Can no longer separate sex from sin

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Hello History Princess
I know you don't care about God's will or plan, You stated so in the 1st 5 pages somewhere, If not in other posts, I don't believe any of your wishes will come true Like that one gentleman said it's all been tried before, all through history. In various forms. It's one of lucifers weapons, In the war between God and Lucifer.
To desire what Lucifer wants in order to bring about God's plan for a better world seems like insanity to me.
But hey like you said, " to each there own". You have your opinion I have mine,
This seems to be an interesting topic, everyone seems to be following it, and it has been going on for some time.
But what I'm curious about and would like to see is how God would shut you down or anyone for that matter if you actually tried to initiate any of your Ideas.
I mean let's think about it, let's look at how the Democrats are trying to accomplish your ideas, No one from Government to the individual can control sex, So what is the next logical step, and they can't even control that very well,
And that is abortion, to kill them after they are consummated. And now what do we have, an open door to all the abuse that is going on in the world now,
Now I believe you are a good person, Your heart is in the right place but your logic is misplaced. I know you will never do anything about it but blog on here about how messed up the world is. You should study his word and show everyone how keeping Gods commandments would change all that abuse, It's not the sex drive causing it, It's the not keeping his commandments that is causing it.
History has all ready proven that when the powers that were tried to control the sex drive people went along for a while and still did things in secret, then the people in power where the ones abusing, and if you are really paying attention it is the people that are in power now that are mostly doing the abusing, But then look at me preaching to the choir, your the History Princess.
I know this will make me unpopular but I don't care. I'm not here to be liked.
If you disregard what I am saying, Will you at least post your actions so I can watch. I will be watching. Your struggle is really not with man. it's with spiritual wickedness in high places. For reasons which I have already stated and you have already rejected. You can do nothing about it, but it is interesting to watch people try.
I don't know why but I really do enjoy chatting with you. You can be mad at me it's ok. You are not the first and you won't be the last.
I am influencing people and winning friends, Or the other way around, Not sure who said that. But it is a saying and I didn't make it up.
I don't expect anyone to agree with me either. And you have the right to voice your opinion. All I see is a world full of people who are treated like garbage because of other people's selfishness. And apparently, given all the scandals popping up recently, the church is no different.

Why have laws in place against theft if people are going to steal anyway? Why have any laws of any kind? Why should we have the 10 commandments when that was from the Old Testament and no longer applies to us (or does it?)?

Even if sin is inevitable, I have seen time and again what happens when people don't want rule and law. In late 18 century France, the common people wanted no government of any kind anymore, and what did that result in? An absolute bloodbath full of bloodthirsty people with nothing to hold them back.

The Wild West was called that for a reason. Cowboys were rough, corruption was common, not to mention Natives would kill you if you stepped on their land. Tell me, is that a place you would like to live?

Anarchy after the abdication of the tsar in WWI led to the rise of the power-hungry mass murderer Stalin. It's interesting that people tend to focus more on Hitler since his mass murder was mostly racism. But Stalin killed as many people if not more. He ruled with an iron fist. And that was because he took advantage of the chaotic state of Russia.

Without law and order, we have unbridled anarchy and chaos and open the doors for dictators. Is that what you want?
 

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History Princess just needs a guy who can curl her toes. She'd forget all this nonsense.

Start working on your social skills.
 
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@HistoryPrincess This thread is really long, but I think I skimmed and I think I got the jist of it...
My advice to you is don’t get discouraged, it is easy to spiral from discouraged, to depressed, and then creating a wall around yourself to keep others out. By maybe carrying yourself in an innaproachable manner and possibly unconsciously not trying to physically look your best. Sometimes you just have to tell yourself enough...from this day forward I will be the best version of myself and I will project my joy to world...it is that day when, conversations with others become easier and others start flocking to you because they will wish that by being around you, somehow your happiness will rub off on them. Be your most confident self everyday!
As for the sex part it is hard to answer when I am a bit sleep deprived...
Like others have touched on here in previous posts sex between a husband and his wife is a gift from God that is meant to be beautiful. If you don’t jump the gun and have sex before marriage it might help you avoid some bad fights at the beginning, since living with someone for the first time can be tough. Everyone has their own way of doing things... but if you didn’t have premarital sex most likely you are going to want to be experimenting with each other instead of dealing with petty fights about a toilet seat.
Another version is that the man is supposed to be the spiritual leader in a relationship...if before they are married they engage in sex, he is committing adultery, since he is not married to that female. So if he is willing to disrespect God and the gf, who’s to say...if they do get married, he won’t committ adultery on his wife with another woman, since he already committed it before. (This is interchangeable I don’t mean just a man can, but a woman can do the same).
Then, there’s the in between standard people that wait until they are in love and really get to know each other for months before they engage in sexual activity. It is still a sin, but if God is looking at your heart at least he sees that you both respected & loved each other and have plans to get married, I think he would Forgive. Anyone that you couldn’t see marrying you and vice versa if you had an unplanned pregnancy, you probably shouldn’t be having sex with.
But cheating, one night stands, multiple-people at once, etc...in my book is just straight up sin...self-serving!
 
