't save "the whole," then he is either a liar, (which we both agree he is not), or he has chosen to let some (most) go to hell, at the very least, and "the whole" cannot mean "every single one of them." (If you go on to the next verses, you find out this is very true.)

The only place we seem to be disagreeing is God isn't merely "letting" them. He's the judge, jury and executioner to their rightful sentence! He did it on purpose!
 
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Yes,its clear that some reject Him and it is a choice. The criminals on the cross both had the choice to follow Him,one rejected Him the other did not. I believe God knows the future,but that does not mean He bends us to His will.I believe He allows us to make the choice.
Actually, that's unfair to those who rejected him. Yes, they did make that choice. We made the same choice though. We loved the darkness. (John 3:18-20.) We do agree on choice here. Man had choice. BUT every single time we chose the darkness! Every. Single. Time!

We then disagree on what changed that. (You think we changed our mind. I think God changed our minds.)
 
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popeye

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The "either,or" is basically mans mental injection into a spiritual dynamic.

Who is Jesus? Is He a lion,OR a lamb?

Why is heaven so confused? He just has to be one or the other.

Can't,just can't be both. (play it out mentalists. It indeed is both)
 

1ofthem

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No, free will is the ability to choose FREELY. None of us has that ability to choose. We 'choose' according to our background, our upbringing, our prejudices, our preconceived notions, our desires, etc. Our ability to choose is in slavery/
Jesus came to set the captives free...and whosoever that believes on him shall not perish.
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You don't have to be God to know certain things. If I place a steak in front of my dogs, I know full well they will eat it. God knew many people would walk away from His divine presence. They weren't predestined; if anything, this shows those folks had free will. That's why God was angry with them, because they chose to walk away from Him. If God became angry at people walking away from Him because God made it happen, that makes God psychopathic -- and He's not.
It is in your dog's nature to eat that steak, right?

I get that. Just as it is in our nature to sin.

BUT you can train your dogs to not eat that steak. It will still be in their nature to eat it, but they won't, for you.

God changed the nature of some people in that we no longer want that steak/darkness.
 
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Do you believe in universal salvation? i.e. Is every single person saved automatically?

If yes, ah! Then I see where your problem is.

If no, the obvious question, what happened to those God did not choose? (Or, for your peace of mind, who did not choose God?)

Because, in this case, I think we believe the same thing, except you seem stuck on ignoring part of the obvious. If God doesn't save "the whole," then he is either a liar, (which we both agree he is not), or he has chosen to let some (most) go to hell, at the very least, and "the whole" cannot mean "every single one of them." (If you go on to the next verses, you find out this is very true.)

The only place we seem to be disagreeing is God isn't merely "letting" them. He's the judge, jury and executioner to their rightful sentence! He did it on purpose!
It's obvious from what I wrote I don't believe everyone will be saved. I believe it's the way we interpret predestined that is the problem. I believe God predestined us to be in Christ. All those that believe are conformed to His image. Simple. He doesn't choose some for hell as some try to say.
 

1ofthem

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I don’t believe in predestination. There is too many places in scripture where God gives people a choice. He gives us all a choice between life and death. It is up to each one of us which choice we will make. We shape our own life and fate with our choice of whether to believe in him and accept him into our lives or not. I don’t think that the outcome is set in stone or that God chooses to save some and not others…He gives us a choice and the outcome is according to our choice. God is not a respecter of persons.

Deuteronomy 30:19
I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live:
 
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popeye

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TL Osborne said"when you preach make sure you take them into a decision"

That is true whether I preach to saints or sinners.

The rich man went away sad. Jesus put him at the crossroad.
It was decision time. He chose.

A vivid picture is Ruth and Boaz. The choose/ chosen dynamic is a goldmine
 
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popeye

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Play it backwards.

The Jews are hands down irrefutably his chosen.

Now look at these "lost,chosen"
 
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No, free will is the ability to choose FREELY. None of us has that ability to choose. We 'choose' according to our background, our upbringing, our prejudices, our preconceived notions, our desires, etc. Our ability to choose is in slavery/
Sir, your problem seems to be that you don't believe the Holy Spirit can convict us or make the gospel clear to us.

