Jesus is the Authority of right and wrong, and no one else - especially a human's reasoning without the Holy Spirit's guidance directly.
The thing about all this is we tend to say just avoid temptation and you will get thru it. But look closer and you can see a deeper work of Satan. Do you notice the backdoor attack from Satan? (Satan) “does not come to us on the premise of tempting us to sin, but on the premise of shifting our point of view…” Wow -Right?!!! That way it looks like an option - (in Christ) - rather than sin (apart from Christ). But, do not be deceived - it is sin; and your spirit will amen that. And the reality of truth is it will harm you in the long run no matter whether you believe it or not. Many of God's truths found in the Bible are self-evident realities that if we reason around it and believe in that re-reasoning the outcome will still result the way Scripture points it out will happen. These are called Axiomatic truths. For instance: "What a man sows so shall he reap," is an Axiomatic truth or a self-evident reality.
So why lie to yourself in other words? Just pay the cost of righteousness and God promises you that all things turn out for good for those who love Him thru obedience! For if you love Him, you will obey Him. Do you trust Him yet? This is the test of your love for God right now. Will you Listen to Him, as to what is His way? Will you be patient and wait on Him, seeking His way? Will you do as He makes clear then, thru the Spirit to your spirit? We have become so confused about what’s right and wrong, acceptable and unacceptable. Like scotch tape yanked away from a piece of paper, we have picked up more of the world than the world has picked up us as His Children.
There is only One to whom I owe allegiance and it’s Jesus, not my own desires and wants, or rationalizations. If Jesus is Lord and King, it’s high time we acted like it. Don’t let evil shift your point of view. Some things are wrong - walk thru the wall of this moment then with God holding fast to His hand; as He holds your hand and heart firmly and gives you His power to get thru it!. As the old hymn goes: "Trust and obey, for there's no other way....to be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey!"
I believe Jesus will help you thru this, and I trust He will give you His help if you work hard at not cheating deciding to go God's way. Have faith in Him and lean not on your own understanding - in all your ways trust and acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths straight!