Public Apology to Lynx

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LaVieEnRose

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I am very sorry for being hateful and rude. I said some very nasty things about you, and I really don’t even know you.

Tinuviel deleted her account, and I can’t help but wonder if I am partly to blame for making CC a toxic wasteland.

I am sorry, and I hope you accept my apology.

I am a grouchy old maid. It is not an excuse, but an explanation.
 
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LaVieEnRose

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Ugly said:
I've no doubt it's intended as applauding you for humility, apologizing and owning up to your behavior.
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Well, here is the thing- I have a horrible temper. I go on a rampage, then feel bad, then apologize. Just to go on another rampage again. It has happened here, before- so I totally understand if the clapping was for my “performance” of apologizing.

I am remorseful, if that makes any difference.
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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I don't think you have anything to apologize for. You felt harassed and others agreed that you were. Anyway take it from me... he doesn't care about apologies. Apologizing to him is just wasted time and effort.
 
zeroturbulence

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But I think you did a courageous thing by apologizing. It takes a big dose of of humility to apologize. Too big for a lot of folks.
 
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LaVieEnRose

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zeroturbulence said:
I don't think you have anything to apologize for. You felt harassed and others agreed that you were. Anyway take it from me... he doesn't care about apologies. Apologizing to him is just wasted time and effort.
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No, I do need to apologize. I was pretty hateful. Really, I’ve been on a rampage lately- for shallow reasons. One guy told me I was plain and Tommy told me I was ugly, and I just literally went berserk and vented my spleen on whoever, and Lynx just happened to be the unfortunate bystander. Well, I put my dumb face on my avatar and Tommy said I was not ugly, so the wrath of the banshee is momentarily appeased.

Until I get mad and go off on someone else. 😔

I am sorry, and sorry for making a toxic environment. I don’t know if that is why Tinuviel left, but I feel really bad if I chased away a gentle lady.
 
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LaVieEnRose

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zeroturbulence said:
But I think you did a courageous thing by apologizing. It takes a big dose of of humility to apologize. Too big for a lot of folks.
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I apologize so much. If I wasn’t a jerk in the first place, I wouldn’t have to always be apologizing. But thanks, Zero. You are very kind.
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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I think Tommy is just here to flirt with the ladies (sorry if Im wrong, Tommy). I have no idea why Tinuviel left. I don't think she would leave because of your posts.
 
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LaVieEnRose

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zeroturbulence said:
I think Tommy is just here to flirt with the ladies (sorry if Im wrong, Tommy). I have no idea why Tinuviel left. I don't think she would leave because of your posts.
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Yes, I know Tommy likes to talk to the ladies, lol. I have a lot of issues. One of which is vanity, so with the one guy telling me I am plain and then Tommy with the ugly comment- my hatefulness and cruelty came out in a big way.

Oh well, I guess one day I’ll grow up.
 
zeroturbulence

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LaVieEnRose said:
I apologize so much. If I wasn’t a jerk in the first place, I wouldn’t have to always be apologizing. But thanks, Zero. You are very kind.
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I believe you. I remember you from before and know that you must be in a lot of pain to have changed on here. It saddens me a bit that the pain has affected you so much, so I overlook some of the things you say because I know its not a reflection of the real you. And please don't say that this is the real you and not the one before because I won't believe it for a second.
 
Mel85

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LaVieEnRose said:
Well, here is the thing- I have a horrible temper. I go on a rampage, then feel bad, then apologize. Just to go on another rampage again. It has happened here, before- so I totally understand if the clapping was for my “performance” of apologizing.

I am remorseful, if that makes any difference.
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......and let’s not forget your human. If you feel like you have to apologise for your behaviour then that’s fine and I’m sure Lynx will be forgiving. Good for you for being remorseful, and I hope you are genuine about this. I don’t know you, but I do feel you are being remorseful.
 
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LaVieEnRose

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Mel85 said:
......and let’s not forget your human. If you feel like you have to apologise for your behaviour then that’s fine and I’m sure Lynx will be forgiving. Good for you for being remorseful, and I hope you are genuine about this. I don’t know you, but I do feel you are being remorseful.
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Thanks, that really means a lot.
 
Mel85

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zeroturbulence said:
I don't think you have anything to apologize for. You felt harassed and others agreed that you were. Anyway take it from me... he doesn't care about apologies. Apologizing to him is just wasted time and effort.
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Wow, that’s a big call to make, and Lynx ain’t even here to defend himself.

Rose’s apology is not wasted time and effort - you can see for yourself that she means what she said. It’s up to Lynx to accept it or not, or even apologise himself. He’s a grown man. I’m sure he’ll do what’s right.

This just escalated real quick. We’re all human. We all say things outta line. That’s when we know our flesh takes over our spirit, but sometimes it takes someone or something to make us realise where we went wrong. For me, usually it’s the Holy Spirit that reveals this through Word, through someone or to me directly.... I think it was nice of Rose to identify the problem and do something about it, which is why she’s apologetic.
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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Mel85 said:
Wow, that’s a big call to make, and Lynx ain’t even here to defend himself.

Rose’s apology is not wasted time and effort - you can see for yourself that she means what she said. It’s up to Lynx to accept it or not, or even apologise himself. He’s a grown man. I’m sure he’ll do what’s right.

This just escalated real quick. We’re all human. We all say things outta line. That’s when we know our flesh takes over our spirit, but sometimes it takes someone or something to make us realise where we went wrong. For me, usually it’s the Holy Spirit that reveals this through Word, through someone or to me directly.... I think it was nice of Rose to identify the problem and do something about it, which is why she’s apologetic.
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I'm speaking from experience. I hope I am wrong, but I feel I should warn her so she isn't shocked if he doesn't seem to care.
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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And what did you mean to say with that clapping gif? I hope I'm mistaken but that looks like a rather sarcastic clap to me.
 
blue_ladybug

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LaVie, Tinuviel didn't leave because of you. She'd been planning on leaving for awhile now.

And good on you for apologizing. Orange Kitty Approves.png
 
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