Give Him a little credit..... after all, He's God, too.
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I don’t believe in predestination. There is too many places in scripture where God gives people a choice. He gives us all a choice between life and death. It is up to each one of us which choice we will make. We shape our own life and fate with our choice of whether to believe in him and accept him into our lives or not. I don’t think that the outcome is set in stone or that God chooses to save some and not others…He gives us a choice and the outcome is according to our choice. God is not a respecter of persons.

Deuteronomy 30:19
I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live:
I springboard this.

I pray " Lord keep me,renew me,don't let me miss the rapture" etc.

Even though he promises me his benefits,I pray his word and benefits over me and mine.

We have a partnership. He gave us a vivid,vivid picture of our partnership in marriage. We chose our mate. We both chose,and were chosen.

It is indeed both dynamics fully in play and harmonizing in unison ,each one complimenting the other
 
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If God can make a donkey talk, surely He can give us conviction of sins by making the Gospel clear in our hearts to decide on.

It's a shame really..... some of those that believe grace can do anything all of a sudden says it can't. :rolleyes:
 
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popeye

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You are both predestined,and yet you choose.
 
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popeye

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Predestination is more than salvation.

Every human on the planet has a calling,an office,a ministry,and a purpose. Sitting at his table is family. I am saved,but he has a purpose beyond his table.

That dynamic adds to the tragedy of one person going to hell.

My God would NEVER choose anyone to go to hell. It CANNOT exist in his nature. Even Judas repented,and was chosen in a devil state of being and mind.

God is way bigger than our conception of him
 
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I believe God predestined the plan of salvation for all people.

I believe God knows the end from the beginning. He knew me before I was conceived, & called me before I was born.

That's the only predestination I believe in, His predestined plan for all of mankind.
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1ofthem

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I can’t imagine anyone coming before God with a broken heart asking for forgiveness and to be saved, and God telling them no because he had predestined and chose to send them to hell without giving them any chance for salvation.

That just isn’t the kind of God I serve. He is a loving, merciful, and forgiving God. I know not everyone will be saved, but that is not his will…it’s on each individual person and their own will and choice.

It is not God’s will that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.
 

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Isaiah 64:6-7 But we are all like an unclean thing,
And all our righteousnesses are like filthy rags;
We all fade as a leaf, and our iniquities, like the wind,
Have taken us away. And there is no one who calls on Your name, who stirs himself up to take hold of You;
For You have hidden Your face from us, and have consumed us because of our iniquities.

Mark 7:20-13 And He said, “What comes out of a man, that defiles a man. For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lewdness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within and defile a man.”

Jeremiah 17:9-10 “The heart is deceitful above all things,
And desperately wicked; who can know it?
I, the Lord, search the heart, I test the mind,
even to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his doings.

Ecclesiastes 7:20 For there is not a just man on earth who does good and does not sin.

Psalms 10:3-4 For the wicked boasts of his heart’s desire;
he blesses the greedy and renounces the Lord. The wicked in his proud countenance does not seek God; God is in none of his thoughts.

Psalms 14:1-3 The fool has said in his heart, “There is no God.”
They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none who does good. The Lord looks down from heaven upon the children of men, to see if there are any who understand, who seek God. They have all turned aside, they have together become corrupt; there is none who does good, no, not one.

Psalms 119:155 “Salvation is far from the wicked, for they do not seek Your statutes.

Isaiah 9:13 “For the people do not turn to Him who strikes them, nor do they seek the Lord of hosts.

Psalm 10:3-4 “For the wicked boasts of the desires of his soul, and the one greedy for gain curses and renounces the Lord. 4 In the pride of his face the wicked does not seek him; all his thoughts are, “There is no God.”

Psalm 36:1 “Transgression speaks to the wicked deep in his heart; there is no fear of God before his eyes.

I Corinthians 2:13-14 “These things we also speak, not in words which man’s wisdom teaches but which the Holy Spirit teaches, comparing spiritual things with spiritual. 14 But the natural man does not receive the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; nor can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.”

John 8:34 "
Jesus answered them, “Most assuredly, I say to you, whoever commits sin is a slave of sin."

II Corinthians 4:4 "
But even if our gospel is veiled, it is veiled to those who are perishing, 4 whose minds the god of this age has blinded, who do not believe, lest the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine on them."