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@HistoryPrincess This thread is really long, but I think I skimmed and I think I got the jist of it...
My advice to you is don’t get discouraged, it is easy to spiral from discouraged, to depressed, and then creating a wall around yourself to keep others out. By maybe carrying yourself in an innaproachable manner and possibly unconsciously not trying to physically look your best. Sometimes you just have to tell yourself enough...from this day forward I will be the best version of myself and I will project my joy to world...it is that day when, conversations with others become easier and others start flocking to you because they will wish that by being around you, somehow your happiness will rub off on them. Be your most confident self everyday!
As for the sex part it is hard to answer when I am a bit sleep deprived...
Like others have touched on here in previous posts sex between a husband and his wife is a gift from God that is meant to be beautiful. If you don’t jump the gun and have sex before marriage it might help you avoid some bad fights at the beginning, since living with someone for the first time can be tough. Everyone has their own way of doing things... but if you didn’t have premarital sex most likely you are going to want to be experimenting with each other instead of dealing with petty fights about a toilet seat.
Another version is that the man is supposed to be the spiritual leader in a relationship...if before they are married they engage in sex, he is committing adultery, since he is not married to that female. So if he is willing to disrespect God and the gf, who’s to say...if they do get married, he won’t committ adultery on his wife with another woman, since he already committed it before. (This is interchangeable I don’t mean just a man can, but a woman can do the same).
Then, there’s the in between standard people that wait until they are in love and really get to know each other for months before they engage in sexual activity. It is still a sin, but if God is looking at your heart at least he sees that you both respected & loved each other and have plans to get married, I think he would Forgive. Anyone that you couldn’t see marrying you and vice versa if you had an unplanned pregnancy, you probably shouldn’t be having sex with.
But cheating, one night stands, multiple-people at once, etc...in my book is just straight up sin...self-serving!
Well, I've never been in love and have never been in a romantic relationship. I'm probably the only girl I know who hasn't.

By the way, the bible does not preach that the man is the "spiritual leader" of the relationship. I have researched those passages I know you're going to bring up, and it does not say what you think it says. Husbands and wives are to prefer one another before themselves. This idea of "spiritual leadership" in marriage is in fact an ancient and pagan idea. But that's for another forum. No one's changing my mind on this.
 
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Well, I've never been in love and have never been in a romantic relationship. I'm probably the only girl I know who hasn't.

Edit: As I keep saying to everyone here, I'm on the spectrum, so interacting with people in general has always been hard.

By the way, the bible does not preach that the man is the "spiritual leader" of the relationship. I have researched those passages I know you're going to bring up, and it does not say what you think it says. Husbands and wives are to prefer one another before themselves. This idea of "spiritual leadership" in marriage is in fact an ancient and pagan idea. But that's for another forum. No one's changing my mind on this.
 
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Well, I've never been in love and have never been in a romantic relationship. I'm probably the only girl I know who hasn't.

By the way, the bible does not preach that the man is the "spiritual leader" of the relationship. I have researched those passages I know you're going to bring up, and it does not say what you think it says. Husbands and wives are to prefer one another before themselves. This idea of "spiritual leadership" in marriage is in fact an ancient and pagan idea. But that's for another forum. No one's changing my mind on this.
You are still young, you should not be in a rush!
 

Tommy379

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No one has taught me to. Or taught me how, I should say.
I don't know if we're in proximity, or else I'd sign you up for the debutante ball.

I'm sure there is a YouTube video for it. Let me check.
 
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I don't know if we're in proximity, or else I'd sign you up for the debutante ball.

I'm sure there is a YouTube video for it. Let me check.
I appreciate your offer, but why would I want to wear an uncomfortable dress and a pound of makeup for a couple hours?
 
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No one has taught me to. Or taught me how, I should say.
If all else fails...just bake some treats!!!
Act with confidence, don’t take yourself too seriously, if they are funny make sure you make it obvious that you are enjoying their company, dress femininely (not to be confused with slutty-not that you would), be interesting by being yourself.
 
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If all else fails...just bake some treats!!!
Act with confidence, don’t take yourself too seriously, if they are funny make sure you make it obvious that you are enjoying their company, dress femininely (not to be confused with slutty-not that you would), be interesting by being yourself.
Yeah, slutty...hate that word.

Problem is, myself is very introverted and shy and doesn't often interrupt people 'cause I don't want to be rude. But hey, if people don't want me as I am, that's their loss.
 

Tommy379

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Make a friend that's the complete opposite of yourself.
 
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Yeah, slutty...hate that word.

Problem is, myself is very introverted and shy and doesn't often interrupt people 'cause I don't want to be rude. But hey, if people don't want me as I am, that's their loss.
But, there has to be a lag in the conversation at some point that you could add something to the conversation! Baby steps...
Yes, never change you.
 
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But, there has to be a lag in the conversation at some point that you could add something to the conversation! Baby steps...
Yes, never change you.
Plus I can never keep a person in conversation for longer than two sentences.

I was at a party the other night with my bible study class, and I might as well just not have been there. No one even looked at me.
 

Tommy379

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I think History princess is pulling our leg. I bet she is hot, and adored by all.