I am 19 years old and for the past few months i fell into a bad habit and got addicted to porn and i had gotten better but i slipped again i need help and prayer
Overcoming addiction
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NoNameMcgee
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im so sorry
ill pray for you
i battled with this one for awhile myself
im sure i was involved with it even longer than you
just know
you can be delivered from it
just have to pray right when the temptation strikes
hold your thoughts captive
right when youre starting to let you mind go to the wicked thoughts
cry to Jesus to give you the holy spirit and turn from it
think of Jesus dying for you
think of hell fire for the wicked
wether its love or fear that helps you
its good youre wise enough to know this is wrong
it shows God gave you a new heart
youre much further than i was at 19 God bless you
maybe if you have time post a testimony so we can get to know you
mine is up there posted recently
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SweetmorningDew78
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Hello! Sis welcome to CC 
glad to meet you here.
It's not an easy way out to some...what I can say regarding this habit is...stay away from anything (movies,magazines,music,people)
1 Corinthians 6:18-19 Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body,but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit that is in you, whom you have from GOD and you are not your own.
Confess to Jesus and pray hard and when temptations are there Call upon the name of the Lord Jesus Christ pray for an escape!
I will pray for you my sister JESUS delivered me from it I believe HE will deliver you also! God bless you!
glad to meet you here.It's not an easy way out to some...what I can say regarding this habit is...stay away from anything (movies,magazines,music,people)
1 Corinthians 6:18-19 Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body,but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit that is in you, whom you have from GOD and you are not your own.
Confess to Jesus and pray hard and when temptations are there Call upon the name of the Lord Jesus Christ pray for an escape!
I will pray for you my sister
JESUS delivered me from it I believe HE will deliver you also! God bless you!
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NoNameMcgee
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you stop letting your mind think of sexual things
you pray to God
if you have to pray till you fall asleep then thats how long you do it
its also like EVERY addiction
its hardest at first
and the longer you go without
the easier it gets
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NoNameMcgee
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1 Corinthians 7:9
“But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.”
maybe youre a bit young now...
but maybe you need a husband
God loving husband who Follows Jesus and ACTUALLY reads his bible
someone whos overcome this
“But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.”
maybe youre a bit young now...
but maybe you need a husband
God loving husband who Follows Jesus and ACTUALLY reads his bible
someone whos overcome this
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NoNameMcgee
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well please dont feel like im being harsh here
but when you choose to give into temptation you have the power not to
its not like an accidental fall
its a series of events
what happens first
is temptation in the form of memories AND imaginations attack you
at this point you have a choice
to hold the memories and imaginations captive
this is the first battle and if you dont go further then you stopped the temptation before you sinned
buuut
if it goes further
now you have fantasy
day dreams
lust
at this point you desire to do something about your feelings
seek a partner for fornication
watch porn
or masterbate
now you have a choice to repent of your sins that you just made in your heart but not in body
you havent yet put the evil in front of your eyes
if it makes it this far... its really tough not to go further
because you just hardened yourself to the spirit by not holding your thought captive
but at this point be drastic
turn your computer off
turn your phone off
go for a walk
if you cant focus on a prayer
then just apoligies
focus on what you have done wrong that day
ask for forgiveness and deliverance
over and over until you know you wont go further
now....
if you didnt stop there
and let yourself go all the way
and feel a contrite heart
that means the holy spirit wants you to repent...
and turn from what you did
and God is still willing to forgive you in Jesus name
but there are those who become reprobate....
there are those who no longer have that heart
that wants to seek God
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NoNameMcgee
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well yes
and no
its YOUR heart that gets hardened
theres a point
where you will want your sin more than want God
but God would still forgive you...
here let me find scripture i dont want to give false information
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NoNameMcgee
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John 12:48 - He that rejecteth me, and receiveth not my words, hath one that judgeth him: the word that I have spoken, the same shall judge him in the last day.
Proverbs Chapter 28
13 He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh [them] shall have mercy.
14 Happy [is] the man that feareth alway: but he that hardeneth his heart shall fall into mischief.
Ephesians 4:18 - Having the understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart:
Romans 1:27-29
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
Proverbs Chapter 28
13 He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh [them] shall have mercy.
14 Happy [is] the man that feareth alway: but he that hardeneth his heart shall fall into mischief.
Ephesians 4:18 - Having the understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart:
Romans 1:27-29
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
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NoNameMcgee
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the themes here
are the same with the pharoh
where because he rejected God
his heart got hardened
then it was easier to him to reject harsher warnings
are the same with the pharoh
where because he rejected God
his heart got hardened
then it was easier to him to reject harsher warnings
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NoNameMcgee
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you need to DENY yourself
through the power of the Holy spirit
then your heart will soften
its your flesh that wants that pleasure
but your spirit will take pleasure in winning over sin through Jesus
through the power of the Holy spirit
then your heart will soften
its your flesh that wants that pleasure
but your spirit will take pleasure in winning over sin through Jesus
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NoNameMcgee
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well
....
repent tonight
pray keep him with you
i cant say who will go where
but God is forgiving
and your heart is showin you want God to save you from this mess
i dont think for a second youre reprobate
to be honest...
for being 19 youre so much further than i was
im just trying to help
but
...
lol
im not much of a teacher yet
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NoNameMcgee
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sometimes i feel the same way ... assurance is a gift
a gift that comes the more the holy spirit provides good works in you...
which isnt YOU earning anything
its God working in you
all i can say
is your mourning contrite heart
is a major flag
you have Hope
and desire God
but that can turn to Joy
when you actually follow Jesus
a gift that comes the more the holy spirit provides good works in you...
which isnt YOU earning anything
its God working in you
all i can say
is your mourning contrite heart
is a major flag
you have Hope
and desire God
but that can turn to Joy
when you actually follow Jesus
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NoNameMcgee
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this is all we can do
its him working in us that breaks the sin from us
we need to pray and beg and ask for the holy spirit
and when we SEE the sins fall away from us
when we see joy from rejecting sin
we KNOW the holy spirit did it
and we are following Jesus