More than one teen here, has been saved from predators by some of the adults here who DID care enough to step in and say something.. And more than one teen has thanked me and the others for doing it..
My age doesn't matter. If I were 14, as the OP is, I would've still told her the same exact things.. She came on here looking for a guy to get on cam with her and talk. That SHOULD send up red flags, even to you.. No one has "criticized or insulted" her. We gave her warnings, and she shrugged them off..
And if CC is such a horrid place for the teens here, then why are Natania, Demi, Tinuviel, and others still here? Obviously THEY don't mind the advice they get from the adults or they wouldn't be here..