Ephesians 2:1-3 "
And you were dead in the trespasses and sins2 in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience3 among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind."
Colossians 2:13 "And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses,"

John 3:16-21
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God.19 And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil.20 For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed.21 But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it may be clearly seen
that his works may be shown to be accomplished by God.”
 

maxwel

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Sometimes you answer as if I was yelling at you. I suspect sometimes I answer you and you think I'm doing the same. (And I remember one time that was true, so not like you'd be wrong every time.) But, I'm going to assume now you got all passionate about this, rather than you're yelling at me.

Let me answer according to why I picked a 5:30 start for that surgery and why I ended up praying "too late." Then maybe you can see where I'm coming from, (because truthfully, I do think it's silly to pray for a dead person.)

30 days after hubby had his heart attack he was finally at the place where they could check what damage was done during the heart attack. (Too unstable until then.) And they found out he blew out a valve so hard, he even blew out the muscles that held that valve too his heart. The heart only has three valves, so blowing one out has to be scary. And they told me they would replace it "first thing in the morning."

I've had surgery on occasion. I've known enough other people to have surgery in the morning that I assumed they meant somewhere between 7:30-10 AM. That particular surgery made me nervous for obvious reasons. I could work myself into a good panic attack or deal with it the best I could. The second choice seemed the obvious way to go, so, I did what most people do the day before Christmas Eve -- went shopping for Christmas dinner. Of course I was praying. I don't recall when I wasn't praying that whole month, but some prayers are bigger than others -- more urgent. Shopping intentionally stopped me from being overwhelmed in my thoughts and prayers. But I was praying when I thought he was having surgery. And I came home and urgently prayed. 9 AM!

And I didn't really ask how long the surgery would be, so I kept praying until 10. Of course I prayed for the doctor's skills, and for the outcome I wanted. I also prayed for God's will in that. Hubby is the only other person I know, for certain, is going home when he dies. He will spend his eternity with God, so really didn't have to pray for his salvation.

But, he was in ICU before surgery and would be going back to ICU afterward. And in ICU the nurses are so busy (and they really are. As far as I could tell, their version of lunch was shove-food-down-as-quickly-as-possible), that they only have two patients each. And John's nurse that day was super busy with her other patient when I called, (or so I was told), so didn't get back to me for an hour. So I prayed some more.

She got back to me at 11:30 and told me he went down for the operation at 5:30 and was back before I had parked to car to go shopping. (He was why she was super busy.) Did God ignore me, because I didn't pray at the right time? I've no doubt I'm living at this particular time, and can't go back. I think that's a good thing, because I don't want to go back. I wasn't the only one praying for John, but those prayers joined as a symphony of prayer to God at the "right time." God didn't give me the "your wrong" buzzer for praying at the wrong time because he's not stuck in time.

Is that biblical? It's not not-biblical. You keep telling me your logic is straight from the Bible. It really isn't. The Bible doesn't say a thing about not praying after the fact. It doesn't say a thing about praying after the fact either. Nothing in there about either choice, anymore than it goes into great details about proper technique on vineyard husbandry.

To pray that Judas wouldn't betray Jesus is dumb? Very dumb. Obviously it was God's will that Judas do just that, so that's asking God to stop being God. DUMB! To pray that God gave Judas mercy at the very end -- that moment between jumping to kill himself and the moment he splattered across the ground? Questionable, but that's not the same as saying it's unbiblical. The Bible doesn't tell us the answer to that one.

Given my Dad is in Stage 3 dementia (no more able to logic out anything, or even to talk anymore), and he wasn't saved before this point, it has become personal to me to think God can still save him. And I will keep praying for that until Dad dies. THAT is how I'm stuck in time, and grateful that God is not. I am, very much, still praying for God's will in this one, but got to say, it's not like God doesn't know my will.

I am a wife in a good Christian marriage. I really get hubby is the final say for the big decisions in life. I also get what it is to be the bride of him, like Jesus' bride is the church. Jesus will do what is best, but he hears what my will is and takes that into account as he works his will in all situations. That's not to say I get what I want every time, but he sure knows how to work it out to his plan in ways I can't conceive other that it's for my best and his glory. My husband tries to do what is best for me. God always does what is best for all his people to his glory. THAT is biblical.


Sorry if it sounded like I was yelling at you.

I'll respond in pm.

Take care,
Max