Ladies: what "guy skills" make him more attractive to you?

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zeroturbulence

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What skills would make a guy more attractive to you?

Please be specific as you can. For example don't just say "he can cook", say something like "he knows how to make some killer spaghetti" :D

Oh,, and lets keep it clean! hehe :D

....and stop laughing at my avatar!
 
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guy skills? what are u talking about?good looking and girls will always attrack attention.good men will always attract good woman.its how she touches your heart that matters.its that simple.or rent a dog or baby!
 
I don't understand the question, I mean what does ''guy skills'' mean. Other than making good spaghetti, changing the oil in your car... what other guy skills are you talking about? If I were to guess at your question, you are asking what makes a man attractive to women by his actions.... One skill would be, if I get my hair or nails done he notices. I can open my own car door, that isn't impressive.
 
One thing that has always melted my heart is when a guy puts the palm of his hand on the small of your back as you walk into a restaurant/ballroom...anything like that. It's a very romantic thing to do. It says to me...this is my lady. I love her and I want everyone to know. Kinda silly maybe, but it's true. :)
 
Ok I didnt think the question was that hard to understand. Let me list some examples:

I'm talking about skills that a guy might have that would make him more attractive to you like:

- he can sing

- he can dance

- he can paint

- he can draw

- he loves to read (insert favorite author here)

- he surfs

- he volunteers

- he hunts

- he makes you breakfast

- he buys you roses

- he whispers sweet nothings in your ear

- he prays

- he listens


does that help?
 
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Anyway the women here seemed to understand what I meant and thats what really matters. :)

some more examples:

- he's a good decorator

- hes a good dresser

- he plays (insert favorite sport here)

- he is quick to apologize

- he honors you with his words and his actions
 
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zeroturbulence said:
- he whispers sweet nothings in your ear
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All I need in life is a man that will whisper sweet nothings into my ear. lol

A guy that can sing well is nice, a guy that I could have jam-out sessions with would be awesome. a little guitar, maybe he could play the piano, us singing together. schweet.

A man that can cook is attractive. Uhm, I'll take Americanized Asian cuisine. That'd be nice.

A man that gives me flowers he stole from the neighbor's yard, instead of flowers he bought from a store. Or he could ask the neighbor for the flowers. Either way, freshly picked flowers trump store bought flowers.

A man that can fix my computer. Because using men for a way to get things for free that you usually have to pay for is always attractive.
 
A guy that is confident around other people, Thats pretty hot

A sense of humor, im not talkin about a guy who thinks he's funny, but one that actually is.

A guy that plays soccer.. soooooooooooooooooooo hot


A guy that acts like a guy, not any of that metro sexual stuff.
 
You gotta have skills man.

You know, like nunchuku skills, bow hunting skills, computer hacking skills... Girls only want boyfriends who have great skills.
 
The ladies have been both realistic and honest in this thread I see. So often women make a list of beta male traits when they really want a

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Lol...

But the women here have listed both traits in a good balance. Hence they are being realistic and honest. A balanced man should have both. The ability to listen yet lead, etc... Good for you ladies!
 
AgeofKnowledge said:
The ladies have been both realistic and honest in this thread I see. So often women make a list of beta male traits when they really want a

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Lol...

But the women here have listed both traits in a good balance. Hence they are being realistic and honest. A balanced man should have both. The ability to listen yet lead, etc... Good for you ladies!
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That image will haunt my nightmares for many evenings :eek::mad:
 
- foot massaging skills
- can reach the high stuff
- must love dogs
- the ability to use words with more than one syllable
- GOOD PERSONAL HYGIENE
- interested in current affairs, books, movies...
- good swimmer cos I love the water
 
Jullianna said:
- foot massaging skills
- can reach the high stuff
- must love dogs
- the ability to use words with more than one syllable
- GOOD PERSONAL HYGIENE
- interested in current affairs, books, movies...
- good swimmer cos I love the water
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I can do all of this except the first one. FOOT MESSAGING? NOOOOOOOOOOOO!

GROSS!! Feet are disgusting! They smell bad, sweat, grow weird fungus and warts, and are gross! NOOOOOOOO never! I'd really really really really really have to love her with all my heart and soul to ever give a girl a foot message, and even then I would be puking a lil in my mouth while I do it.
 
DABEARS85 said:
I can do all of this except the first one. FOOT MESSAGING? NOOOOOOOOOOOO!

GROSS!! Feet are disgusting! They smell bad, sweat, grow weird fungus and warts, and are gross! NOOOOOOOO never! I'd really really really really really have to love her with all my heart and soul to ever give a girl a foot message, and even then I would be puking a lil in my mouth while I do it.
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HAHAHAHAHA!!!
 
DABEARS85 said:
I can do all of this except the first one. FOOT MESSAGING? NOOOOOOOOOOOO!

GROSS!! Feet are disgusting! They smell bad, sweat, grow weird fungus and warts, and are gross! NOOOOOOOO never! I'd really really really really really have to love her with all my heart and soul to ever give a girl a foot message, and even then I would be puking a lil in my mouth while I do it.
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haha... Feet don't bother me at all. Sure, feet with some fungus would, but otherwise, whatever.
 
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